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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: Pip4 on 25 November 2020, 01:04:03 pm
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This topic has probably come up before in some guise but this one takes the biscuit.
On my profile in bold letters I have the following at the top of the page.
- Incall date as in I am working today plus how far I am from the nearest station
- brief car parking details
- My green light is on
- Tour details are at the end of the page
- My telephone number is on display
I receive the following e-mail
"Hey hun hope you are well just wondering if your working or going to be working in the near future after lockdown. Thanks"
:FF :FF :FF
SERIOUSLY!
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Lol ;D
This is quite a common problem with Some clients and timewasters
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This happens more often then not. At least 60% of knobs do not bother reading anything, some are thick and some just lazy or both.
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Yeah I believe some just see the picture , grab the contact details and go.
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Since this current lockdown started, I was contacted by so many timewasters that I actually removed every single piece of information from my profile, and added a note that I am not currently available, and won’t be until early December.
Do you think this has stopped time wasters contacting me to meet now? No, it has not.
I’m outcall only, something I am very clear, and is evidenced in the pricing; only outcall prices are listed. Yet, still I’m contacted by those wanting an incall.
Some men are entitled and want what they want; they don’t give a stuff what is listed on a profile.
It’s all good though as it just makes it easier to recognise those who warrant instant blocking!
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I think I want to poke a punter in the eye!
Just received a text a few mins ago as I tidy up up, chill before the next job.
"are you available"... I hate these text messages but we are in tough times so have to reply.
"Yes, I am next free at 5:30pm. Would you like to book?" My reply
"Can I book for 1 hour of fun at 4pm. R all your enjoys included in the price. Pls text me yr post code" His response
I am switching off my phone. I am done :-[ :-[ :-[
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Course they don't read. They just look at the pretty pictures!
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I switched my phone off on tour a week or so ago as it was in danger of being violently smashed against the wall! ;D
In answer to your question, ime, a horny man never reads. I just lump them in with the other idiots. Sometimes they book if I can be bothered to spoon-feed them the info but I'm so used to it now it only bothers me if it's a really bad day for timewasters.
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The level of not reading relevant information has been quite shocking recently. I've gone through the whole process of arranging a booking via text for them to then ask "who is this by the way? What's your name on AW? I've texted a few and not sure which one you are " :FF
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Ive had them call & say, “Are you the redhead?”
My reply is, “are you seriously calling someone & not knowing whom you’re speaking to? Are you kidding me??”
*sheepish reply* “Well uhhh... I’ve contacted a lot of girls today....”
Guys, it’s FINE if you’re shopping around. Really. Just mayyyyybe don’t tell US about it.
Then I tell them, “When you figure out who I am, you get back to me.”
Click. Hang up on them. Invariably I don’t hear back. Shocker🙄.
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I've noticed now 9 out of 10 emails through AW are those with zero feedback and my numbers on display. So either I've already blocked their number or just timewasters. I suppose guys must be bored and more time to bother us.
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I think I want to poke a punter in the eye!
Just received a text a few mins ago as I tidy up up, chill before the next job.
"are you available"... I hate these text messages but we are in tough times so have to reply.
"Yes, I am next free at 5:30pm. Would you like to book?" My reply
"Can I book for 1 hour of fun at 4pm. R all your enjoys included in the price. Pls text me yr post code" His response
I am switching off my phone. I am done :-[ :-[ :-[
Aaahhh these are the worst and I am sure being intentionally stupid/annoying !! Surely no grown man is this thick? ...Hm well...
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I just posted about this in 'things clients do that annoy you' so I thought I'd post here too!
The fact that punters literally NEVER read your profile. I was getting 100's of messages on AW with punters asking the same question - so I decided to make an FAQ with all my most popular questions - and posted on the top of my profile ' Please read my FAQ before messaging me'.... Yet behold.... I am still... getting.... the same questions.... that could be answered... by my fucking FAQ!!!!
While were here, here are some of the questions I keep repeatedly getting (DESPITE MY FAQ ) that really piss me off!!!!
- something along the lines of im a photographer blah blah blah I can take some professional pictures of you for your profile blah blah blah
- Hi do you want a content creator partner!!! we can make *insert bullshit amount of money* every day!!!!
- Hi I really want to see you will you accept *insert lowball offer*??? im clean and respectful!!!
- Hi do you do anal/bareback? how much extra?
- 'can you send me a face picture'
also at the top of my profile it states I BOLD LETTERING AND UNDER A HEADING:
UNTILL WE ARE OUT OF LOCKDOWN I AM ONLY OFFERING WEBCAM, DIRECTIM AND PHONE CHAT - so I have taken my escorting rates off my profile, and even 5 mins before I wrote this I have several messages
'hi babe can I book you for one hour today'
'Hi how much for 30mins incall'
'Hi, I would love to meet you today. Please text or WhatsApp me on 07......'
'hi what's your rates for incalls'
'Whats your booking number so I can book you?'
ignorant bastards!!!
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God I know the feeling...bane of my life!!
Regardless if you have a trashy half-arsed profile, or an eloquent detailed one, you will still get the ignorant pests that will never bother to read it!
I used to have a detailed FAQ section also, but nobody bothered reading it so now I've bullet pointed the most important, if that comes across rude I'm fine with that, I'd rather scare off the idiot time wasters rather than have them message me.. haha
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if that comes across rude I'm fine with that, I'd rather scare off the idiot time wasters rather than have them message me.. haha
The problem is, it will not scare off most of the TWs, because they don't bother reading your profile in the first place. But it can put off genuine clients.
What I do on my profile is write it to appeal to my ideal client. (Polite, can afford my prices, doesn't boundary push, is capable of reading and following my instructions on how to make a booking.) I ask them to send me some specific info when they text me. If I get enquiries which don't answer the things I've asked, then I know they haven't read my profile and their enquiry will go to the bottom of the pile marked "only reply if desperate for cash" :D
This also weeds out the guys who can read but are arrogant tossers - they will decide they're too special to text, so they'll try phoning me, or saying stupid shit like "I know you want to know this info but first let me tell you about myself because I'm rich, thick and entitled."
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I think most punters access the site via the app, which means they don't have to look at anything other than your pictures and your number. Until AW actually get their heads our of their arses and design something that works for us, we're going to get the nob heads who can't be fucking bothered to find out anything about you..
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Didn't even occur to me until you said it but you are totally right.
I really hate Adultwork. Purely made for the ease of the punter, accounts deleted for minor infringements, yuuuuge % when you want to take the credits out :FF
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I think most punters access the site via the app, which means they don't have to look at anything other than your pictures and your number. Until AW actually get their heads our of their arses and design something that works for us, we're going to get the nob heads who can't be fucking bothered to find out anything about you..
There's something wrong with their app as when I checked my profile on there, it states I offer incalls at x price. I don't offer incalls whatsoever and the outcall price that is listed is completely incorrect too. I contacted AW about it and sent through screen grabs but they said they couldn't see what the issue is.
I despair.
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What is it with these lot on aw ? Where’s all the decent men ?
They so thick message ask if I am working as they interested , where you live , availability, I reply nicely then they ignore or delete profiles they get on my nerves.
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I have to finish at 230 pm weekdays and start from 930 am. It doesn't stop guys sending emails at 215 pm does it! I repeat I finish 230 pm then they reply 'So are you free 3 pm instead'. Do they have a comprehension problem or what??!
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It's getting worse then ever they are lazy as hell. What makes it worse is if they have hardly any money to spend do not bother to look at your prices and phone up and cant even afford you because there too lazy to check the price. I block all those types.
The ones that mostly read nothing will just be ringing around several women. It's stressful dealing with such timewasters and cheapskates that i just block a lot now there not worth my time.
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I have a few keywords in my profile that means I can work out if they have read my profile
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This happens more often then not. At least 60% of knobs do not bother reading anything, some are thick and some just lazy or both.
Get it daily “oh sorry luv I just look at the picture and call normally” infuriating
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Get it daily “oh sorry luv I just look at the picture and call normally” infuriating
Yeah they call normally but a lot are on a cash budget but don't think it's important to see if they can or want to pay your fees they prefer to find out by talking to you not by moving there eyes a inch down to read the prices.
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Just had a client call 'hey I know it's not in your likes list but just wondering if you did *insert fucking weird service here*....
Like... If its not... Listed... Then the answer... Is no hun.....
Why are men so infuriatingly ignorant
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Many of them are just lazy, entitled chancers and possible timewasters. The AW app doesn't help because they can look at pics and hit contact without going anywhere else. Why would they waste their time reading, when in their minds we're here at any time of the night and day to answer any question they may have? I don't understand why they wouldn't want to be more informed about the girl they were going to see but, in reality, as long as we have a vagina they're all good.
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I literally just took my number off my profile as I realised that no one reads.
I think in reality its just chancers, people who don't care about their own health or just have a few marbles rolling around in their head instead of common sense. ::)
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Many of them are just lazy, entitled chancers and possible timewaster. The AW app doesn't help because they can look at pics and hit contact without going anywhere else. Why would they waste their time reading, when in their minds we're here at any time of the night and day to answer any question they may have? I don't understand why they wouldn't want to be more informed about the girl they were going to see but, in reality, as long as we have a vagina they're all good.
I always look at desktop view for AW so maybe that is some of the problem too many looking at the app and it's making the problem worse.
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I find it rude of them to ask if we are free evenings/weekends when if they bother to read our profile it clearly states our hours.
From now on I won't even grace them with a reply.
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I find it rude of them to ask if we are free evenings/weekends when if they bother to read our profile it clearly states our hours.
From now on I won't even grace them with a reply.
Honestly I have on my profile that for the time being I am working one day a week, and stated the day on my profile. Still get the extremely entitled ones who message 'Hey babe let me book you tomorrow at ...." "hey babe can you do an outcall to *insert address that's miles away*"
I no longer entertain messages that can be answered by reading my profile and I usually block all the chancers!!
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The ones who actually read are the minority I have found but the ones who bother to read tend to be the good clients who contact you appropriately and are who they say they are.
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Many of them are just lazy, entitled chancers and possible timewasters. The AW app doesn't help because they can look at pics and hit contact without going anywhere else. Why would they waste their time reading, when in their minds we're here at any time of the night and day to answer any question they may have? I don't understand why they wouldn't want to be more informed about the girl they were going to see but, in reality, as long as we have a vagina they're all good.
Spot on & that bloody app. I give a condescending reply about clicking on the words to read the information & hang up now. I can't stand the impulsive idiots.
I think sometimes aswell they like to test us to see if our information is accurate. ::)
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I've noticed now 9 out of 10 emails through AW are those with zero feedback.
Same here, what IS going on?
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Same here, what IS going on?
I *think* if they don't use their account for a few months it gets deactivated and eventually wiped, if that's the case then over lockdown a lot of guys probably weren't logging into their accounts and have lost them.
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I *think* if they don't use their account for a few months it gets deactivated and eventually wiped, if that's the case then over lockdown a lot of guys probably weren't logging into their accounts and have lost them.
Aaah that makes sense, thank you :)
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Grrrr this one makes out to be oh so charming and of course he would love to meet in the future as he mails hoping for his free little chats. Acting the innocent as he's so irresistible that surely my time is free for him and why would I have different rules to the other ladies....!
He probably would be a great client and has good feedback but Chancer.... :FF
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Every time.
Everything is written in my profile. All my do's and donts.
And yet:
"Hiya love, do you do (x) or (y)?"
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It clearly states on my profile days and times, why do some ask for a time & a day you don’t offer...either they don’t read or are a boundary pusher from the start. Really, I couldn’t make it any clearer!! :FF
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It clearly states on my profile days and times, why do some ask for a time & a day you don’t offer...either they don’t read or are a boundary pusher from the start. Really, I couldn’t make it any clearer!! :FF
I’m so fed up of clients not reading my profile. Sometimes I just roll with it but this past month it’s just got to the point where I’m not replying to any texts that I deem stupid and have cancelled 3 bookings where the clients didn’t listen to arrival instructions And are stood outside for more than 10 minutes looking indiscreet. I used to put up with so much from clients but 2021 I only want clients that aren’t total pigs :D
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I have to finish at 230 pm weekdays and start from 930 am. It doesn't stop guys sending emails at 215 pm does it! I repeat I finish 230 pm then they reply 'So are you free 3 pm instead'. Do they have a comprehension problem or what??!
Yes no comprehension for anyone's time but their own. I get this on a the phone alot too. It's 13.30 & I'm closing at 14.00.. can I come now & they are 20 minutes away or something.
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Ah the joys of being a sex worker. I've had texts asking me 'which one' I am...I reply it doesn't matter who I am cos u won't be seeing me...and hit the wonderful block button
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I was literally juggling two timewasting idiots yesterday. They both started off well enough but just as I was about to consider pencilling them in, one said "So where are you based". I replied with my stock answer "What does it say on my profile?". He disappears for a bit then reappears with "It only says somewhere between x and x". No idea where he's got that from, I'm assuming it's the general location blurb at the bottom of the landing page. So he's completely managed to miss the tab labelled "WHEN and WHERE".
The second one when I referred him back to my profile, asked me what my username was! I mean, seriously.
The most annoying thing about these guys, is that you can waste loads of time bloody spoon feeding them when you could be doing something else. I know I could just tell them but 1. where's the fun in that and 2. if they're actual timewasters they won't bother going back to read your profile anyway
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Literally just received this via text...
Him: Hi can I ask what area you are in please?
Me: If I were you I'd have a look at the WHEN and WHERE tabs on my profile
Him: Yes seen it won't be asking again your to bloody rude and probably not even worth it
Me: Yawn
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Just had a 30minute booking.
The guy didn't even know my fee or my name when he showed up. Tried arguing that my ad says £70, when actually it says £90.
His bloody lookout if he doesn't even know who he's coming to see
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Omg seriously.
So in my summary on AW , not even the main profile, the first two words are "Indefinitely indisposed" then in my profile it says "due to covid numbers being so high I won't be working again until the numbers come down significantly"
E-mails - "You working today" "when you back" " whats your availability"
ARRRRGGHHHHHHHH
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Just had a 30minute booking.
The guy didn't even know my fee or my name when he showed up. Tried arguing that my ad says £70, when actually it says £90.
His bloody lookout if he doesn't even know who he's coming to see
& you know what I do when they start that bullshit? *grim look*
“Great! Which website did you find that on? What do you mean you don’t know? You saw it, right? Well, where? if you can’t show me where you found it, I’m not going to honor it.” Hoooo boy, THAT lights a fire🔥under them😂 Of course they can’t FIND said ad because oh gosh, I’m betting that it never existed in the 1st place, did it?😡
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Ha I'm gonna give that one a go next time ;D
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oh my god.... SO I recently reactivated my profile on AW after having a few months break from SW, as I just wanted to maybe set up doing webcam and phone chat.... On the TOP is the profile tag (which they don't need to click on your profile to read which states 'I AM NOT OFFERING BOOKINGS' and also top of my profile description it says 'I am no longer offering incalls or outcalls'
I wake up today with SEVERAL MESSAGES:
'Hi babe I want to meet you tomorrow send me your number'
'Hi can I come and see you today?'
"Hi babe what time do you starts?'
"what is your number for booking"
it really fucking pisses me off.
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oh my god.... SO I recently reactivated my profile on AW after having a few months break from SW, as I just wanted to maybe set up doing webcam and phone chat.... On the TOP is the profile tag (which they don't need to click on your profile to read which states 'I AM NOT OFFERING BOOKINGS' and also top of my profile description it says 'I am no longer offering incalls or outcalls'
I wake up today with SEVERAL MESSAGES:
'Hi babe I want to meet you tomorrow send me your number'
'Hi can I come and see you today?'
"Hi babe what time do you starts?'
"what is your number for booking"
it really fucking pisses me off.
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I set up an autoreply saying that im not working right now and if their message headline says "booking request" then i dont even open it.
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I think the problem sometimes is that especially if they haven't seen you before they contact several ladies on the day and get mixed up. Then whoever responds first gets the business.
I put on my profile if it's not in my likes list I don't do it so please don't ask. Today guy emails me can I cum on your face when facials are not on my likes list. So just ignored and deleted.
That's the joy of regulars. We both know pretty much what we want and hardly ever ask for things not on my list plus they know my rates.
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Every once in awhile the clients not paying attention works in our favor. Rarely, but it does happen.
Had a guy come in the hotel room & say, “Now, how much is an hour?” as he’s getting his wallet out. I’m opening my mouth to snappily say he should already know this/it’s on the website/whatever, & he says, “$400, right?”
Why, ummm. Yes. YES. IT. IS.😂
Got myself quite the tip that day. Heh.😈
Should’ve paid attention, son.