Sorry to be a bit deep but I really worry about my future and how I'm going to survive when my body is too old and saggy to make money doing this anymore. So I wanted to ask if anyone else has the same worries and if so, do you have any plans?

There is no need to get old and saggy if we are prepared to pay for beauty treatments.  Vitamins supplements etc also.

Not sure I think some men have a fetish for older women even 80 year olds

I'm 58 and only started escorting at 52. I don't consider myself to be old and saggy I fortunately have very soft smooth skin and often get told I look much younger than my years so I don't consider it a problem

As others have said it is best to be sensible with the money you make escorting and either study or have another source of income.

Well I consider myself old and have saggy bits and I'm a busy escort. There's a market for everyone so I have no other plans.

I was a professional prior to escorting and before that did a dream job too. This is now my perfect job and I'm going to grow older disgracefully 

Personally, I want to leave escorting in the next 8-12 months and I’m making a plan and becoming high volume for awhile to save towards a certain goal before I do so.

This is easier for me as I’m young and have a degree and a lot of experience in civvy jobs so my situation might be different to yours or maybe it isn’t I don’t know your background.

Don’t let anyone encourage or discourage you from doing what you want. Do what feels right for you and instant happiness.

I think if you do plan to leave escorting behind you need a good plan before you do so. I think many women believe they can’t leave escorting behind but you have to remember you always have choices. Especially if you are a citizen of the U.K. there’s always welfare to tie you over till you find something else. I know that’s not ideal because it’s not much money but it isn’t forever. You’ll find some job. Someone somewhere will see your potential and hire you. You just need the backbone to try and not take the easy way out and go back to escorting when things get bad.

As I said I’m in no way bashing escorting because I’ve made the choice to leave I’m trying to let you and anyone else know that their is always other options if it’s not something you want to do anymore. You have all the power and nothing stopping you.

Sometimes I think people like to believe that they’re held back more than they actually are. My friend for example is worried about not finding a job at the moment as he has little experience. I told him fake it till you make it. Anyone could be a receptionist, a shop assistant, a catering assistant any menial job all you have to do is fake a bit of experience on your CV. Most places with high turnover don’t even look for references. That’s not what you want to do? Then figure out what it is you really want when you leave escorting and do it. Aim for the sky girl it’s all in your control.

It’s just important that you know you always have options. It doesn’t matter if you are old.

Xx

Saggy tits can be fixed!!

Or they can be left alone, as can the rest. I'm nearly 48 and I have no plans whatsoever to start sticking needles in my face or slicing my body hither and yon. I have no desire to look younger either - I'm quite happy to look my age, mostly because when I was in my teens and twenties I looked like shit .

Back to the OP, and while I'd agree you'll never be too old for sex work there may well be a time when you don't want to do it anymore. If you don't have a pension I'd start one in the meantime (and I realise everybody who had them's savings will have taken a battering over these last few months, including mine), but also think about what else you might like to do? There are all sorts of online courses, volunteering positions or as mentioned above there's nothing wrong with working at Aldi and having a rest from the responsibility - I'm pretty sure that would be closest to my plan .

I've got great tits. I said 'bits' 

Well saggy bits can also be fixed!