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Sd25

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Childcare and working
« on: 14 September 2024, 08:07:13 pm »
Those with kids !!! Please advise me on the best thing to do in my situation as desperate , so I used to work full
Time but now I have a 7m old and living at home, on paper I have no legit income so I can’t actually move out and I’m struggling to find time to go to work when I have her full time , family not available often , I guess my question is what do you do with your kids when your working , especially single mothers ? If they are not of school age ! TIA



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amy

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Re: Childcare and working
« Reply #1 on: 14 September 2024, 09:26:26 pm »
You must have some records from before you stopped working if you were full time before you had your baby; can you rebuild them and just include your maternity break? Nobody is going to find it odd that you had some time off for that and you can always get the more recent stuff from your phone records/banking :)

I don't know much about childcare but I'm sure you get some entitlement to free childcare if you're working and you have young children, although 7 months might be a bit young and I don't know what the cut off is. You could call Citizens Advice and ask about it or look on the .gov website?

Missizzy

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Re: Childcare and working
« Reply #2 on: 14 September 2024, 09:26:55 pm »
I'm in a very similar situation to you, I'll be relying on my saint of a mother, so I'd appreciate any decent advice too.

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Re: Childcare and working
« Reply #3 on: 15 September 2024, 06:06:43 pm »
You can now receive 15 hours “free” when your child is 9 months. The filling in is a minefield. You can message me if you like. The key question is - are you self employed (or will you be ?) or what are you doing officially ? You don’t need to explain here just something to think about. If you are self employed and say so one day a week or equivalent hours - depending on other circumstances - you may qualify for UC (contingent on savings)… then you get 85 per cent reimbursed. If not, if you are working self employed you are entitled to 20 per cent tax free childcare plus the 15 hours when your child is 9 months old.

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Re: Childcare and working
« Reply #4 on: 15 September 2024, 06:08:11 pm »
Oh- you say no legit income. It would be the only way to claim childcare if you are legit,

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Re: Childcare and working
« Reply #5 on: 16 September 2024, 06:10:53 am »
Just register self employed and find a registered childminder e.g. three days a week.

It isn't hard.

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Re: Childcare and working
« Reply #6 on: 06 November 2024, 12:08:01 pm »
Hi, I'm a single mum without support. I found another single mum friend to help me. She has her kids only half the time so I plan my work days based on her parenting schedule. I pay her £100 to collect my daughters from school watch them over night and take them to school the next day. So I can work 2 days a week.