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xSweetCheeksx

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Effin timewasters!!!
« on: 15 April 2013, 10:16:48 pm »
So got a booking for 9.30 tonight, he turns up, an Asian guy in tracksuite bottoms. He seemed a little abrupt and before exchanging money he asked what I offer (states on the agency site full GFE) but he was pestering and pestering for bareback and I said I don't offer this service. He wouldn't shut up.trying to push me so I just said, no matter what I don't offer it but if you want to stay I need to get on with the booking as I have another client after (lie) and he said he doesn't want to bother if I won't do BB. Gutted I've wasted money on taxis yet again but I ain't risking my health for no amount of money. So pissed off, do I continue escortin and just persevere cause all I seem to be doing at the moment is throwing away money. I'mon call till midnight and chilling in the in call flat for a bit and hoping to god I get a booking so that I can salvage this night. Looking bleak though  :FF
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Re: Effin timewasters!!!
« Reply #1 on: 15 April 2013, 10:41:10 pm »
Evening :)

What a w***er eh. Hope you get a client later, chin up x
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xSweetCheeksx

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Re: Effin timewasters!!!
« Reply #2 on: 15 April 2013, 10:50:19 pm »
Thanks hun :) going home now, not got anything in the end. Next available Wednesday and Fri, so hope I get something cause if I waste anymore money I think I'll have no choice but to quit :( can't afford to be wasting money on taxis for nothing.
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What you call that?...Head over heels?"

Nobody Interesting

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Re: Effin timewasters!!!
« Reply #3 on: 15 April 2013, 10:52:50 pm »
Tricky....dare I suggest independent? x
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Re: Effin timewasters!!!
« Reply #4 on: 15 April 2013, 11:40:42 pm »
Tricky....dare I suggest independent? x

Yes you should definitely consider becoming independent, even alongside the agency work until you find your feet.

Ask yourself - imagine you had spoken to this timewaster on the phone yourself, may his attitude have come across? 9/10 times it does, and your TW radar goes off. Also, as an independent you can ask if they have requests or anything they'd like to ask over the phone, in which case he may have mentioned BB, then you would've said no and not wasted your time. Agencies can't answer many questions on your behalf, so I doubt they engage in that kind of conversation with the client, or may just agree to things that you don't offer to get the client through the door.

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Re: Effin timewasters!!!
« Reply #5 on: 15 April 2013, 11:48:38 pm »
Thanks for the replies, I'm considering independent but I'm going to think about it first. I just think there's pros and cons with both to be honest and I just feel like this next week or 2 is make or break cause I've honestly had no look what so ever. Some not being anything to do with the agency I.e me getting tonsilitis the first ever week I was suppose to start escorting. Sometimes I think all these things ate signs I shouldn't escorts but I dunno, I'm not ready to give up I don't think cause I have met some nice guys and I do enjoy the job and obviously the money helps out bug time.
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Re: Effin timewasters!!!
« Reply #6 on: 16 April 2013, 10:26:32 am »
I'm not ready to give up I don't think cause I have met some nice guys and I do enjoy the job and obviously the money helps out bug time.

Try and think of the postive statement above and hold on for a while before throwing the towel in as once you walk away you will find it a little harder to motivate yourself into coming back if you need to. It's not nice thinking you have paid out for something rather than made money but that is part and parcel of escorting sometimes you lose out other times you are on a roll.
Don't let some idiot put you off working either. As time goes on you will not be bothered by people like that you will just get on with what you have to do to earn money and just turn away people that try to bend your rules.
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Re: Effin timewasters!!!
« Reply #7 on: 16 April 2013, 10:44:27 am »
Sweetcheeks, things might pick up now that schools are back too.  Holidays like this do have a big impact on our work unfortunately.
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Re: Effin timewasters!!!
« Reply #8 on: 16 April 2013, 02:41:26 pm »
If probably get really angry and asking him what the fuck is the matter with him?! Doesn't he give a shit about HIV?!?! Ahhhhh really gets to me!

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Re: Effin timewasters!!!
« Reply #9 on: 16 April 2013, 11:50:05 pm »
Thanks for the replies guys :) feeling better now cause I wasn't on call today bit still got a booking which I took woo.

MissKylie, totally agree. Winds me up so much. I did say to him that i could have allsorts for all he knows. Still didn't seem to give a crap. What is wrong with these people!?!
"Valley girls giving Blow jobs for Louboutins,
What you call that?...Head over heels?"