God Nova, I hope you're right.

I have a LOT higher standards with men these days. If you're not almost perfect, then you can just piss off because I am fairly certain a nicer bloke would be paying me for this. I tend to think like this, too; swinging between feeling I could never trust someone and comparing treatment to that with my clients.  There are times when I think "you know what mate, I've clients who treat me better". It then stings from time to time then to meet a client who I know I would date but for the circumstances in which I met them and I kinda then think "where were you??"

This is then spoiled occasionally by what can only be described as self-destruct thoughts, where I wonder whether they've ever used any kind of paid for service; but obv, I don't ask - I don't want to know.

I think sooner or later I will have to get off the pot and make a decision one way or another...

I don't think it's good that I might be right! I think it would mean that women are equally capable of being scumbags. We're all screwed, basically.
Would it bother you if you dated someone who had paid for sex? It wouldn't bother me - sometimes I think it would be easier as they'd have more of an understanding of my job.

Would be interested to know/learn anybody else's views?

I have more money, more self worth and I don't put up with idiots in my day to day life. Apart for that, nope, I'm still the same person I've always been.

Xx

Funnily enough, I've just started dating someone who was a client, (despite my former advice to other ladies on here - bleedin' hypocrite that I am!  )  I know it's going to cause some issues - is this just for freebies; can he be trusted and all that...just have to wait and see...

You just have to take every person and every situation as they come. Client escort relationships can be full of problems or they might not.
There's plenty of women here who've done it and had no issue regarding how they met.
I've done it, he turned out to be a dick but that couldn't be attributed to anything to do with prostitution.

Good luck!

I personally don't think I could date a client but never say never! Most of my clients are old enough to be my dad and aren't what I go for in any aspect. But I know there are many women who it works for!

Escorting has changed me as I said before and it's all positive one of the biggest things that's changed is my attitude towards what people say about me or if I get abuse, it used to bother me loads and affect me really badly. Now? I make a complete joke of it and actually turn it into something positive and think, if they have to talk about me to stay relevant then that's fine, atleast its increases my views lol!

It's definitely helped me in that aspect, anything negative said about me I really do laugh at and within 10 mins it's forgotten about. I have too much of a great life, great friends and family for bitter clients or keyboard warriors to bother me. The internet is virtual what's said about people online from the news to gossip boards is usually bullshit. It's great being able to see everything in a positive life and come out on top each and everytime!

It's also made me much more sexually experienced, I've tried things I would've frowned up on before, and I've enjoyed it, I've met lots of nice escorts friends through here and on AW and it's great to talk about things with them since I'm a secret escort! 

fucking any amount of men is totally okay by him and actually turns him on like a lot!

Loads are like that. And then you get the ones that can't stand the thought of you being with anyone else and want to 'rescue' you.

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it sorted me out - gave me a boost in the money department and got on with my life.

Lost more confident and wont stand for crap - shout it out and call time on any situation that's not going anywhere - a little more cold with guys. but that's just the fall out - realised that a lot of things are indeed sex based - and use that to my advantage. became a dab hand at getting my way.

a bit more relaxed about life and don't get so annoyed.

Interesting topic.

The biggest change for me is I can't really have a proper relationship without keeping what I do secret (and I'm a terrible liar). I've given up now but if I was genuinely in a position to get serious with a man the conversation usually was a variation of...

Him: What do you do for a living?
Me (being honest): I spank men for money.
Him (making excuses and grabbing his coat): Oh, ok, I've just got to...erm, check the oven isn't on.

They can't accept it for what it is. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy having a grown man across my knee but that's work, I also would like a "normal" relationship too.

I think you're meeting the wrong men! There will be plenty who can cope just fine with it. Just a case of finding them.

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Would be interested to know/learn anybody else's views?

I have more money, more self worth and I don't put up with idiots in my day to day life. Apart for that, nope, I'm still the same person I've always been.

Xx

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