Author Topic: Do you feel escorting has changed you as a person? (Read 48657 times)

mysteriousGirl · « **Reply #30 on:** 25 September 2015, 09:28:40 pm »

I'm far less inclined to have one night stands, in fact I never do anymore, I just don't feel the desire. I get enough sex to satisfy my urges AND get paid for it too lol. I think subconsciously I've developed an air of self-righteousness where I think "I could be getting paid for that" so why would I bother. I'm fine with that though and see it as a positive, but I suppose some might say i'm jaded but to be fair I was a bit of a tart before I started escorting, so this can only be a good thing when it comes to having more self respect lol.

I would never, ever have unprotected sex again unless with somebody i'm committed to long term. Being an escort has definitely made me more health conscious in regards to my sexual health.

I'm more confident when it comes to men. I was a shrinking violet before I created my alter ego and she's done wonders for my self esteem.

I'm less na?ve when it comes to monogamy, I've seen the loveliest guys who I would have never pictured being unfaithful - cheating on their wives - so it's kind of heightened my senses when it comes to infidelity. I don't think I would trust any future boyfriend now, at least not very easily.

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #31 on:** 25 September 2015, 09:56:42 pm »

Quote from: mysteriousGirl on 25 September 2015, 09:28:40 pm

I'm far less inclined to have one night stands, in fact I never do anymore, I just don't feel the desire. I get enough sex to satisfy my urges AND get paid for it too lol. I think subconsciously I've developed an air of self-righteousness where I think "I could be getting paid for that" so why would I bother. I'm fine with that though and see it as a positive, but I suppose some might say i'm jaded but to be fair I was a bit of a tart before I started escorting, so this can only be a good thing when it comes to having more self respect lol.

I would never, ever have unprotected sex again unless with somebody i'm committed to long term. Being an escort has definitely made me more health conscious in regards to my sexual health.

I'm more confident when it comes to men. I was a shrinking violet before I created my alter ego and she's done wonders for my self esteem.

I'm less na?ve when it comes to monogamy, I've seen the loveliest guys who I would have never pictured being unfaithful - cheating on their wives - so it's kind of heightened my senses when it comes to infidelity. I don't think I would trust any future boyfriend now, at least not very easily.

The same here f buddies are out the window but paying f buddies are on always. It has made me more wary of them and don't rush getting close if date out side.

It so very easy for men to cheat even those who claim not cheating with escorts.

Teddy Bear · « **Reply #32 on:** 26 September 2015, 06:32:17 am »

Definitely. I was a mess when I got into escorting because of being in an extremely long relationship with an NPD at the time. Escorting gave me the courage to break free and be my own person and I'm so much stronger now. I also developed a thick skin not to take shit from anyone any longer, I have so much to thank escorting for because it probably saved my life as I truly believe my then abusive partner would've killed me one day and I got away

I trust my husband more because of escorting as visiting all these men who see me as a commodity and an object has shown me how much my hubby loves and respects me. Any man who is getting it regularly in a relationship has no need to stray by paying for it or otherwise. It has shown me that a certain type of male pays for escorts though, more of an attitude thing rather than age as well.

MollyG · « **Reply #33 on:** 26 September 2015, 02:29:26 pm »

Quote from: mysteriousGirl on 25 September 2015, 09:28:40 pm

I would never, ever have unprotected sex again unless with somebody i'm committed to long term. Being an escort has definitely made me more health conscious in regards to my sexual health.

I'm more confident when it comes to men. I was a shrinking violet before I created my alter ego and she's done wonders for my self esteem.

I'm less na?ve when it comes to monogamy, I've seen the loveliest guys who I would have never pictured being unfaithful - cheating on their wives - so it's kind of heightened my senses when it comes to infidelity. I don't think I would trust any future boyfriend now, at least not very easily.

Heightened awareness in sexual health matters is a thing I learnt. Before escorting, risky sex was the norm and expected from every man I was casually dating.

BarbaraB · « **Reply #34 on:** 26 September 2015, 05:44:43 pm »

my work definitly change me, i more believe my self couple years ago i was "grey mouse" without self confidence ..

BarbaraB · « **Reply #35 on:** 26 September 2015, 05:49:07 pm »

i don't believe anyone ...this work change me a lot, with "friends", guys etc...

I'm little bit keep down, with all relationships, friendships ... in the end i find all guys just want one or my money ... and girls.. i don't want attack anyone but mostly want some information, where touring, how to advertisement, in which hotel can work ... etc etc etc

I'm really honest person, ppl around me know what i do.. i did before porn.. and honesty i don't want nobody hurt, with lie and make some stories why a lot travel... and after somebody will find my ad etc etc

i love what i do .. but sometimes i wish if can be all easy like work, u have just limited time, u know when is begging and when is end... and what exactly is happen... without silly manipulations and f.... brain .....

i think give up....i have two lovely daughter, couple real friends... but I'm scared make new or try have "something serious" in my head is all time red light if u know what i mean...

somebody feel this in same way or I'm just weird?

Chicabcn30 · « **Reply #36 on:** 26 September 2015, 07:34:10 pm »

Sure,it did.....
All of us lose the self confidence, the capacity of love and to trust on the other and everything for us turns temporary and without commitments
All of us! soon or later

The_Lynx · « **Reply #37 on:** 26 September 2015, 07:39:21 pm »

Quote from: Chicabcn30 on 26 September 2015, 07:34:10 pm

Sure,it did.....
All of us lose the self confidence, the capacity of love and to trust on the other and everything for us turns temporary and without commitments
All of us! soon or later

That's a sweeping generalization to make tbh, and far from the truth.

cheesypeas · « **Reply #38 on:** 26 September 2015, 08:27:23 pm »

Quote from: Chicabcn30 on 26 September 2015, 07:34:10 pm

Sure,it did.....
All of us lose the self confidence, the capacity of love and to trust on the other and everything for us turns temporary and without commitments
All of us! soon or later

Well that's very depressive and horrible.
I hope you find something or someone to help
you cope with feeling so damaged and negative.

Also it's not sensible to suggest we all feel the same as you.

KDB · « **Reply #39 on:** 27 September 2015, 12:58:05 am »

Quote from: The_Lynx on 26 September 2015, 07:39:21 pm

Quote from: Chicabcn30 on 26 September 2015, 07:34:10 pm
Sure,it did.....
All of us lose the self confidence, the capacity of love and to trust on the other and everything for us turns temporary and without commitments
All of us! soon or later

That's a sweeping generalization to make tbh, and far from the truth.

+1

ana30 · « **Reply #40 on:** 27 September 2015, 01:12:18 am »

Quote from: The_Lynx on 26 September 2015, 07:39:21 pm

Quote from: Chicabcn30 on 26 September 2015, 07:34:10 pm
Sure,it did.....
All of us lose the self confidence, the capacity of love and to trust on the other and everything for us turns temporary and without commitments
All of us! soon or later

That's a sweeping generalization to make tbh, and far from the truth.

Me thinks her post "got lost in translation" (?)

(I hope).

Lushblossom · « **Reply #41 on:** 27 September 2015, 06:08:43 am »

Very interesting replies ladies!

BBW Joi Parker · « **Reply #42 on:** 29 September 2015, 07:55:36 pm »

How I've Changed.....
I trust NO ONE
I no longer frown my face at outward sexuality
I cringe when wives and gfs carry themselves like theyre sssooo much better than me
Im alot more paranoid (especially about germs and filth)

cherryfcuk · « **Reply #43 on:** 02 October 2015, 12:23:59 am »

Sure it has relieved stress in my life as i no longer work myself into the ground while doing my day job and unpaid work in my chosen field.

I love the way it made me feel in the beginning and still do but i remember i felt so powerful. I know not alot of people earn anything like I do.
I would say it has made me a little more secretive in my private life when I date normal guys i have to think of ways of why im staying in all these fancy expensive houses.

Sometimes the draw of working for yourself has made me want to drop my career but I just remember I won't always do this just while it's good and i enjoy it!

Lushblossom · « **Reply #44 on:** 02 October 2015, 04:33:21 pm »

It has stopped me desiring relationships since I view our men as two a penny i.e. we know we are attractive enough and sexually competent enough to keep attracting sufficient business.

I constantly feel half in a relationship and in my experience of four live in relationships they are a great deal of hassle and don't lead to everlasting happiness and bliss .....

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