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thickthighs

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Walk out
« on: 26 July 2021, 04:06:26 pm »
Well I guess it was going to happen eventually after 10 years on and off I had my first walk out. Looked me up and down with a sneer like I was a piece of shit, I'm wondering if he just does it for fun? If the next one does it I'll worry. I have plenty of regs so I know I'm not that bad but it was still quite shocking as it's the first time it's happened.

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Re: Walk out
« Reply #1 on: 26 July 2021, 06:03:53 pm »
Sorry you had to deal with that! There are some sad arseholes who do this for a laugh - they have no intention of going through with it, they just want to have a wank later and feel smug about his they "got one over" on you.

I've been in sex work 5 years now and I think I've had 5 walkers, so I think 1 in ten years means you're doing really good! I'm in the mature niche and used to be plus sized as well, so perhaps that increases the incidence of arseholes, I don't know.

If your photos are accurate and your profile is up to date on age, dress size, boob size etc then I really wouldn't let this dick head get to you.

I know it's horrible though! I still remember an absolute wanker who literally looked me up and down like I was hideous and sneered "ugh no thanks" and walked off.

Have you looked yours up on client eye? He may have a pattern of doing this.
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Re: Walk out
« Reply #2 on: 26 July 2021, 07:03:51 pm »

I've had that happen a few times so, even though it's horrible when it happens, one in ten years is good.

Some clients do that for kicks or to have a peep for free and others have probably built up a fantasize in their head that didn't match reality. I've got professional photos up which I think don't help but I will change them soon  :P

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Re: Walk out
« Reply #3 on: 26 July 2021, 08:46:10 pm »
Honestly thickthighs, the problem is with that nob head, not you. sending hugs x
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Re: Walk out
« Reply #4 on: 26 July 2021, 09:03:55 pm »
Some sad pathetic men do this to display their obvious hatred for women. They’re bottom tier men darling. Be safe of mind in the fact that it’s nothing to do with you. Men like that hate women because they’re incels who can’t handle the fact that no woman wants them so they do things like this to degrade women out of their own insecurity.

They aren’t worth a second of your time. I have had men text me just to call me ugly or say I charge too much. Ironically enough some of these men have been the ugliest motherfuckers I’ve ever seen. And I’m not just saying that. They’ve genuinely been old wrinkly balding ugly motherfuckers who have a god complex which came from god knows where.

Don’t take it personal. They get a kick out of doing this. They’re losers. They hate women. It doesn’t matter what you look like. They’re normally social rejects. No man with a fulfilling ng life has the time to be going around doing things like that.

thickthighs

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Re: Walk out
« Reply #5 on: 26 July 2021, 09:35:23 pm »
thank you you lovely lot! after that bellend I saw a gorgeous reg (he is a gorgeous black guy with a lovely cock lol) I told him about it and he said pretty much what you guys did, was a bit of a shock confidence wise but I won't let it get to me. love you all

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Re: Walk out
« Reply #6 on: 28 July 2021, 05:48:47 am »
The only time it out and out happened to me the punter just didn't give me any chance whatsoever, dumped whatever guilt or fear or disrespect right on me.

Whole attitude and I could then trace this back to how he had been with me on the phone making the booking, followed by arriving early for what he knew was the earliest time I'd accept. Didn't even look at me and it was a great day I was on point, everything spot on, even the weather was nice.

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Re: Walk out
« Reply #7 on: 28 July 2021, 07:37:30 am »
I've had 3 walkouts over nearly 6 years.

And all from Adultwork too  ::)

But yes, what Sophie says  :)
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Re: Walk out
« Reply #8 on: 28 July 2021, 12:00:41 pm »
I get them occasionally but I am on the road nearly all the time. I had one about 7 weeks ago. He said, 'I can't do this' and literally legged it.
I was more amused than annoyed as he'd obviously completely bottled it.
The ones that do anger me are the ones who do it on purpose but thankfully they are few and far between. They are just idiots who get off on walking out, it's how they get their kicks.
If your profile pictures are accurate then the problem is with them.

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Re: Walk out
« Reply #9 on: 28 July 2021, 06:21:56 pm »
I get them occasionally but I am on the road nearly all the time. I had one about 7 weeks ago. He said, 'I can't do this' and literally legged it.
I was more amused than annoyed as he'd obviously completely bottled it.

I had one like this years ago. The panic on his face told me it was genuine bottling rather than deliberate.

He actually rang me the following day and apologised and I gave him a second chance (I know many wouldn't, but it was a quiet day.) He did turn up and the booking was fine.
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Re: Walk out
« Reply #10 on: 29 July 2021, 12:53:31 am »
They make me feel self conscious.  Like theres something wrong with the way I look
 I hate look and go visitors.
I've had 2 in July.

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Re: Walk out
« Reply #11 on: 06 August 2021, 06:48:24 am »
Don't worry about it love -  He is just an Ar5e who will get his kicks out of doing this every day.
I've had a few over the years.
I had one guy, who after letting him in my home I asked him
if he wanted a coffee he shrieked "OMG! You are a man!" and quickly fled back out the door.
Strange fellow!

Dust yourself off and go again - you are beautiful.
It costs a lot to look this cheap.