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TeenKylie

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Do you ever give them some money back?
« on: 29 July 2012, 11:54:05 pm »
I had a two hour appointment tonight. It was booked in advance as he was comming down for the olympics and things went really well but basically after an hour and half he had cum twice and we had a nice chat but it was clear things were finished. When when I asked him if he wanted to go again he said he was pretty much done so even though we got on really well and I would have been more than happy to carry I didn't want him to think he had to lay there and chat for another 25mins or however long, so I said do you want to call it it 90mins and I gave him some money back and he said thanks and that he doesn't think anyone had ever done that before in a good way like it was a nice thing for me to do. This has happend before though and I think it is fair if the booking has clearly come to an end and both of you are happy to call it time rather forcing more sex or pointless chit chat for the remaining time. I wouldn't do it on a hour booking as I don't think that would be fair but on longer booking I don't see a problem.

What do you girls think?

Kylie x

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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #1 on: 30 July 2012, 12:03:16 am »
I do similar with regulars very rarely, but always say at the start polity. That they can leave when they want but no refunds will be given as have kept to my side. Some thing like that, this way they know where they stand. If you didn't mind doing then it doesn't seem to be an issue. Many escorts operate differently hence varies personality's and beliefs. It's what you feel comfortable with.

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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #2 on: 30 July 2012, 12:03:53 am »
I personally wouldn't give them money back. They have booked me for a set time, and I have therefore turned away other bookings because of that client, therefore no refund, as my time is money. How they spend the time (whether they choose to leave or stay have a cup of tea, or go for another round) is their choice.

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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #3 on: 30 July 2012, 08:40:57 am »
What do you .. think?

It sounds like you're happy with what you did. Hooray.

His comment reinforces that lots of people would indeed have taken the attitude that he booked for 120 minutes and if he wants to go before that, that's up to him and there would be no partial refund.

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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #4 on: 30 July 2012, 08:50:24 am »
as long as your happy that is great, personally i would not refund some money like casey said he booked that time and if he chooses to be done thats his problem he still had a brill time. Its not about being greedy or spiteful your time was booked. If you hire a car for 24 hours and bring it back early you don,t get a refund..x

La-lique

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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #5 on: 30 July 2012, 10:59:35 am »
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« Last Edit: 09 October 2012, 12:35:27 pm by La-lique »

TeenKylie

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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #6 on: 30 July 2012, 11:29:30 am »
What do you .. think?

It sounds like you're happy with what you did. Hooray.

His comment reinforces that lots of people would indeed have taken the attitude that he booked for 120 minutes and if he wants to go before that, that's up to him and there would be no partial refund.

See line one :)
Sorry? See line one?

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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #7 on: 30 July 2012, 11:54:31 am »
i think its nice what you did and hopefully he will remember that in future and book again..

but ive stopped doing it and it annoys me when they expect it!
all day some times ive told guys i not avalible at a particular time,then they will try to take money back once they have come,if they book that time they book that time.,.
i have felt sorry for people though,when they come within seconds and booked an hour!!
and gave a little back..

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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #8 on: 30 July 2012, 01:27:16 pm »
I think Kylie was generous and it was a nice gesture. I have never given a refund but have not really
felt it necessary even when my clients have over estimated and needed less time than they thought.

I am not against giving a partial refund but would only do so under exceptional circumstances and would not
let it become the norm. That would give men the green light to only pay for the time they use, which is not how
our rate system is designed. 

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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #9 on: 30 July 2012, 03:11:40 pm »
I never did that. They booked me for a set amount of time and I set aside that amount of time in my day. I made sure I was doing nothing else and usually by then it was too late to re-arrange to do anything else.
 It may sound...greedy or unprofessional but frankly the issue was never brought up by any of them so really it never became a big deal.
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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #10 on: 30 July 2012, 03:19:23 pm »
I wouldn't give money back because a client decided to leave early of his own accord, although I did give a regular his money back once when he was called away to an emergency within minutes of arriving and we hadn't even made it past the front room.

I do give money back if a punter has paid for an extra service and we've not got to it for whatever reason - I don't want money I haven't earned. I don't turn people down for specific things like anal (or extremely rarely) but you do get the odd kid-in-a-sweetshop type who wants everything when booking and then turns out to be happy enough with a blowjob and a straightforward shag on the day itself :).

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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #11 on: 30 July 2012, 03:29:15 pm »
I wouldn't give money back because a client decided to leave early of his own accord, although I did give a regular his money back once when he was called away to an emergency within minutes of arriving and we hadn't even made it past the front room.

I do give money back if a punter has paid for an extra service and we've not got to it for whatever reason - I don't want money I haven't earned. I don't turn people down for specific things like anal (or extremely rarely) but you do get the odd kid-in-a-sweetshop type who wants everything when booking and then turns out to be happy enough with a blowjob and a straightforward shag on the day itself :).

I call them the EBTB clients

"eyes bigger than belly"  :)

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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #12 on: 30 July 2012, 03:47:01 pm »
I once gave a client some money back only because he gave too much by mistake.he even looking surprised thanked me for my honesty.

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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #13 on: 30 July 2012, 04:11:42 pm »
It depends I don't have any chargeable 'extras', and if a client is new and unsure how long he needs to book I usually advise the minimum booking, and explain they can always extend or book a longer appointment next time.

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Re: Do you ever give them some money back?
« Reply #14 on: 30 July 2012, 04:55:39 pm »
It depends I don't have any chargeable 'extras', and if a client is new and unsure how long he needs to book I usually advise the minimum booking, and explain they can always extend or book a longer appointment next time.

Yes I sometimes do that too.  First time clients who have not visited a wg before can ask for a long booking and I am not a money grabber
so will suggest a shorter booking to see how things go.