Author Topic: Do you reply? (Read 2728 times)

Wife4rent · « **on:** 09 February 2014, 07:23:18 pm »

To idiots sending messages? A lot of the time I just delete as you know they have probably posted the same message to lots of girls just to get a response / reaction, unfortunately I do occasionally respond...

Today's was:-

I am alan a mature adventurous guy looking for a lady to come and stay for a weekend would this interest you? I hope so could you give some indication of the cost for arriving Friday evening and leaving Monday morning. xxx Alan

i replied with:-

Firstly I am going to assume that you are an idiot as you have not really approached this with any thought, which indicates a complete time waster.

You want the cost for spending a week end with you, yet do not say where you are based and despite filling out part of your profile were not bright enough to fill out where you are from. Nor do you state what will be expected for the week end, so for me to agree and give a price I must assume that I am going to be used by you, your friends, taken to a 24hr swingers club to be used by anybody that wants as well as being fucked by the taxi driver and all his friends on the way home.

The cost of this will be ?20,000 paid in full 7 days before you are looking for the booking.

How does that sound?

If he wants to haggle I may drop to ?15,000, but why choose me, I do not even offer a two hour booking?

Sarah x x x

PS I will not get to read his reply as I have blocked him.

strawberry · « **Reply #1 on:** 09 February 2014, 08:14:09 pm »

I agree there's not enough info and he's obviously not read your profile.

However stupid an enquiry might seem I always assume it's a customer request, and customers of all businesses will try it on 'just in case' so I respond politely. If anyone then gets pushy, or starts to whitter on I'll block at that point, but I know I've been reasonable and no milk has been spilt so to speak.

Sometimes potential clients just don't think (and why should they), sometimes they are genuinely ignorant, other times they are pulling our legs.

I'd not jump on anyone for not realising how it works, or how to protect themselves - asking for a weekend booking without working out or specifying what they want, is leaving them open to abuse just as much as it does us.

I have however stopped explaining to newbies why they should think about phoning and not wanting to set up 100% by text, without speaking to the lady first, but I found it only fell on deaf ears so I just leave it now.

Pink~Princess · « **Reply #2 on:** 09 February 2014, 09:06:21 pm »

I don't reply to stupid emails or to ones where its clear they haven't read my profile HOWEVER, I have been known to go on the occasional rant then block someone who's said something completely offensive OR perhaps they have just got me in a bad mood and I've replied with a equally stupid/offensive response but I think the right thing to do is just ignore if someone send's you something that your not happy with rather than waste your energy x

The Bachelor · « **Reply #3 on:** 09 February 2014, 10:21:13 pm »

Quote from: Wife4rent on 09 February 2014, 07:23:18 pm

Today's was:-
I am alan a mature adventurous guy looking for a lady to come and stay for a weekend would this interest you? I hope so could you give some indication of the cost for arriving Friday evening and leaving Monday morning. xxx Alan

That almost sounds like a 'scam' cheque message of sorts actually. However, it could have been genuine...but only slightly.

I don't think I would have taken the time to reply as you did though. It gives too much room for them to possibly copy/paste into a bad review of you, and it's just unnecessary waste of energy. Sometimes, I'll poke and prod a guy even if they sound stupid, just to see where their head is and confirm whether they are full of shit or not.

Like for example, sometimes I'll pretend like I'm making a booking with someone who texts me something like, "hi" and nothing else. Kind of just wondering if I'm actually missing anything or not by responding to them. Many times I've been able to give a sigh of relief that I 'played with them' so to speak...because they weren't about anything to begin with.

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #4 on:** 09 February 2014, 10:30:09 pm »

I would have replied and just told him that I don't offer very long bookings to new clients as I prefer to know that we get on well and are compatible before committing to such a long time together.
Chances are he is a knobhead but equally he could just be very new and naive to it all.
I only sometimes answer in a rude way if they are rude to me otherwise its an ignore and delete or a simple email back explaining why its not doable.
It can be frustrating at times though you really want to reply with give your head a shake man!

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #5 on:** 09 February 2014, 11:36:01 pm »

Quote from: Wife4rent on 09 February 2014, 07:23:18 pm

To idiots sending messages? A lot of the time I just delete as you know they have probably posted the same message to lots of girls just to get a response / reaction, unfortunately I do occasionally respond...

Today's was:-
I am alan a mature adventurous guy looking for a lady to come and stay for a weekend would this interest you? I hope so could you give some indication of the cost for arriving Friday evening and leaving Monday morning. xxx Alan

i replied with:-

Firstly I am going to assume that you are an idiot as you have not really approached this with any thought, which indicates a complete time waster.

You want the cost for spending a week end with you, yet do not say where you are based and despite filling out part of your profile were not bright enough to fill out where you are from. Nor do you state what will be expected for the week end, so for me to agree and give a price I must assume that I am going to be used by you, your friends, taken to a 24hr swingers club to be used by anybody that wants as well as being fucked by the taxi driver and all his friends on the way home.

The cost of this will be ?20,000 paid in full 7 days before you are looking for the booking.

How does that sound?

If he wants to haggle I may drop to ?15,000, but why choose me, I do not even offer a two hour booking?

Sarah x x x

PS I will not get to read his reply as I have blocked him.

I always ask them to phone to enquire. They will if they are that interested. Many text request are ignored though put down to time wasters the majority are.

Amethyst · « **Reply #6 on:** 10 February 2014, 12:25:57 pm »

Quote from: Wife4rent on 09 February 2014, 07:23:18 pm

I am alan a mature adventurous guy looking for a lady to come and stay for a weekend would this interest you? I hope so could you give some indication of the cost for arriving Friday evening and leaving Monday morning. xxx Alan

Maybe he meant he wanted to come and stay for a weekend with you, not you come to him? I think it could be read either way, it's not very clear.

If they seem genuine I usually try and summon the patience to reply, even the ones that make me want to pull my hair out, because they might be shy/naive/lazy/in a hurry/oblivious and are annoying but mean well.

Jules · « **Reply #7 on:** 11 February 2014, 09:52:28 am »

Quote from: Wife4rent on 09 February 2014, 07:23:18 pm

To idiots sending messages? A lot of the time I just delete as you know they have probably posted the same message to lots of girls just to get a response / reaction, unfortunately I do occasionally respond...

Today's was:-
I am alan a mature adventurous guy looking for a lady to come and stay for a weekend would this interest you? I hope so could you give some indication of the cost for arriving Friday evening and leaving Monday morning. xxx Alan

i replied with:-

Firstly I am going to assume that you are an idiot as you have not really approached this with any thought, which indicates a complete time waster.

You want the cost for spending a week end with you, yet do not say where you are based and despite filling out part of your profile were not bright enough to fill out where you are from. Nor do you state what will be expected for the week end, so for me to agree and give a price I must assume that I am going to be used by you, your friends, taken to a 24hr swingers club to be used by anybody that wants as well as being fucked by the taxi driver and all his friends on the way home.

The cost of this will be ?20,000 paid in full 7 days before you are looking for the booking.

How does that sound?

If he wants to haggle I may drop to ?15,000, but why choose me, I do not even offer a two hour booking?

Sarah x x x

PS I will not get to read his reply as I have blocked him.

Hadley · « **Reply #8 on:** 11 February 2014, 04:17:36 pm »

I know I would have replied exactly as you did wife4rent, as it screams timewaster/dickhead from the off, and he clearly hasn't read your profile - and on top of that has given you no information with which to provide him with a useful answer!

However my sensible head does also say that he asked you a fairly reasonable question - ok it sets our dickhead sensors off because we are used to these kind of inane timewaster type questions, but, he wasn't rude/abusive/nasty and could have meant well.

In an ideal world I would maybe have given him one chance, and replied saying I do offer extended bookings, but I need to know that you are serious about booking me for this period so please could you make me an offer which takes into account the rates on my profile. Please could you also outline what you would be expecting of me during our time together. To confirm this is a genuine request, I would also require a 25% non refundable deposit which should of course be paid immediately.

See how he responds - if he pays without quibbling and you receive the money in your account I would take it forward; if not you know he's just a timewaster.

Hadley xx

Wife4rent · « **Reply #9 on:** 11 February 2014, 05:39:21 pm »

Quote from: Hadley on 11 February 2014, 04:17:36 pm

I know I would have replied exactly as you did wife4rent, as it screams timewaster/dickhead from the off, and he clearly hasn't read your profile - and on top of that has given you no information with which to provide him with a useful answer!

And I forgot to mention that he did have negative feedback...

But as you and others have said, sometimes it is worth taking the time to respond, as we all know that guys think with their cock and for some reason, even the most intelligent of guys, lose all common sense when responding to adverts for escorts.

Like a rant, sometimes on the day your head decides enough is enough and you respond in "not the best" of manners.

Sarah x x x

louiseescort · « **Reply #10 on:** 11 February 2014, 10:30:39 pm »

I just ignore these sorts of messages, always a complete waste of time.
If they did happen to be genuine, they would contact you by phone after their text got no response.
Anyway a full weekend arranged by text is suspicious anyway!

Hadley · « **Reply #11 on:** 12 February 2014, 12:59:38 am »

Sassy Slapper · « **Reply #12 on:** 12 February 2014, 08:07:24 am »

Quote from: bibi on 09 February 2014, 10:30:09 pm

I would have replied and just told him that I don't offer very long bookings to new clients as I prefer to know that we get on well and are compatible before committing to such a long time together.
Chances are he is a knobhead but equally he could just be very new and naive to it all.
I only sometimes answer in a rude way if they are rude to me otherwise its an ignore and delete or a simple email back explaining why its not doable.
It can be frustrating at times though you really want to reply with give your head a shake man!

I can't do overnights anyway so its pretty academic but if I could then this is the approach I would take also. If he still wanted the weekender then he would need to meet me so I could deposit the cash somewhere before I went off with him. A whole lot can happen in a weekend.

I do know ladies who have gone off on holiday with clients though as long bookings so there are guys out there who like to do this. I have a guy wanting to take me to Portugal for a week but I can't.

Cheryl87 · « **Reply #13 on:** 12 February 2014, 01:49:43 pm »

I don't bother getting into rants with these types, it never ends well (well sometimes I can't help it

) .

Mostly if I get the sense someone is a TW - and your skills get highly tuned after a while you can tell by one off word! and be 99% of the time correct - then I will reply but put very little effort in, like one liners. So for this guy I would have wrote the following "Sorry I do not do bookings longer than an hour. If you would like a booking of an hour or less I'd be happy to see you" . And leave it at that.

My friend has implemented a 2/3 question rule - if they ask more than 2/3 questions which are not DIRECTLY relevant to the booking process for example a time and duration, and asking for address details, then she stops bothering with them. I am going to do the same I think.

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #14 on:** 12 February 2014, 02:44:08 pm »

Yep I have a 3 question rule too lol.3 questions then its a referral back to my profile so they can read it with an invite to call or contact me back if they have read it,taken it in and are interested.

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