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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: geordiegal84 on 06 June 2014, 04:21:17 pm
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Hey, my first post. :)
I've been an indy in the NE for around 3 months and have had mostly good clients.. I find the easiest clients are young guys as I think they're easier to please and don't expect much. Most treat me really well and are respectful. I had one guy, more of a "lad", who was quite aggressive/rough but told him to calm down before I throw him out >:(
I don't mind the older guys but I seem more relaxed with the young guys - around 20-25
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Hey, my first post. :)
I've been an indy in the NE for around 3 months and have had mostly good clients.. I find the easiest clients are young guys as I think they're easier to please and don't expect much. Most treat me really well and are respectful. I had one guy, more of a "lad", who was quite aggressive/rough but told him to calm down before I throw him out >:(
I don't mind the older guys but I seem more relaxed with the young guys - around 20-25
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My experience is the opposite, many younger men tend to want to go on and on asking every question under the sun, won't phone, want me to work at times I am not available, shorter than short appointment, discount, oh and their ages starts to rapidly come down after asking if I'd see an 18 year old, they say they are 16 'but it's legal and I'm a paying customer like anyone else'. Also had one younger guy demand his train ticket be refunded because I cancelled when he confirmed 40 minutes late (he'd been a text pest, demanding, wanting discount, ask 100 questions). He got really quite heavy. Others have contacted me expecting discount because they are 'young and fit with a big cock that I'm going to bang you with'.
Out of the younger clients I have actually met most have been fine, just as nice as any other age - but they'd have to be because I just wouldn't have gone through with their booking otherwise.
So in person just as nice as older men, at enquiry stage a far greater proportion of younger men are rude, and a general pain in the neck.
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hi
i find they don't know what they wan(quote except hot sex ) and ask lots of questions and they think because they are quote young and fit i will do a booking when ever they want and be so greatful ;D
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No I'm opposite, I work in NE too, I find the older ones are more comfortable with themselves and a lot of younger expect some kind of porn performance while they lie like a sack of spuds
Also find them less respectful
Of course this is just a generalisation, good and bad in both groups
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I like them as on the whole they have been nothing but respectful to me. I admit I have sometimes judged them when they walk in and think they are like jack the lad and won't pay or something but this hasn't been the case.
Most of the older ones are great too but most of the problems I have had have been with the older ones.
The main bad thing I have found is that it's always the old ones who have requested bareback, which I don't do. I have never been asked for bb from a young one. It's not often they try it but the 10 or so times over the years have mainly been from over 50s and who try to rub against you with no condom.
I think the young get given a hard time and some of us think that they are gonna be rough and all the old guys soft and gentle. I'm not a wimp and can stand a bit of hard play but some older ones want to prove they've still got it and can be rough or push boundaries. Also they have been the ones that insist I come ::). Just my experience :)
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I have a bad experience with the younger ones who are so immature. The mature gentleman knows how to respect and for fill my needs. To many no shows so only see 30 plus now to save the hassle. I always ask the younger their age. As you get older the young are less appealing. It is more like kids in the playground.
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I agree with most of the girls here- I seem to get more trouble from younger clients than older ones.
I have quite a few regulars under 30 who are wonderful, polite and respectful etc. However; I get a lot of enquiries from younger guys that really get my back up, I despise arrogance and the common theme in the emails from younger guys is- "I'm fit and young with a big cock, so you'll enjoy yourself too" like I should drop to my knees and be grateful for their custom!! And does anyone else hate it when a young guy asks you (usually after the booking when getting dressed) "Do you get many young clients like me? Aren't all your other clients slimy old business men?"- and they're actually genuinely surprised to hear that my regular clientele is a mixed bunch, and its obvious the answer they're expecting is along the lines of "Oh no babe, they're all ugly old weird men. I never get young or attractive clients, thank you for your custom and please come back"...
Whereas more mature gentlemen tend to be just that- gentlemen. Of course they're not all great and as with the younger ones the odd Wanker does slip through the net, but they seem to have manners and courtesy which goes a long way with me.
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i prefer older also. ,i try to avoid under 30's.
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Yes some of the ones over the phone or text enquiring are horrendous. From all ages but more young but they don't pass my initial screening anyway. The ones that have though have mostly been good ones. When I answer the phone the recognisable TWs usually say in a low voice "hello" and nothing else follows. However TW emails from AW seem to be from all ages judging by their profiles.
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I dunno I seem to get trouble from all ages. Maturity isn't measured from age and the age group I seem to get the most trouble with is people in their late thirties but then again my fave clients are all in their late thirties. It may just be a fact that you find younger clients easier as you are more attracted to them?
I think it's very easy to try and put people in boxes to say "oh he's young he'ok be trouble" but a quick scope of the warning section lets you know that you just can't tell by their age. Just as you won't be able to tell who is going to give you a knee trembler!
I digress, what's important to me is attitude and there are an awful lot of old heads on young shoulders out there
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I tend to attract older clients which was a shock for me when I first started as I had only dated up to 6-7 years my senior. I seem to have better chemistry with 40-65 year olds, I really like when a man is interested in my mind, I think the sex is so much more passionate :-*
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Definitely not, I only see men over 25 and up to 65. Even in my personal life I won't date anyone under 25, i just like real men not young guys.
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No I prefer 30's plus if I am honest. Most of the timewasters and general dickheads I get tend to be under 30. I find they either lay there like a sack of spuds and give me monosyllabic answers or they have got their experience from hardcore porn and think sex with an actual woman should be just like that i.e facefucking,anal and generally being quite rough and silly.
Of course there are exceptions but as a rule this has been my experience. Give me a mature fella anyday who is a bit more gentle and friendlier.
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No I prefer 30's plus if I am honest. Most of the timewasters and general dickheads I get tend to be under 30. I find they either lay there like a sack of spuds and give me monosyllabic answers or they have got their experience from hardcore porn and think sex with an actual woman should be just like that i.e facefucking,anal and generally being quite rough and silly.
Of course there are exceptions but as a rule this has been my experience. Give me a mature fella anyday who is a bit more gentle and friendlier.
100% the same for me! Couldn't of said it better x
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I agree, its the older clients for me who have enjoyed things like face Fucking and Dom services which I tend not to offer. I've never had any problems with younger clients apart from the odd one on drugs, even then they are respectful and seem to genuinely want you to enjoy it as much as them. Plus it always helps if you are actually attracted to the client, I would never date anyone 50+. X
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I gotta admit to preferring the younger guys, but for me that's about everyone anyway.
Dickheads get filed under "dickheads" and don't get seen at all irrespective of their age.
I find that the younger ones I did see (18-45 yrs) were respectful, I don't know if it was because of my age or not. When younger guys come to see the older ladies it's because they have a fetish for older ladies and it shines through (this might not happen to younger lassies) and a good time is had.
I find that older guys tend to kiss like wet fish or even worse, just purse their lips and expect some life (a bit like them in Emmerdale lately). Not good and when it comes to their sperm I'm not even going to go there at breakfast time. I never have the sperm problem with the younger ones. :D
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Definitely not, I only see men over 25 and up to 65. Even in my personal life I won't date anyone under 25, i just like real men not young guys.
Id found similar Kylie as guys under 25 just didn't turn up or couldn't afford the rate over 25yrs was far better and reliable and had cash no hassles so far so good ..
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I find that older guys tend to kiss like wet fish or even worse, just purse their lips and expect some life (a bit like them in Emmerdale lately). Not good and when it comes to their sperm I'm not even going to go there at breakfast time. I never have the sperm problem with the younger ones. :D
Ha ha i find that to be the case too. In fact i had an older gent come and see me today who managed to strip the lower half of my face completely of make up when slobbering on kissing me.
That being said, i do prefer the older guys and don't like seeing anybody under 25 for a lot of the same reasons that the other ladies have mentioned. Not only that, i'm from a small town and don't want to bump into somebody i could know through friends etc.
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I gotta admit to preferring the younger guys, but for me that's about everyone anyway.
Dickheads get filed under "dickheads" and don't get seen at all irrespective of their age.
I find that the younger ones I did see (18-45 yrs) were respectful, I don't know if it was because of my age or not. When younger guys come to see the older ladies it's because they have a fetish for older ladies and it shines through (this might not happen to younger lassies) and a good time is had.
I find that older guys tend to kiss like wet fish or even worse, just purse their lips and expect some life (a bit like them in Emmerdale lately). Not good and when it comes to their sperm I'm not even going to go there at breakfast time. I never have the sperm problem with the younger ones. :D
I have to agree with you there! What is it about some of the much older guys and wet slobbery kissing? Ewwwwww!
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Haven't had any problem with younger guys, or older guys specifically. There are jerks of all ages basically, I don't think that you can judge a whole age group by one or two experiences, each guy is going to be different
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My experience with younger men is getting pounded for the full hour actually and nothing else. They won't do oral for some reason on me? Most of my guys are older and they all do oral (some quite well).
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My experience with younger men is getting pounded for the full hour actually and nothing else. They won't do oral for some reason on me?
Same here. I personally generally dislike younger clients. Being only 20 myself & seeing clients who are 20-25 is really quite horrible as the majority of the men who fall under that age bracket and who I have seen have either been 1. An absolute nervous wreck who can't relax and puts me on edge too or 2. (Most commonly) A guy with a shadow of muscle tone who has no sexual skill but seems to think my body is some kind of play dough with a vagina that he can bend, fuck, and play with for a full hour without a pause. Oh and thinks he is hot shit the whole way through and asks whether I "was surprised when he walked in" etc. because he's young & lifts weights once a month.
Yeah so I pretty much resent them. Give me a older man with respect and maturity any day.
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Don't really have much preference with either, being a Dominatrix most of the younger ones are trying things out for the first time and are quite nervous but saying that quite a few of the older ones are dipping their toes in the water as well, so to speak.
The middle aged ones generally have a good idea of what they want.
But me being a more mature lady so to speak (just over 50) my other half is 30 and he's great :D
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Hmm, i don't know, i get nervous they know people i know so can't relax as much but then again i can talk about films & games & places to go out with a lot more umph with younger bunch, in fact i once had this guy who was literally into everything i was it was such a great booking, happens once in a while
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when they turn up I get very aroused by their fit bodies so I do prefer yes ( but a lot are time wasters on the phone just getting excited over our images and don't have the cash to splash).
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I prefer older partners in my personal life but seriously prefer the younger clients in my working life. I'm 20 by the way. I find them easier to talk to, they aren't so keen on all the GFE stuff (which I do offer, but I prefer the PSE type stuff) and they tend to be able to actually get it up and keep going without a problem. Also seem to have better personal hygiene and less body defects and tend to be more physically fit. Give me a young client any time!
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The older guys definitely get my vote! I find them to be much more respectful and gentlemanly. I have also noticed that older guys seem more likely to want to go down on me, which is always a bonus. Not sure why this is less popular with younger guys ?!?! I often find the younger ones to be cocky and arrogant - the most extreme case of this was a guy in his mid-20s telling me that he "has a better body than me and that all the girls in his office are fitter than me". My favourite guys are in the 40-55 age bracket. Of course there are exceptions to every rule, and I have seen a few younger guys that were lovely too!
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My experience with younger men is getting pounded for the full hour actually and nothing else. They won't do oral for some reason on me?
Same here. I personally generally dislike younger clients. Being only 20 myself & seeing clients who are 20-25 is really quite horrible as the majority of the men who fall under that age bracket and who I have seen have either been 1. An absolute nervous wreck who can't relax and puts me on edge too or 2. (Most commonly) A guy with a shadow of muscle tone who has no sexual skill but seems to think my body is some kind of play dough with a vagina that he can bend, fuck, and play with for a full hour without a pause. Oh and thinks he is hot shit the whole way through and asks whether I "was surprised when he walked in" etc. because he's young & lifts weights once a month.
Yeah so I pretty much resent them. Give me a older man with respect and maturity any day.
This is so true!! Has been my experience. Older men are the way forward :)
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The older guys definitely get my vote! I find them to be much more respectful and gentlemanly. I have also noticed that older guys seem more likely to want to go down on me, which is always a bonus. Not sure why this is less popular with younger guys ?!?! I often find the younger ones to be cocky and arrogant - the most extreme case of this was a guy in his mid-20s telling me that he "has a better body than me and that all the girls in his office are fitter than me". My favourite guys are in the 40-55 age bracket. Of course there are exceptions to every rule, and I have seen a few younger guys that were lovely too!
I totally agree, older men seem to much prefer giving oral sex for some reason! That is my favourite age range too :)
I wouldn't even date anyone under 25 in my personal life either and prefer them to be over 30, it's not just about maturity, I prefer them to look like REAL MEN instead of young lads!
Personal preference and all that :)
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It may be fine for the 20 something's preferring a 40 something but if I went by that standard I'd be looking for someone around 130, so not really possible.
I find the younger guys to be far more pleasant and respectful TO ME, what they are like to others I have no idea.
I've got to admit arrogance comes in all shapes, sizes and age and if it came in any of my bookings I would certainly take them down a peg or two and would enjoy doing so too.
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To be honest I don't really enjoy RO from men (though do from women somehow?) so that's another reason I'm not so into older clients.
My first day on the job I had someone 40 years older than me (and 41 years older than I was advertising). I didn't really have a problem with it, but I did wonder about the 59 year old hiring an "18 year old". I think mostly he was looking for someone new, young and naiive (I actually gave him a discount because of his promise of becoming a regular - doh!) I've found older guys more likely to try and manipulate you. Younger guys just want to get in, have fun and get out. Older guys are into trying to exploit you and at the very least more likely to be clingy or overstay their welcome.
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Lately I have had some fantastic younger clients when I used to try and avoid them like the plague but the fact of the matter is, you just have to treat every potential client as an individual on how they come across at the pre booking stage regardless of their age/race or whatever.
I had a young client a couple of weeks ago come to see me then he came back the following week, he handed me the money straight away, was very polite and reliable and even set an alarm on his phone 15 minutes before the end of the booking so he knew to start thinking about bringing the booking to an end, I said to him that as I am not a clock watcher that him setting an alarm was completely unnecessary but he did it again the following week and said he didn't want to over stay. It was nice that he was so thoughtful but he really didn't have to. Wee soul.
And I just had a client at 12.30 there who was clearly in his early 20's who had the money sitting in a nice evelope for me coming back to the room after getting him a drink. He was really friendly, sweet and respectful.
So lately yes, I am enjoying the younger clients. It really doesn't matter how old the client is, you get the decent ones at any age and the complete arseholes at any age. When I think about it, every time I have been blackmailed, the 1 time I was attacked and the 2 times I was robbed were all men in their 40's.
I admit though that the abuse more often than not comes from the younger ones via text if you've refused to see them for whatever reason they made you refuse but other than that, I am quite happy with them.
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i prefer older also. ,i try to avoid under 30's.
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I used to be like this. I used to avoid under 30's more because I was worried about bumping into anyone I know but I am super choosy about who I see so I would hope that the guys I do see will be discrete, if a young guy phones me up sounding chavvy or cheeky then I won't see them. If they phone up and sound polite and friendly then I have no reason not to see them.
If I had continued to avoid guys under 30 then I'd have lost out on a lot of really great clients.
So now I just judge each person as in individual based on the dealings I have with them regardless of who they are.
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I think I'm slightly generalizing PP and your probably right.
It's just 9 out of 10 bad/slightly aggressive/disrespectful experiences I've had has come from guys around the 20 mark.
I wouldn't turn them down on the phone if they sounded respectful, after all, all i ask from a client is they're clean, polite on-time and pay up but if there was a choice to be had in clientele I would choose older guys.
We all have our preferences I guess :)
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