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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: Sophine88 on 10 July 2021, 10:53:19 pm
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To be honest after I became an escort I lost track of how many men I’ve had sex with. Before that I was always quite promiscuous as I did love sex so I was almost hitting the 100 mark before I became an escort. I genuinely have no clue what I’m at now. Which I find a bit hilarious but disgusting too. Anyone else just lose count or stop counting?
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I only ever think about this when I'm going to a new clinic for an STI screen and they put "Estimate how many sexual partners you have had in the last 12 months" and I usually write "~1500" and then watch the reception staff to see if one of them reads it and double-takes in my direction 🤣
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In my private life I’ve slept with 35 (I am 40 and I lost my virginity at 15, so that’s not even quite 2 a year ;D) but obviously my working life is in the 4/5 digits in all that time...I am such a slut ;D ;D ;D
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No idea how many dicks I've sucked, I just love the title of this thread, haha!
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I dont care these days !
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I was a tart long before I was getting paid for it, I wouldn’t have a clue what my number would be. 😂
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Personal life I'm still in single digits. Work life, definitely 4 figures
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I was a tart long before I was getting paid for it, I wouldn’t have a clue what my number would be. 😂
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I've absolutely no idea! I don't find it disgusting at all though.
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I have spreadsheets... ;D
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More than I've had "Hot Dinners" :)
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I have spreadsheets... ;D
🤣🤣🤣 Really?
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Says a lot about me that my mind automatically went elsewhere when I seen body count 😂
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thousands through escorting and proud of it!
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Don't know, stopped counting even in my private life when I realised it doesn't matter and if anyone asks in my personal life I would tell them that it's none of their damn business.
I don't know anyway :D
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I honestly don't know but probably in the hundreds. I see lots of guys in my private life too but just love sex
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Before the age of 33 it was 3 people and one being my husband of 13 years but from 33 til 37 about 50 and now since escorting I have no idea, I don't bother to keep count but I haven't had much sex in my private life in the last 2 years being single, Only 3 guys. I need to get back to dating because I'm more dominant in my personal sex life but with work it's Gfe and with guys I'm not attracted to. Since escorting I've shut off my natural sex drive and just work mode. I use to enjoy the hunt and chase now it's sex by appointment lol
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Gosh. I started late but now I’m escorting I finally have the confidence in my civvy life so I have now double my civvy count and my escort number is very humble
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I don’t think any one keeps count ... and I’m not sure why you find it disgusting, it’s not.x
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I have spreadsheets... ;D
So do I. Just to keep track of who I've seen etc. But now I worry about being hacked, and keep it on a memory stick in a secure place.
I always play the numbers down when discussing it, but the actual number is huge. I was into five figures years ago. It is what it is and in one sense I'm quite proud.
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I have 2000 + numbers saved on my phone some of them are numbers of do not see or repeated no shows
But I have worked in a parlour before so I think 2k is a good number for me 😊
I have been doing this for 9years now
And would love to be able to retire next year on my 10th anniversary or my 40th birthday which will be just a month apart
So fingers crossed for me xx
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Lost count even before I started working
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I hate it when guys ask me this on dates in my personal life. I always say I lost count after 1000, which they seem to think is a joke. Are there any good one liners any of you can recommend to shut this question down? Some guys get really caught up on it and seem adamant to find the answer :-\ I don’t even know myself! And nor do I care for theirs!
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I hate it when guys ask me this on dates in my personal life. I always say I lost count after 1000, which they seem to think is a joke. Are there any good one liners any of you can recommend to shut this question down? Some guys get really caught up on it and seem adamant to find the answer :-\ I don’t even know myself! And nor do I care for theirs!
They seem like arseholes to be honest 😬
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I try to keep a paper based diary of what booking I have and for how long, so I could go through them all and count but that would take too long.
So no. But I've been doing it quite a long time. I don't think it really matters if anyone actually asked me.
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I hate it when guys ask me this on dates in my personal life. I always say I lost count after 1000, which they seem to think is a joke. Are there any good one liners any of you can recommend to shut this question down? Some guys get really caught up on it and seem adamant to find the answer :-\ I don’t even know myself! And nor do I care for theirs!
Don't answer, it is rude and to what point is this knowledge for? It's usually for sizing up or judging so ask them, do they want to know if you are a slut or do they want to reassure themselves that they are more experienced than you are? Ask them that question and if they don't shut up then they are not the person for you.
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I got asked this question on a civvie date. Before the date, I had been working at home throughout the day. I had a few cancellations but still saw four clients for full service, which wasn't too bad.
My date was trying to be coy in how he asked me about my history, and without thinking I blurted out, just four today.
The look on his face was the best part of the evening. I realized a moment later he was thinking a lifetime and I was just thinking I was a little disappointed I had only been with four men before my dinner date.... Time to backpedal ;D
I do keep detailed records with a computer program, and in a notebook during my early days so I know exactly what my body count is, but that's for me to know. I sometimes celebrate career milestones (even 1000, etc) with a gift or holiday for myself.
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I got asked this question on a civvie date. Before the date, I had been working at home throughout the day. I had a few cancellations but still saw four clients for full service, which wasn't too bad.
My date was trying to be coy in how he asked me about my history, and without thinking I blurted out, just four today.
The look on his face was the best part of the evening. I realized a moment later he was thinking a lifetime and I was just thinking I was a little disappointed I had only been with four men before my dinner date.... Time to backpedal ;D
I do keep detailed records with a computer program, and in a notebook during my early days so I know exactly what my body count is, but that's for me to know. I sometimes celebrate career milestones (even 1000, etc) with a gift or holiday for myself.
What a cheek asking you this question on a first date! I don’t think it’s appropriate anymore, I’m too old to be asked that and I imagine men my age don’t expect me to be a nice good girl at my age🤣🤣
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What a cheek asking you this question on a first date! I don’t think it’s appropriate anymore, I’m too old to be asked that and I imagine men my age don’t expect me to be a nice good girl at my age🤣🤣
In his defense, it was maybe the second or third date we had. He was a little classier in the way he asked...I forget the exact way he said it, bur I knew what he was fishing for. I always say nice girls don't kiss and tell. We did become fwbs for a while as we got along quite well (interview questions aside), but I converted him to a client when he got married. Clients can ask me whatever they want as long as they accept whatever answer I give them, and they pay my rates.
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In his defense, it was maybe the second or third date we had. He was a little classier in the way he asked...I forget the exact way he said it, bur I knew what he was fishing for. I always say nice girls don't kiss and tell. We did become fwbs for a while as we got along quite well (interview questions aside), but I converted him to a client when he got married. Clients can ask me whatever they want as long as they accept whatever answer I give them, and they pay my rates.
Clients can but I thought this man was a civvie date?!
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Don't answer, it is rude and to what point is this knowledge for? It's usually for sizing up or judging so ask them, do they want to know if you are a slut or do they want to reassure themselves that they are more experienced than you are? Ask them that question and if they don't shut up then they are not the person for you.
That’s always exactly the way I’ve seen it, even in my pre-escorting life! It’s a useless piece of information that they will try to use against you one way or another ::) But I’ve never thought of bouncing it back to them in a question as you’ve put, so will definitely be doing that next time ;D :-*
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I have spreadsheets... ;D
I have spread eagle legs ;D
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Clients can but I thought this man was a civvie date?!
He was, at the time. It didn't work out, partly because of my busy job. We reconnected, maybe 3-4 years later and I suggested he should be a client if he wanted to continue to see me.
I still never told him my count, but he knows it's not small and doesn't seem to mind.
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I have spread eagle legs ;D
Nice girls can have both. :)
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After 30 years in the business mine is well into 5 digits by now.
As a teen I didn't get on great with my parents and couldn't wait to grow up. I hit puberty early and decided to lose my virginity at 13. I enjoyed sex and it seemed like the answer to everything. It certainly made me popular with the boys. I slept my way through school and college and thought nothing of it. It didn't help that I hooked up with an older boyfriend who encouraged me to sleep around. Once I left home for university I was like a kid in a sweet shop. I spent most nights in a pub or club trying to get laid and easily had sex with three strangers a week during term time. God knows how I passed my exams.
I'd thought for a while about making money from something I loved doing so much, but I didn't take the plunge until I was 21. By then I must have had sex with at least 400 men. Once I started in a brothel I took the pill back to back so I could work through my periods. I actually tried to keep count in my diary at first but it became hard to keep track of repeats.
I only worked at the brothel part time while I finished my degree, but that included a 10 hour shift on Friday and 12 hours on Saturday. I wanted to impress and didn't like to say no. I was really busy to begin with and serviced as many as 12 men a day at the weekend. After 6 months I'd had enough and decided to try my hand as an escort instead. By then I'd had sex with another 509 men. I found escort work was much easier and I was happy to average 3 clients a day working 6 days a week. Allowing for regulars and holidays that's around 560 men a year. Business wasn't always that good, especially as I got older, but even so I reckon I reached 5 figures before my 40th.
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After 30 years in the business mine is well into 5 digits by now.
As a teen I didn't get on great with my parents and couldn't wait to grow up. I hit puberty early and decided to lose my virginity at 13. I enjoyed sex and it seemed like the answer to everything. It certainly made me popular with the boys. I slept my way through school and college and thought nothing of it. It didn't help that I hooked up with an older boyfriend who encouraged me to sleep around. Once I left home for university I was like a kid in a sweet shop. I spent most nights in a pub or club trying to get laid and easily had sex with three strangers a week during term time. God knows how I passed my exams.
I'd thought for a while about making money from something I loved doing so much, but I didn't take the plunge until I was 21. By then I must have had sex with at least 400 men. Once I started in a brothel I took the pill back to back so I could work through my periods. I actually tried to keep count in my diary at first but it became hard to keep track of repeats.
I only worked at the brothel part time while I finished my degree, but that included a 10 hour shift on Friday and 12 hours on Saturday. I wanted to impress and didn't like to say no. I was really busy to begin with and serviced as many as 12 men a day at the weekend. After 6 months I'd had enough and decided to try my hand as an escort instead. By then I'd had sex with another 509 men. I found escort work was much easier and I was happy to average 3 clients a day working 6 days a week. Allowing for regulars and holidays that's around 560 men a year. Business wasn't always that good, especially as I got older, but even so I reckon I reached 5 figures before my 40th.
Very similar to my career so far, except I started working younger. I was very curious about it and read and heard a lot of stories first.
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Like many on here I´ve lost count but its well into high 4 figures, maybe 5. Started young and been at it for 15 years now allowing for time off when I´ve had kids or plastic surgery. Did night clubs (aka brothels) when I first got to Europe so very busy some nights 8+ men.
Now settled down to a routine, try and work 4 days per week, more if the week is slack, and try to see 4 or so per day. Some regulars I´ve seen many times but many one off´s too. Probably 33%, also regulars come and go, so maybe in total 1/3 of dates is repeat business (one even became my partner for a few years). So something north of 4 per day, x 4 days per week, x 48 weeks a year x 15 years x 33% being repeat business. So I´d say at least 4 x 4 x 48 x 15 x 0.66 = about 7,600 probably a lot more as not sure I really get 33% repeats, rather guys who become regulars.
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No
Nor do I care about something so trivial. Lol
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No idea, I stopped counting and don't count do cashier's at McDonald's count how many costumers they've served throughout working there nope and if they did they wouldn't have a clue, so neither do I it's a job.