Author Topic: Does it annoy you when clients ask personal questions etc.? (Read 13534 times)

ScottishSexpot · « **Reply #45 on:** 13 December 2016, 10:53:47 pm »

Quote from: mature helen on 13 December 2016, 10:48:51 pm

I think its because they don't mind giving us money for a service for us to fritter away on shiny things, shoes and lippy etc but they don't like to think of their cash going into another mans pocket especially someone who gets to fuck us for free.

Mmmn I never really thought of this. They shouldn't really assume that our boyfriends are living off of us because its not always the case.

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #46 on:** 14 December 2016, 09:57:09 am »

Quote from: ScottishSexpot on 13 December 2016, 09:33:54 pm

A client once told me that clients (he was generalising) hate finding out that us WG's have other halves as they get offended because they then know for a fact that we do this job for the cash; well in that case they shouldn't ask, simple.

Bollocks. Most of my clients who ask then go on to start fantasising about having a threesome with me and my BF.

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #47 on:** 14 December 2016, 12:51:47 pm »

My attitude to what clients do and do not like to hear is tough titty don't be nosy then.There is no right answer if you say you are single they sometimes start nattering you for a date,if you say you are with someone they either ask if they know etc or ask if they can have an mmf.

FellowTraveller · « **Reply #48 on:** 14 December 2016, 12:57:11 pm »

Quote from: BibiofLeeds on 14 December 2016, 12:51:47 pm

My attitude to what clients do and do not like to hear is tough titty don't be nosy then.There is no right answer if you say you are single they sometimes start nattering you for a date,if you say you are with someone they either ask if they know etc or ask if they can have an mmf.

What I've learned to say over time is that I don't answer personal questions. If they don't like it tough. I hate it when they think they have the right to know stuff like...are you married, how much do you pay in rent (I mean really!), how much do you earn (none of your business)...

I used to make stuff up or be honest just to vary it but then they would inevitably follow on with further intrusive questions, so no more.

ScottishSexpot · « **Reply #49 on:** 14 December 2016, 07:45:27 pm »

Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 14 December 2016, 09:57:09 am

Bollocks. Most of my clients who ask then go on to start fantasising about having a threesome with me and my BF.

Oh I've never once had anyone ask me that, I've just had "and what does he think about you doing this" type questions & a client told a girl in the sauna I worked in that he stopped going with me because he heard me talking about my boyfriend to another girl & he felt like HE was contributing to my cheating on my man!! Oh lord 😂😂😂

FellowTraveller · « **Reply #50 on:** 14 December 2016, 07:59:54 pm »

Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 14 December 2016, 09:57:09 am

Bollocks. Most of my clients who ask then go on to start fantasising about having a threesome with me and my BF.

Yes that's very common or 'do you have a male/female friend...

carachameleon · « **Reply #51 on:** 15 December 2016, 07:58:51 am »

It doesn't annoy me when clients ask personal questions. I can't blame them if they are curious and understand why they might find me fascinating. I often answer as honest as I can as most are genuine questions.

It only bothers me if they or their attitudes are rude or condescending.

jett-setta-go-getta · « **Reply #52 on:** 15 December 2016, 01:35:29 pm »

it is so very annoying and rude I find asking the same awkward question back at them shuts them right up

HelenaB · « **Reply #53 on:** 15 December 2016, 06:33:43 pm »

Quote from: jett-setta-go-getta on 15 December 2016, 01:35:29 pm

it is so very annoying and rude I find asking the same awkward question back at them shuts them right up

I like doing this too

Nia Hope · « **Reply #54 on:** 15 December 2016, 06:45:11 pm »

Quote from: HelenaB on 15 December 2016, 06:33:43 pm

I like doing this too

Me too, if they ask if I'm married I ask if they are, just answer their question with the same question, it soon shuts them up.

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #55 on:** 15 December 2016, 08:53:06 pm »

Quote from: carachameleon on 15 December 2016, 07:58:51 am

I can't blame them if they are curious and understand why they might find me fascinating.

Me too, after all I am fabulous <tosses hair>

In all honesty I don't mind if they ask questions. I won't answer any questions about my family, but i'll happily chat (shite) about where I live, civvy jobs I've had, how I got into escorting, what I do for fun, etc. It's just chit chat and half the time I think they're only asking to make conversation anyway.

xSweetCheeksx · « **Reply #56 on:** 16 December 2016, 03:23:59 pm »

Quote from: FellowTraveller on 14 December 2016, 12:57:11 pm

What I've learned to say over time is that I don't answer personal questions. If they don't like it tough. I hate it when they think they have the right to know stuff like...are you married, how much do you pay in rent (I mean really!), how much do you earn (none of your business)...

I used to make stuff up or be honest just to vary it but then they would inevitably follow on with further intrusive questions, so no more.

I agree. Recently a seriously irritating client who's always asking me out for a drink despite me always telling him i don't see clients outside of work asked me how much i earn. I just said 'how much do you earn?'. Basically my point was taken. It's so rude!

I hate clients knowing anything about my personal life. I like to keep the 2 seperate. When I'm working, i'm not me, I'm putting on an act. So essentially an actress and with that comes me lying when they ask personal questions. Just living up to my fake persona as i don't want them knowing anything about me. The amount of times I've had clients ask what my real name is and what area of my city do i live in. Like hell do I want people knowing my real name. A couple of clients "think" they know my real name. They asked and as i don't like confrontation i just always give them a fake name i.e 'Sophie' and then they have the nerve to text me saying 'Hi Sophie, are you available today'. That's why I'm so glad i have a fake back up name. I don't want clients texting me thinking they're something special referring to me by my real name. If i wanted clients knowing my real name then my AW profile would refer to my real name!

Occasionally i have found myself saying things about my private life after they've asked and I've completely regretted it straight after. I like them to know as little as possible about my life.

ScottishSexpot · « **Reply #57 on:** 16 December 2016, 05:02:24 pm »

Quote from: xSweetCheeksx on 16 December 2016, 03:23:59 pm

I agree. Recently a seriously irritating client who's always asking me out for a drink despite me always telling him i don't see clients outside of work asked me how much i earn. I just said 'how much do you earn?'. Basically my point was taken. It's so rude!

I hate clients knowing anything about my personal life. I like to keep the 2 seperate. When I'm working, i'm not me, I'm putting on an act. So essentially an actress and with that comes me lying when they ask personal questions. Just living up to my fake persona as i don't want them knowing anything about me. The amount of times I've had clients ask what my real name is and what area of my city do i live in. Like hell do I want people knowing my real name. A couple of clients "think" they know my real name. They asked and as i don't like confrontation i just always give them a fake name i.e 'Sophie' and then they have the nerve to text me saying 'Hi Sophie, are you available today'. That's why I'm so glad i have a fake back up name. I don't want clients texting me thinking they're something special referring to me by my real name. If i wanted clients knowing my real name then my AW profile would refer to my real name!

Occasionally i have found myself saying things about my private life after they've asked and I've completely regretted it straight after. I like them to know as little as possible about my life.

You are so right, I've had 3 clients from AW ask me what my rent was and 1 of them actually texted me this question when he was making a booking and I said 'this is a personal question and totally irrelevant to making a booking' and he replied that yes I was right & he was sorry and guess what I never seen or heard from him again and prior to this he had been booking me every week for about 3 months! I don't know if he was embarrased or put out that I burst his bubble in the sense that its just a business transaction.

I had another client whom I told I had a very demanding day job (I don't but this is my 'back story' and lo & behold he wrote what my day job was in a review on the punting forum thats the same layout as this one!!! My god why mention that & after reading it I thought to myself thank god I don't really do that job!!

Also when a client knows your real name or at least think they do then they just LOVE to say it and I think they know they are being annoying; well some anyway obviously not all. 1 guy kept asking me what my real name was and I said there's no point having a working name if I'm going to tell you my real name & he said "why is it something really old like Mary or something"?!!! Wtf?!! 😯😯

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #58 on:** 17 December 2016, 03:15:07 pm »

Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 14 December 2016, 09:57:09 am

Bollocks. Most of my clients who ask then go on to start fantasising about having a threesome with me and my BF.

And I get the "Mmm, can I see you after you've had sex with him so I can lick his spunk out of you/lick you clean?" requests. I don't bareback ANYONE and that includes my husband, so sampling any 'cream pie' is definitely off the menu! (and yeah, I *could* fake it, but to be honest, the thought of someone snaffling about down there trying to get every last drop, like a pig snorting for truffles in the undergrowth, actually turns my stomach. Just...no.)

Luciexx · « **Reply #59 on:** 17 December 2016, 08:41:09 pm »

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