I love this! I'm not sure I've been working long enough for this to happen...have you been working for decades?

Yes, I started when I was 17, became high volume at 19-20, and am in my 30s today.  The most important relationship status is between my client's wallet and my bank account, but a girl deserves some fun too.

All that matters is how they are with me, and I've not noticed a correlation between boundaries and whether a punter is married or not. Some of the most indiscrete, disrespectful, rude, trying for things I don't do, refusing to leave or let me leave afterwards have been married/are married. Quite a few very nervous someone will find out, yet committed some of the worst indiscretions. At least as much as those who are single.

To me discretion, boundaries, thought put in is very individual.

It doesn't turn me on at all if a client is married but i find the married ones will not bother me inbetween bookings or ask me to go on a date outside of a paid session or send flirty messages. Also sex is not the most intimate thing in a marriage, Many married men I see love their wives and there's many reasons why some women go off the sexual part of a relationship. What I find a turn off is when a married man talks disrespectful about his partner during a booking. I don't feel bad about the wives because it's not a intimate affair it's sex and a bit of chat and I'm not looking to break up a relationship . Actually recently on a night out I had 3 different married men chatting me up and I put them straight that I was not interested especially when one started to touch me up. My civvy friend took one of the married guys home with her knowing he was married. Everyone is different, In my personal life I'd never get involved with a married guy. They can pay me but that's about as close as I get, I'd prefer not to know if honest. Some women and men get a kick out of having someone else's partner, Turning their head. The married guys I see just want to feel good and wanted for that booking.

I really dont care if they are in a relationship or not. The only time it bothers me is if they are looking for an outcall to their home and go on about their partner being out as that just stresses me out about them potentially coming home early

Nope. Their status doesn’t bother me in the slightest and more often that not, I’d never know anyway. So long as they pay and behave with me, that’s all that matters.

I have mixed feelings, but only in as much as, I do feel a bit sorry for the 'in theory wife', but I also am very critical about the institution of marriage and all the social baggage that comes with it, so of course - and not that this is the question - I'm not going to stop doing something that offends a phenomenon that I don't care for.

I don't get turned on by married guys, but when I have sexual fantasies privately, I sometimes fantasise about the idea of having sex with taken men. Taboos get people off. I don't think the thought has ever come to my head when I'm actually doing the dirty though. I don't suppose it does you any harm if it gives you a bit of a frisson during the booking, but I'd be careful maybe to not let it 'get to your head' too much, you know, after you've finished/ start suffering from Mistress syndrome (needing to have these fantasies to feel more attractive than other women/ sexual competitiveness) and all that.

When I know a client is married I usually feel safer