When I was your age (gawd, I feel old now, you're younger than my children! LOL) I LOVED LOVED LOVED the taste, the texture, the smell, loved BJs and facials and rubbing it in like moisturiser (there was a standing joke that was why my skin was so good!) and just typing all that I am having to consciously control my gag reflex...!!!

Nowadays I can cope with partners who I WANT to suck and enjoy - but I can't even cope with pre-cum from a partner who I don't fancy, let alone anything else. OWO is very much off my menu 

It's weird isn't it? Trust me I wish I did like it lol!

I genuinely love giving a good OWO blow job, but as you said Cat if there is too much "pre cum" I have to wipe it away with my hands or I don't feel too well.

As the years go on we all change and so does our physical as well as mental preferences.

Kylie, you don't need to get your head round it, you don't like it, don't like the taste so simply, don't do it.

When it comes to facials I just can't think of anything more disrespectful and for this reason won't do them. I've had countless guys ask for them and I just about go off my box with them but in the end try and rein it in and stop my blood pressure from going up.

Never do what you are not comfortable doing.  It doesn't matter whether the reason is physical, mental or psychological ...... Just don't do it. 

Save the stressing for something that is worth stressing about.  The services you offer is not one of them.

When I said "I can't get my head around it" I meant, I can't get my head around how anyone can genuinely like it, that's why I wanted to hear peoples opinions.

And yet facials I don't have a problem with, I am not bothered where they come as long as it is not in my fanny without a condom. My attitude is it is easily washed off. I don't mind it in my mouth and I used to nearly always swallow but I pretty much gone off swallowing it now, I can only do this now and then.I don't really,really like it but I don't dislike it either..its just a natural by product of what we do.

I am not sure that I would say I enjoy the taste but nor do I dislike it. I enjoy the act of doing oral, the same as I enjoy the thrill of being used by complete strangers. It is more of a mental stimulation.

When it comes to facials I just can't think of anything more disrespectful and for this reason won't do them. I've had countless guys ask for them and I just about go off my box with them but in the end try and rein it in and stop my blood pressure from going up.

I think it is meant to be disrespectful, the same as water sports, there is no physical interaction, so it is a mental stimulation for the male, whilst he probably imagines / speaks all manners of disrespectful things about you. I think you have to be a little submissivive to enjoy this. Although I do not enjoy any form of pain.

Never do what you are not comfortable doing.  It doesn't matter whether the reason is physical, mental or psychological ...... Just don't do it.

This can not be repeated enough, to do something that you dislike just for the money will make you resent the work you do and can give you all manners of mental problems, including stress, anxiety and self doubt / confidence.

Sarah x x x

Sarah,

Think you might be right re having to be a bit submissive to accept facials and the reason why I hate them so much.  There is no way on god's earth am I submissive .... Not even 1% ..... You would never have known that, would you?   

The Smell/taste/texture ALL of it makes my stomach roll. I can just about tolerate pre cum if they have a healthy diet. The idea of swallowing it.... omg.  I also find facials disrespectful and it's not something I offer.  Each to their own I guess!