To be fair I suppose its not always what they say, its the way its said and the motive behind it. A lot of guys I meet with are just very friendly, and as we get talking the conversation is natural, but then there are the odd few others who come across as rude and you start to feel as if you're being quizzed by the gestapo, it becomes apparent that they're just asking loads of shit to try and make me feel uncomfortable with the disapproving looks and sly comments. As soon as I realise this is whats happening I just turn all the questions back on them.