Author Topic: Do you feel escorting has changed you as a person? (Read 48697 times)

politics999 · « **Reply #60 on:** 04 November 2015, 09:36:49 pm »

Sorry to revive this. I just thought I would add

It has made me look at men differently. Not because men cheat on their wives to spend time with me etc.
It is the time wasters, the people who try to get you to do services you don't offer. The men who don't go the clinic and get tested (I had a client who didn't even know how to book a checkup at the GUM clinc but was barebacking other people and then visiting me! ) The people who abuse girls/ get violent

How many people out there are married to men or even women who do the stuff above and have no idea? How can I get into a relationship with anyone when i've seen this behaviour and now realise you can actually never know what people are like truly? I'm trying not to let it cloud my view of men but its super hard. Does being an escort bring out the crazy in some people?

Its also super lonely. The money is great but I cant talk to anybody about it because no one knows what I do

TrashAzn · « **Reply #61 on:** 04 November 2015, 11:17:49 pm »

I think for a lot of those kind of guys they don't respect you and see you as a product they bought and they can treat you how they want. You are not much more than a blow up doll for them and there are terrible people out there but there are really nice clients too. I think for me the main thing that changed is I look after myself more. It's changed how I view sex and my body and I take better care of it.

I agree though it is a lonely lifestyle and there are times I feel weird about keeping so many secrets about what I've done and the people I've met. But In a way some of that has become a bit of a thrill to me Just going to a hotel and meeting a client there and those times you pass another girl and sometimes you just know she's another working girl. There are times I see somebody I'm sure is meeting another client and I kinda wonder who she's meeting and if they'll get home safe. Suppose I should just concentrate on myself lol but knowing things that happen to girls I do start to think about how many creeps out there are seeing girls right now.

sultress000 · « **Reply #62 on:** 05 November 2015, 11:11:00 am »

Quote from: politics999 on 04 November 2015, 09:36:49 pm

Sorry to revive this. I just thought I would add

It has made me look at men differently. Not because men cheat on their wives to spend time with me etc.
It is the time wasters, the people who try to get you to do services you don't offer. The men who don't go the clinic and get tested (I had a client who didn't even know how to book a checkup at the GUM clinc but was barebacking other people and then visiting me! ) The people who abuse girls/ get violent

How many people out there are married to men or even women who do the stuff above and have no idea? How can I get into a relationship with anyone when i've seen this behaviour and now realise you can actually never know what people are like truly? I'm trying not to let it cloud my view of men but its super hard. Does being an escort bring out the crazy in some people?

Its also super lonely. The money is great but I cant talk to anybody about it because no one knows what I do

Get yourself a meet up with another escort for friendship. I did (through the buddy board here) and its been the best thing I ever did.

kamila · « **Reply #63 on:** 05 November 2015, 01:02:26 pm »

Quote from: KayHerts on 20 September 2015, 12:35:55 pm

One of the reasons I was happy to become an escort was online dating burnout and years of meeting men who didn't want anything serious. I felt that if I was just going to have the sex, I might as well charge for it!

Same here. I used to feel that online dating men only see my V and all that sexy brain, caring personality just go to waste. I consider myself a good wife material. Until I got the ring on my finger and a good generous husband I will do business

no one gets hurt, lead on or as unfulfilled expectations!

EmaC · « **Reply #64 on:** 05 November 2015, 02:32:05 pm »

Quote from: politics999 on 04 November 2015, 09:36:49 pm

Sorry to revive this. I just thought I would add

It has made me look at men differently. Not because men cheat on their wives to spend time with me etc.
It is the time wasters, the people who try to get you to do services you don't offer. The men who don't go the clinic and get tested (I had a client who didn't even know how to book a checkup at the GUM clinc but was barebacking other people and then visiting me! ) The people who abuse girls/ get violent

How many people out there are married to men or even women who do the stuff above and have no idea? How can I get into a relationship with anyone when i've seen this behaviour and now realise you can actually never know what people are like truly? I'm trying not to let it cloud my view of men but its super hard. Does being an escort bring out the crazy in some people?

Its also super lonely. The money is great but I cant talk to anybody about it because no one knows what I do

It can be lonely staring at four walls however perks are great but get yourself a genuine escort buddy where you meet for coffee shopping ect

it makes a difference nobody knows what i do so i be friended another escort and after a few weeks of chatting then skyped to make sure we were both who we said and not some guy wanting a free bee were now close

its certainly been a great pick me up and have somebody to confide in and share stories with xx

sultress000 · « **Reply #65 on:** 08 November 2015, 02:27:38 pm »

Quote from: EmaC on 05 November 2015, 02:32:05 pm

Quote from: politics999 on 04 November 2015, 09:36:49 pm
Sorry to revive this. I just thought I would add

It has made me look at men differently. Not because men cheat on their wives to spend time with me etc.
It is the time wasters, the people who try to get you to do services you don't offer. The men who don't go the clinic and get tested (I had a client who didn't even know how to book a checkup at the GUM clinc but was barebacking other people and then visiting me! ) The people who abuse girls/ get violent

How many people out there are married to men or even women who do the stuff above and have no idea? How can I get into a relationship with anyone when i've seen this behaviour and now realise you can actually never know what people are like truly? I'm trying not to let it cloud my view of men but its super hard. Does being an escort bring out the crazy in some people?

Its also super lonely. The money is great but I cant talk to anybody about it because no one knows what I do

It can be lonely staring at four walls however perks are great but get yourself a genuine escort buddy where you meet for coffee shopping ect it makes a difference nobody knows what i do so i be friended another escort and after a few weeks of chatting then skyped to make sure we were both who we said and not some guy wanting a free bee were now close its certainly been a great pick me up and have somebody to confide in and share stories with xx

Yes thats the same as me with my escort friend now! .

I got into this after swinging and having casual sex with strangers for fun.. So once I realised I could charge for it it was a no brainer!

BlaqHarlot · « **Reply #66 on:** 15 November 2015, 05:55:59 am »

Definitely changed me as a person for the better! When I started three years ago I was 18, shy, inexperienced had slept with one person and hadn't even sucked a willy, was always the shy one who was scared to talk to people I didn't know.

Now my confidence has gone through the roof, I am still shy at times but I don't think you ever get rid of that. I love myself a lot more as before I didn't ever think I was good looking or desirable, total opposite now! Hahaha. I also think it's given me an amazing amount of independence and confidence to do things on my own. Even little things such as going to the dentist or to town would give me bad anxiety, now it's calmed down a hell of a lot!

There are definitely down sides, the stress from stalkers, my pictures posted on Facebook by a bitter regular once, but the positives outweigh the negatives by a mile.

Also met some amazing girls by only from this site but also through AW and it's great now to be able to tell all my escort stories rather than keeping them to myself!

KittenCandy · « **Reply #67 on:** 15 November 2015, 01:00:26 pm »

I think it has made me more sensitive to rape and sexual abuse towards women. Every time I watch telly and I see a rape scene or something I get really mad or if I read the news and I hear something like this I get really really pissed/saddened. I was never like this before. If I heard something like that I would just be like "Oh wow, how sad" now its like "bang the table, stand up shouting, throw stuff at the tv, rip up the newspaper

" I am not sure why. Maybe it's because I know what it's like to have sex with someone you don't want to have sex with? I think If I willingly do this and feel like shit just imagine how they must feel who didn't even give their consent?

This job did gave me confidence when i first started but now I have lost it somehow because I think the only men that would find me sexy/attractive are old and ugly and that doesn't really make me feel good about myself lol. I wanted to get married at one point in my life because I wanted to spend the rest of my life with the person i love, now I don' believe in love anymore and just want to get married one day so I don't spend the rest of my life alone. But I'm not even sure about this either. Would I rather live with a man that hates me because I am not able to give him sex anymore or would I rather live alone? I do not believe in faithfulness anymore now. All men cheat, have cheated or at least think about it.

BlaqHarlot · « **Reply #68 on:** 15 November 2015, 01:09:11 pm »

Quote from: Jessica201 on 15 November 2015, 01:00:26 pm

I think it has made me more sensitive to rape and sexual abuse towards women. Every time I watch telly and I see a rape scene or something I get really mad or if I read the news and I hear something like this I get really really pissed/saddened. I was never like this before. If I heard something like that I would just be like "Oh wow, how sad" now its like "bang the table, stand up shouting, throw stuff at the tv, rip up the newspaper " I am not sure why. Maybe it's because I know what it's like to have sex with someone you don't want to have sex with? I think If I willingly do this and feel like shit just imagine how they must feel who didn't even give their consent? This job did gave me confidence when i first started but now I have lost it somehow because I think the only men that would find me sexy/attractive are old and ugly and that doesn't really make me feel good about myself lol. I wanted to get married at one point in my life because I wanted to spend the rest of my life with the person i love, now I don' believe in love anymore and just want to get married one day so I don't spend the rest of my life alone. But I'm not even sure about this either. Would I rather live with a man that hates me because I am not able to give him sex anymore or would I rather live alone? I do not believe in faithfulness anymore now. All men cheat, have cheated or at least think about it.

I highly highly doubt the only men that would find you attractive are old and ugly, it's a guarantee there is someone (actually probably several) guys who you find attractive who will find you attractive too! It's sad to hear someone say they don't believe in love anymore, I do believe all men have cheated or thought about it... This used to bother me, not so much now.

Bless you, don't ever think you'll be alone, there's someone out there for everyone, and I'm sure one day your views will completely change for the better. X

Lois01827 · « **Reply #69 on:** 21 November 2015, 03:18:26 am »

Made me very much aware of the fact that guys are as insecure as girls, although we are lead to believe women are the weaker sex in many respects. I think not; women are immensely stronger (albeit not physically always) but for us, a WG holds the majority of the control me thinks

Littlemisslondon · « **Reply #70 on:** 21 November 2015, 11:42:18 am »

Ive definitely changed as a person, having dating fairly disastrously for a few years, my friend suggested I did this, he is an escort... Never thought I could do it! But yes, it has changed me, my confidence is up, it is empowering and has given me 'self worth' which I was lacking before. Im quite picky with clients and bookings, I only do GFE which is working out great. I've only done this for a couple of months but the amount of debt i've been able to clear has been amazing. That alone has taken so much pressure away I'm a lot more tolerant of things in my real life. Still not sure about the 'girlie' side of things though! Getting my nails done is still completely alien to me, but as my real job involves looking after animals and living in wellies, its a necessity !!

KittenCandy · « **Reply #71 on:** 21 November 2015, 09:05:18 pm »

Quote from: DesignerWhore on 15 November 2015, 01:09:11 pm

Quote from: Jessica201 on 15 November 2015, 01:00:26 pm
I think it has made me more sensitive to rape and sexual abuse towards women. Every time I watch telly and I see a rape scene or something I get really mad or if I read the news and I hear something like this I get really really pissed/saddened. I was never like this before. If I heard something like that I would just be like "Oh wow, how sad" now its like "bang the table, stand up shouting, throw stuff at the tv, rip up the newspaper " I am not sure why. Maybe it's because I know what it's like to have sex with someone you don't want to have sex with? I think If I willingly do this and feel like shit just imagine how they must feel who didn't even give their consent? This job did gave me confidence when i first started but now I have lost it somehow because I think the only men that would find me sexy/attractive are old and ugly and that doesn't really make me feel good about myself lol. I wanted to get married at one point in my life because I wanted to spend the rest of my life with the person i love, now I don' believe in love anymore and just want to get married one day so I don't spend the rest of my life alone. But I'm not even sure about this either. Would I rather live with a man that hates me because I am not able to give him sex anymore or would I rather live alone? I do not believe in faithfulness anymore now. All men cheat, have cheated or at least think about it.
I highly highly doubt the only men that would find you attractive are old and ugly, it's a guarantee there is someone (actually probably several) guys who you find attractive who will find you attractive too! It's sad to hear someone say they don't believe in love anymore, I do believe all men have cheated or thought about it... This used to bother me, not so much now.

Bless you, don't ever think you'll be alone, there's someone out there for everyone, and I'm sure one day your views will completely change for the better. X

Thanks girl. I hope so

x

TheLittleMatchGirl · « **Reply #72 on:** 21 November 2015, 11:55:27 pm »

Quote from: Jessica201 on 15 November 2015, 01:00:26 pm

I think it has made me more sensitive to rape and sexual abuse towards women. Every time I watch telly and I see a rape scene or something I get really mad or if I read the news and I hear something like this I get really really pissed/saddened. I was never like this before. If I heard something like that I would just be like "Oh wow, how sad" now its like "bang the table, stand up shouting, throw stuff at the tv, rip up the newspaper " I am not sure why. Maybe it's because I know what it's like to have sex with someone you don't want to have sex with? I think If I willingly do this and feel like shit just imagine how they must feel who didn't even give their consent? This job did gave me confidence when i first started but now I have lost it somehow because I think the only men that would find me sexy/attractive are old and ugly and that doesn't really make me feel good about myself lol. I wanted to get married at one point in my life because I wanted to spend the rest of my life with the person i love, now I don' believe in love anymore and just want to get married one day so I don't spend the rest of my life alone. But I'm not even sure about this either. Would I rather live with a man that hates me because I am not able to give him sex anymore or would I rather live alone? I do not believe in faithfulness anymore now. All men cheat, have cheated or at least think about it.

I change my mind often on this but at the moment I agree.
It definitely doesn't give me confidence anymore this job. Shine has totally worn off, but I'd rather be doing this work than any other right now

Candy · « **Reply #73 on:** 25 November 2015, 04:48:01 pm »

Me seems morer enyoing the time and I like sex so its top of the life, I hope I can stay forever young to keep doing this job. I like to have 2-3 clients in the day then go to the restaurant and have some time free. I never worked 9-5 job so I think could not do it. I know men more, they sexaulity is so diffrent that women's

Secret-Whore · « **Reply #74 on:** 25 November 2015, 06:26:54 pm »

It's made me suspicious of men and their motives and has made me much less willing to put up with nonsense from anyone (we get enough of that with this work)

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