I let go of the monogamy myth a long time ago. I think unless someone is asexual then in the "right"  circumstances they will bang someone else. It's irrelevant whether they're getting loads of good sex at home, we're programmed by nature to want sex with a variety of partners. Monogamy is a social and political construct that is responsible for more misery and broken marriages than anything else. It sets relationships up to fail. The game is rigged!

I had a client last night, I asked if he was working in the area. He said no I've been down to X city to pick up a new car for my wife so I thought I'd have a bit of fun for myself on the way home.

It doesn't bother me as long as they don't slap off their wives
If they do then I get quite sharp with them. I've blocked a couple who were so contemptuous of their wives and wanted me to agree with them. Ugh.

I hate cohabiting and agree monogamy is hard.  I don't think it is healthy to just limit oneself.

I let go of the monogamy myth a long time ago. I think unless someone is asexual then in the "right"  circumstances they will bang someone else. It's irrelevant whether they're getting loads of good sex at home, we're programmed by nature to want sex with a variety of partners.

Agree 100% with the above!

It has made an impact on me only realising now to what extent. The on and up I say there is life waiting for me and I am a nun now serious. Not interested in men for sex give me a sexless man any day.

Escorting isn't natural really thinking about it it is all fake even clients fake fake fake. Any way not too long left.

I cringed a few days ago during.

Yeah you can tell I have had enough of them wankers. .

It has definitely made me less trusting of men staying faithful, something I never had a problem with at all in the past.

Then again I never find anybody I like to stay in a relationship with for any length of time, doing the job has possibly put me off relationships.

Its done wonders for my self esteem and confidence. But I worry about being attacked and I think in some ways Im nervous about travelling everywhere on trains, whereas in my 'normal life' I loved it.