No don't need to be aroused but much prefer it.
Do tend to get fussy with clients, so, if I don't have a good time with them, they still get my full attention and good service, but, I don't see them again.
Awful bad breath, for example means no repeat booking.

Their pleasure is the most important, but do find that most guys really want you to genuinely enjoy yourself. So it's a mutual thing.

Cant BEAR guys who stick their whole tongue in my mouth. Its f***ing vile!! I try and do minimal kissing and kiss them everywhere but their mouth, lol

I think it's hilarious how this works has changed me. A few years ago giving a guy head was sooo intimate in my opinion lol. Now I'd rather suck 10 Cocks than spend a hour freach kissing a client!!

I totally agree. BJs are so much more enjoyable and easy- especially covered but exchanging saliva with loads of men is gross. I try to do it as little as possible. DFK is the worse. Next time I get asked that I'm going to refuse, but most of my clients just ask if I do French kissing. I'd love to stop French kissing altogether but I'd lose too much business. I had one client who kept sucking my tongue and then wanted me to do the same- it was the most revolting thing I've ever been asked to do! Well almost! His tongue tasted horrible. He then had the gall to say he must be my favourite client - I blocked him after that.

I do DFK as I offer a GFE but regardless of how nice the man is or how good everything else is, if the kissing is awful, I won't see them again. Kissing is one of my biggest turn ons and if it's awful, I feel horrible about seeing through the rest of the booking. As one of my very favourite regulars puts it, "we are mouth compatible" so building up to everything else feels really natural and that's the best feeling ever. I don't like disjointed appointments but apparently I'm a better actress than I think!

I do DFK and I do mostly sometimes enjoy it but it def feels different now, I used to love it. I kissed someone outside of sex work the other day & couldn't believe how different it felt. I miss real life kisses lool.

100% agree, met up with a long term "friend with benefits " after a long time last week, I couldn't believe I had forgotten how different kissing someone your genuinely attracted too feels.

Nope, nope, nope. I can think of nothing more invasive some a random guy locking lips with me. But then again, I started getting so repulsed by being touched by people that I re-branded from a GFE to a dom over the course of 6 months.

Personally, it was the fingering I hated most. Then it became oral (on me). Then it was touching of my body in general. Have no idea what happened but something snapped and suddenly I just hated being touched by anyone other than my partner!!

I've started to change too. I used to do everything (that initial newbie enthusiasm) and I've gradually been reducing my services. I no longer allow fingers or fists inside me, this was mainly because I was getting injured alot, but I also found it creepy. I hate them giving me oral, it makes my skin crawl, this is way too intimate for my liking, as is DFK. I dont like them sucking on my nipples either     all these are activities that I wish I could save for my guy. However, these are a popular request and they make me money, which is why I do this job.  I much prefer the rough sex, anal, deepthroat, ws, just being proper used by the guy. That is something that I enjoy doing with the clients.

So, I just put my game face on and get on with it

It's interesting as to what you say, katrina.   I have discovered my types since I started this line of work.  I used to adore a tall slender Adonis for many years - he has to be that or not good enough, I had LTR with one of these, which didn't end well. 

Easier if you fancy the guy..  But you can have chemistry with ppl you never thought of finding the chemistry with previously.  Strange game, sex work.