I have to say I do not see physical infidelity with a wg as cheating, to me it would be hurtful if my hubby told another woman he loved her, took her out, spent money on buying her gifts. Obviously I would not want to know if he goes and sees another wg, that he needs to keep secret but it would really not bother me or be the end of my marriage if I ever find out.
i guess that is one thing this industry has taught me, men see sex as a bodily function, it does not diminish their feelings for their partners, but unfortunately women see and use sex as a way of getting love.
I do not look at my clients as cheaters or lowlifes but men who have a physical itch that needs scratching.