I was going to wait until the end of the year (while I'm trying to raise some capital) before de-selecting outcalls off my ad, but I have one tonight and have decided I don't want to do them anymore.

Even if the location is close by and I know the area, I don't feel I can be bothered with them as much. I used to like the excitement of going to a nice hotel/house but prefer the ease and comfort of incalls these days.

I will probably still see clients that have already booked me but don't think I want to continue with them. Occasionally they have been useful for topping me up but I get so few anyway now. Probably one a week, if that.

I did away with them too a while ago and can honestly say I haven't missed them.
Like you I just began to feel like I couldn't be bothered. I'm able to do more incalls now so haven't suffered financially from dropping them.

When I was down south I did precisely two outcalls in 3.75 years. I haven't done any since moving north and I've just taken them off the menu completely. I would only do them to local hotels but keep getting asked to travel far and wide, and I just don't have the time with my civvy work load.

Thanks for the suggestion, I might just look at referring them on!

I fucking HATE outcalls. What should be an hours session turns into 3 by the time I factor in the getting ready, then going there & back. I’ve radically upped my OC travel charge bc of that; I’m not sitting in a car for 2 hours for an hour or 90 minute booking. I divide that payment into the time & it’s like ..... jeez o Pete.

I also had cpl of bad experiences last year with not being able to get an Uber/Lyft/taxi last summer at the height of Covid & was stuck at the clients house for an extra 1/2 hour both times. The 1st guy said great, let’s go back to the bedroom! I said great! That’s another X amount of $$, & he was PISSED. He then proceeded to start looking for rideshares, & of course HE found 1🤦🏼‍♀️. Then bitched bc he was having to pay for it🙄🙄. I literally threw $20 of HIS $$ at him & said, “Thanks for your generosity.”

The 2nd client was actually ok & offered to drive me back to the hotel & I accepted bc my gut was all right with it. I kept my safety partner informed the entire & gave HIM $20 for being sweet.

I’m verrrrry sketched out about OCs these days ~ I should add this is residential, hotels are ok.

CelesteM yes if you have to be at the clients home for extra time whilst you wait on getting picked up then they always think that means extra play time and don’t seem to get that it’s not, I had a man get pissy with me about it and I told him I would wait for my taxi in the street then and he said that was okay, it was about 3am and I had to wait for 40 mins outside in the pitch black as he didn’t want me standing directly outside his home, where I actually felt safer, prick.

That sounds awful, TT.  Who raised these men?  I don't think I would have resisted the urge to noticeably stand next to his front door and enjoy a few fags while waiting. Might have knocked a few times, just to make sure he was okay inside.

CelesteM yes if you have to be at the clients home for extra time whilst you wait on getting picked up then they always think that means extra play time and don’t seem to get that it’s not, I had a man get pissy with me about it and I told him I would wait for my taxi in the street then and he said that was okay, it was about 3am and I had to wait for 40 mins outside in the pitch black as he didn’t want me standing directly outside his home, where I actually felt safer, prick.

I always pre order a taxi to avoid this situation

Celeste, I agree with Thickthighs, about pre ordering the taxi.

I get the client to prepay both legs of the trip, he books it in my 'name' with my phone number as the sole contact. He must read me the two booking numbers. So I'm in control and can summon the cab earlier or later to suit me. I double check all my requests are met with the cab company before I leave.

Once he's done the booking he's got no involvement in my transport.