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Luciexx

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #60 on: 17 December 2016, 08:50:02 pm »
l.  1 guy kept asking me what my real name was and I said there's no point having a working name if I'm going to tell you my real name & he said "why is it something really old like Mary or something"?!!! Wtf?!! 😯😯
. Some wgs give out a name, any.  I often wondered why they want to know the real name. A whole new thread coming on?  :)

Shewolf

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #61 on: 17 December 2016, 09:19:52 pm »
They want to know your real name so they can edge closer to gaining control over you to the point you will have sex with them for free  ;D

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #62 on: 18 December 2016, 02:47:15 am »
They want to know your real name so they can edge closer to gaining control over you to the point you will have sex with them for free !!

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Luciexx

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #63 on: 18 December 2016, 01:51:06 pm »
They want to know your real name so they can edge closer to gaining control over you to the point you will have sex with them for free  ;D

There's so much truth in that.   :)

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #64 on: 18 December 2016, 02:57:10 pm »
They want to know your real name so they can edge closer to gaining control over you to the point you will have sex with them for free  ;D

I've not found a particular correlation between wanting to know my real name, and trying for freebies. I have noticed it's often men who will try 'share' their life, or try to manipulate whether wanting my real name or not.

Luciexx

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #65 on: 18 December 2016, 04:27:23 pm »
There are men who want an LTR and use escorts when they are single (whether this is really true or not).  They suddenly "met" an escort and he thinks "oh well, she seems ok..let's see what her real name is?" Not sure that's how it works inside their hard male skull.

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #66 on: 23 December 2016, 05:51:00 am »
Most of the single men I meet in escorting seem shut down and off the boil in terms of finding a LTR I have not found many who would be seeking a girlfriend.  Plenty of people these days simply do not want relationships it would seem.  Me included.

It does annoy me when they ask intrusive questions however.  I don't ask them too much e.g. do you have a wife, how many children do you have etc.  Nothing to do with me unless they wish to bring it up.  I sometimes ask them what sector they are in if they seem particularly interesting and intelligent however.

My pet hate question is when they ask 'Why are you doing this'.  I detest being asked that!  Don't they realise it is totally inappropraite to ask somebody this when you have only just met them!  We don't ask them why are they visiting after all ......!

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #67 on: 22 January 2017, 11:35:21 pm »
I've not found a particular correlation between wanting to know my real name, and trying for freebies. I have noticed it's often men who will try 'share' their life, or try to manipulate whether wanting my real name or not.
Mirror you talk sense...
Yep I have a few that genuinely want a confident of sorts and happily talk about their families, exciting things etc .
As far as I'm concerned I'm a 'virtual' girlfriend with no strings, threats etc it's a cathartic release from mundane life for some.
I keep my business by remembering their brothers sisters names etc , or a holiday they've been on ....sometimes however I can't remember even their names while they're there phew http://

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #68 on: 23 January 2017, 09:26:07 pm »
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My pet hate question is when they ask 'Why are you doing this'.  I detest being asked that!  Don't they realise it is totally inappropraite to ask somebody this when you have only just met them!  We don't ask them why are they visiting after all ......!

Answer them: 'because I have a strong stomach'.
That'll shut them up  ;D

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #69 on: 23 January 2017, 11:10:07 pm »
Answer them: 'because I have a strong stomach'.
That'll shut them up  ;D
Excellent ! I'll remember that lmao

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #70 on: 24 January 2017, 08:03:45 am »
My pet hate question is when they ask 'Why are you doing this'.  I detest being asked that!  Don't they realise it is totally inappropraite to ask somebody this when you have only just met them!  We don't ask them why are they visiting after all ......!

Maybe you should LB, just throw it back at them  ;)

Normally them trying to gauge if you are enjoying it I find. If I lose enthusiasm for a few minutes or don't like them & they pick up on it. So I just reply with a question back at them. "Why do you think I'm doing it?" Usually shuts them up. This is contingent on my mood of course lol I'll sometimes do the sales orientated thing & say in a facetious tone how much I love sex & can't get enough cock.

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #71 on: 08 February 2017, 02:00:17 pm »
It doesn't annoy me in the slightest. I am a person, they are a person. If I was chatting or getting to know a stranger (especially if they are a repeat I am seeing), I would ask them personal questions. It's like being stuck on a broken down train or bus next to someone and needing to fill in time - what are you going to do inbetween having sex?

I hate small talk with a passion. I would much rather have a real conversation, if it involves personal details about myself, so be it. I have nothing to hide, I don't see why I should. Neither do they, most people don't have the slightest negative intention - they are there to get their rocks off and there because they like you; they are married and want to go home and keep you as a positive thought and fantasy at most. I can manage creepy weirdos. The job carries a risk, I knew that before going into it. I'm not going to tell them my mothers maiden name, the first street I grew up on, where my sister works, my boyfriends surname and what gym I go to. Clients generally are happy to reveal as much about themselves, people like to talk, I don't see the issue. I go with the flow.

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #72 on: 08 February 2017, 05:05:02 pm »
Let's see now, questions and replies in brackets lol

Are you married? (I don't talk about my personal life to clients)
Does your husband/bf know what you do? (I don't talk about my personal life to clients)
Does your family know what you do? (That's my business)
Aren't you worried about you're family/local priest/jesus christ finding out what you do? NO
Bet you earn loads!! (That's my business)
Do you own this house? (That's my business)

Betcha you have never seen a cock this big before, all the while slapping his hard on in my direction (he was useless in bed he was too, fucked like a jackhammer, all the while trying to ask about 3 sums, orgies, if I had been to any, how would he get invited to some parties, could he go with me lol - NO)
My reply to this tosser was actually, it's not the biggest around love, see far bigger ones every day

Can I make you cum? (You can try)
You must really love sex to do this job? (I do yes)
Have you kids? (That's my business)
Do they know? (That's my business)
What do your neighbours think of all the strange cars parked outside your house? (They mind their business, just as I mind mine) and why do all clients ask that question after they have shot their loads?? You don't seem to care when you're arriving at my house..
Have you ever been hurt doing this job? (That's my business)
Robbed? (That's my business)
Had many creepy men ring you? (That's my business)
Had any creepy men rob you? (That's my business)
How many dogs have you got?  ( 5)
Are they vicious? (YES)
What made you get into this job? ( I fancied a change of career)
What do you like about it? ( seeing fucking idiots who ask stupid questions)

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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #73 on: 09 February 2017, 12:07:10 am »
Definitely does. It's funny cuz they are always the ones who try to dodge your questions too. Want to ask me where I live, where I study,where my parents are from, how many clients I  see but when I ask you if you live in so and so place and if you work there too you they don't want to answer.  meanwhile not knowing I have your real full name  ::)they"re just walking jokes :FF make me fucking sick  :-X always have your fake story ready. ::) sigh
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Re: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.?
« Reply #74 on: 09 February 2017, 05:15:39 am »
Eh, I just take it as an invitation to make up crazy shit.

If I trip up and tell the same person two different stories, I just say, "Yeah... I lie a lot." and crack up.

It's annoying, but might as well make a game of it.