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ladyofthemansion

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Is this guy rude or is it just me.
« on: 26 February 2016, 05:23:51 pm »
Had problem last week. My work iPhone froze and got it fixed at Apple shop but lost all my contacts, guys I had promised to contact on the day they booked with the address.

Been not too bad. Most guys just texting to ask if all still on as they haven't heard from me and I apologised and explained what happened.

Then today I get a text saying "I take it you don't want my money as you never got back to me with your details"

So I explained what happened but not sure I want to see him now as I didn't like his text. On the other hand he could think I am also a timewasters.
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Rosie13

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Re: Is this guy rude or is it just me.
« Reply #1 on: 26 February 2016, 05:34:24 pm »
If you don't have previous for time wasting, I wouldn't worry about it. I don't really like the tone of the message either and if something irks me, I know already that I won't enjoy the meeting. X

BlaqHarlot

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Re: Is this guy rude or is it just me.
« Reply #2 on: 26 February 2016, 05:35:54 pm »
I would say "After that text you're right I don't want your money, have a nice day"
I personally don't tolerate anyone throwing their toys out the pram over something small, he could've sent a text asking if you are still seeing him and if you're okay but he decided to have attitude. Any attitude I avoid and don't book to be honest, saves you the hassle!
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KDB

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Re: Is this guy rude or is it just me.
« Reply #3 on: 26 February 2016, 07:29:06 pm »
Well if he's coming across as so obtuse at this stage then I would be not be inclined to meet and tend to send such people the "I'm sorry you feel that way and hope you find what you are looking for" message.

Emma_C

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Re: Is this guy rude or is it just me.
« Reply #4 on: 27 February 2016, 10:28:42 am »
I avoid anyone who appears passive aggressive like that. It's not worth the anxiety of entertaining them & they're bound to piss you off in the booking.

littleminxjennifer

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Re: Is this guy rude or is it just me.
« Reply #5 on: 27 February 2016, 11:23:51 am »
What emma (and others) said

i wouldn't see him as i don't like his tone.  i found it very rude.  that said, its often difficult to understand a tone through text or written message, so if he was to try again in a better manner, i'd maybe let him call and take what markers i could from his voice before completely writing him off.

personally, i wouldn't have responded to that text though, even with an explanation.

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Re: Is this guy rude or is it just me.
« Reply #6 on: 27 February 2016, 01:15:14 pm »
I think you've had a lucky escape from him x

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Re: Is this guy rude or is it just me.
« Reply #7 on: 27 February 2016, 02:33:30 pm »
I think his text came across as pretty curt and rude.I could understand him asking how come you hadn't sent him the details but not how he worded it.Most normal folk would have sent something like this 'Hi,I was booked in at soandso time and you said you would send the details but I haven't been sent anything could you let me know what's happening?'

ladyofthemansion

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Re: Is this guy rude or is it just me.
« Reply #8 on: 27 February 2016, 02:35:38 pm »
I think his text came across as pretty curt and rude.I could understand him asking how come you hadn't sent him the details but not how he worded it.Most normal folk would have sent something like this 'Hi,I was booked in at soandso time and you said you would send the details but I haven't been sent anything could you let me know what's happening?'

That's what most of the other guys did. x
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sultress000

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Re: Is this guy rude or is it just me.
« Reply #9 on: 27 February 2016, 02:48:16 pm »
Yep, agree with everyone else. He is a Saddo.Avoid anyone who messages that way.

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Re: Is this guy rude or is it just me.
« Reply #10 on: 27 February 2016, 04:29:07 pm »
You dodged a bullet with him, once I detect anything rude or boundary pushing it puts me off big time and I then refuse all contact.

carachameleon

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Re: Is this guy rude or is it just me.
« Reply #11 on: 29 February 2016, 04:23:28 am »
Rude definitely. I might think it in my head but I will never ever vocalise it