Hello everybody, pretty new on this site but I have been escorting for about four years, now. Anyway, I was meant to have an appointment at 11:15am. The guy turned up, he had booked yesterday and I directed him in to the car park with no problem. As he was parking up, he asked "there's no cameras, are there?" Which seemed a bit odd. Then he buzzed up, came up, and after about 20 seconds, I asked him if he wanted to use the bathroom, and he asked if I minded if he could leave it. Obviously I let him leave straight away, but I did ask if he would mind telling me what the problem actually was, and he was sort of stuttering and then said that my feet "are not clean"..... I showered this morning and every morning I have
shower, and my nails are painted! I was looking down at my feet completely baffled. I know i'm probably being daft for even asking, but do you guys think it was a look - and - go (he apparently came from Manchester to Blackpool), last minute nerves, or maybe my feet did genuinely look dirty? First time this has ever happened!

Well since a previous poster apparently thought better of their reply and deleted it I've removed the post, but hopefully you got to read it first in case there was something useful there.

I think that the question about the camera was a bit odd, but he might have seen a CCTV sign or something on the way in and got rattled by it, or whatever (I have video entry, so anybody asking me that would be on a hiding to nothing ). It sounds to me as if he lost his nerve or just plain didn't fancy you - it happens, and we can't appeal to everyone any more than we can expect them to stay and hand over money to have sex with somebody they're not attracted to. That doesn't mean it was premeditated (which is how I'd define a 'look and go', meaning somebody who never intended to stay when they booked).

There was a similar thread fairly recently which I can't find now, but whilst the unwillingness to accept that the punter might have been perfectly genuine but just didn't want to shag us when he saw us in person is completely understandable, it's the most likely explanation alongside losing his nerve. The idea that there are hordes of weird blokes out there who spend their days turning up at prostitutes' doors just to get a brief look at a woman in a skimpy frock and go again is cobblers and whilst I don't get them often (I had one last year who was a nervous wreck before he even arrived, and I can't remember the last one before that so my hit rate probably isn't far off yours), it's just part of the job and the stuff about your feet just aounds like he was clutching at straws for anything to say so he could leave.

As an aside, I've got up and walked out of restaurants before after being seated because I've changed my mind, sometimes because the menu didn't appeal, or the place was too loud/busy/quiet, or I just decided that I'd prefer somewhere else. It's not a reflection on the restaurant

I have no idea about recording and I'm guessing that some do and others don't (there are those doorbell things too people have mentioned a few times), but the punter asked about cameras, not about being recorded. I would think that was odd too.

I probably also have dirty feet, since I walk around barefoot in my flat all the time

Thank you for your replies everybody, they were lovely to read, I think I agree that the guy was mainly either worried about cameras or had just changed his mind, it was weird just because I have never witnessed it before, I had one similar experience once, but he apologised and said he genuinely couldn't do it, and then he gave me money for my time without me even having to ask, and then he sent me a text afterwards apologising. But this guy was just bizarre!

I went through a weird period where a few clients came used the loo and left, I now ask for the money before they use the bathroom. Your one sounds like nerves though to come out with something so odd (well unless your feet are dirty...)

Yes I always insist on cash before bathroom use, I’m not a public toilet, and it’s weird that they all seem to need the toilet as soon as they arrive, I always think they are pissing in our shampoos or something.

I had one guy do the same, He came into the flat and asked to use the bathroom ( Mostly nervous guys do this) And then said he couldn't do it and left. I'd only been escorting 4 months and I was worried it was my looks but now I think it was just the guy. Not happened since except a guy half way through a booking said his conscience kicked in and he left.

It's not a nice feeling but best not see it as a rejection. I think the idea of seeing a escort is exciting but then some guys just bottle it when it's a reality.