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lili69

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Think I might have made a judgement error
« on: 13 June 2012, 03:25:13 pm »
I just got a meeting enquiry on AW.  the guy seemed pretty eloquent, but said that if I wanted to read his feedback he would unlock it for me.  Locked feedback always gets my spidey sense going.  anyway I replied and asked why his feedback was locked (just being nosey really!).  He said he doesn't like his girlfriend or anyone else he knows to see what he's been getting up to.  I replied and said I didn't want to meet (because it just seemed a bit odd).  He seemed pretty hacked off with me when I replied.  I'm not really bothered, but I am wondering if I've just sent away a genuine punter.

I never really question my instincts, I just go with them.  If something seems a little off I don't agree to it.

I just wonder if my TW radar got it wrong this time.... ?

casey_kisses

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Re: Think I might have made a judgement error
« Reply #1 on: 13 June 2012, 03:34:13 pm »
You won't ever know the answer to that question.

Howver his excuse doesn't really add up; if he has a profile and his girlfriend saw it I'm sure that would land him in enough trouble without her having to see the feedback.

I'd have done the same thing  :)

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
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CassieM

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Re: Think I might have made a judgement error
« Reply #2 on: 13 June 2012, 03:36:09 pm »
I wouldn't worry too much - him getting ratty would put me off as well actually... If he'd said sorta "oh, fair enough, shame" or similar it'd seem a bit more trustworthy?

lili69

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Re: Think I might have made a judgement error
« Reply #3 on: 13 June 2012, 05:35:35 pm »
Thanks ladies, that's exactly what I thought.  It's nice to know that others had the same opninion as me.  I think its keep yourself grounded in this industry :)

xxx

Dani

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Re: Think I might have made a judgement error
« Reply #4 on: 13 June 2012, 06:41:25 pm »
It does not matter if he was genuine or not as the moment we get that 'feeling' then we would never enjoy the booking anyway if it went ahead as would be wondering if anything was going to happen
Truth is far more important than what one wants to hear. With truth there is no us and them or colour or religion there is just fact

Emma152

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Re: Think I might have made a judgement error
« Reply #5 on: 13 June 2012, 07:00:59 pm »
Hi

I got the same email today too. He wanted a 3 hour booking. I would not do one of the services, so he did not book me, but he was very polite about it.

Emma

lili69

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Re: Think I might have made a judgement error
« Reply #6 on: 14 June 2012, 08:17:15 pm »
Hi

I got the same email today too. He wanted a 3 hour booking. I would not do one of the services, so he did not book me, but he was very polite about it.

Emma


was it the toe sucking?  I didn't fancy that either!

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Re: Think I might have made a judgement error
« Reply #7 on: 15 June 2012, 10:48:55 am »
You have the right to turn down clients, yes sometimes you might get it wrong but it's your choice.

XxAnnaliseXx

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Re: Think I might have made a judgement error
« Reply #8 on: 15 June 2012, 10:54:34 pm »
No reason to block feedback unless it says something really bad. I know one who blocked it after a girl said he'd given her herpes.

Always worried me when I saw the number going up as it meant people were seeing him and hadn't read it.

If its someone being malicious and their honest, visible feedback nd a response always makes me consider it (within reason)

Emma152

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Re: Think I might have made a judgement error
« Reply #9 on: 16 June 2012, 03:18:42 pm »
@ Lilli

Yes it was...there was no way I was doing that...but it was something he really wanted xxxx