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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: Angel eyes on 29 March 2016, 01:00:24 am
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How many of you do DFK ? I never used to mind it now it churns my stomach ... I will do anything to avoid kissing on any level ... ( is it just me that avoids avoids avoids ) xxx
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I agree to do it in the final minute. X
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I used to offer it fairly often but over the years have found men's hygiene dentally isn't always good enough and foul breath is such a turn off. Smokers are a no no too. I just offer 'at discretion'.
It also makes me get colds and 'flus too often in winters ...
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I offer it, I'm very vanilla so I wouldn't get away with not offering it. I don't mind it and have been quite lucky that I don't get many who stink or slobber
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I offer it.I think most blokes looking for a gfe will expect some kissing.
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I avoid as much as I can. Depends on the guy as well. If his breath is good and he doesn't repulse me then I do a little FK then move on to suck his dick. If I feel guilty, I alternate. Little Fk, then lots of oral, then back up for tiny fk. If he does make me gag, I give couple peck on the lips. If he pokes his tongue out I move my head away and they take the hint. I don't do DFK because DFK to them is choking you with their tongue. They like to put their tongue as far down your throat as possible and it's absolutely revolting so as soon as they start that shit I just stop kissing all together. One guy once held on to my head and shoved his tongue straight down my throat and grunted. He did it so quick. How do I deter animals from booking?
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I alwayyys kiss, and FK and DID offer DFK but.... recently i had a client who loved saliva and spit and would dfk which was bad enough, however he was using poppers so i could smell all that so by the end i was feeling very sick :-( So... if it gets too sloppy i move onto their neck or cock!! xxx
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Yes I'm the same I concentrate on down below so so much .. And give a little peck now ! .. Also I look at gums n mouth and see manky teeth and think REALLY you want me to kiss you ??? I think not ! Also I had one reg ( which I've got rid of ) because he liked his whole mouth around mine it was vile .. Way too much slobber ! Actually need to stop describing it making me feel ill .. Xxx
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I offer it 'at discretion' but so far haven't had anyone too gross to do it with, guess I've been lucky. Some men are terrible kissers though!
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Find it hard to enjoy a session without it. Occasionally I get guys that are horrible kissers, I don't see them again. If it's really bad I stop kissing.
The time drags and I find it harder to get aroused without.
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It amazes me how the older married men are often so bad a kissing, surely their wives could have taught them? Had a few that just open their mouths wide and poke their tongue in and out like a tortoise, it's gross
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I alwayyys kiss, and FK and DID offer DFK but.... recently i had a client who loved saliva and spit and would dfk which was bad enough, however he was using poppers so i could smell all that so by the end i was feeling very sick :-( So... if it gets too sloppy i move onto their neck or cock!! xxx
Know how you feel.
I've now banned poppers, don't mind guys using them but I end up with a thumping headache from the second hand fumes.
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I offer DFK, not had a properly bad one yet, i do leave a bottle of mouthwash in the bathroom and some disposable little cups, quite a few take up the offer ! x
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I can't imagine offering a GFE with no kissing... I kiss every client who wants to, but if their breath is really bad I move away to other areas lol I hate it though when *some* seem to think its ok to slaver in my mouth, if that begins to happen I literally move my face away and wipe my mouth to drop the hint and they stop doing it. Luckily most are fine though.
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I offer dfk, I don't mind doing it if the guy can kiss/isn't too bad/doesn't have smelly breath. But most have no idea how to kiss.a couple of times I've pulled away because their tongues are literally trying to lick the back of my throat, and I've looked down to see them still laying there looking like something out of the grudge with their mouths wide open (looking slightly dislocated) and their tongues wiggling around in the air at me and eyes wide open. What makes them think this isn't creepy as hell, let alone disgusting and not how you should kiss anyone. ... Why has no one in their real life told them not to do this? A lot of clients are lovely, but a lot do make me wonder how they've got to their age without knowing a thing about the female body, and it does make me wonder as to if that's the reason their OH never gives them sex anymore.
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A lot of clients are lovely, but a lot do make me wonder how they've got to their age without knowing a thing about the female body, and it does make me wonder as to if that's the reason their OH never gives them sex anymore.
I just think myself lucky I'm not their wife lol :-)))
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I offer dfk, I don't mind doing it if the guy can kiss/isn't too bad/doesn't have smelly breath. But most have no idea how to kiss.a couple of times I've pulled away because their tongues are literally trying to lick the back of my throat, and I've looked down to see them still laying there looking like something out of the grudge with their mouths wide open (looking slightly dislocated) and their tongues wiggling around in the air at me and eyes wide open. What makes them think this isn't creepy as hell, let alone disgusting and not how you should kiss anyone. ... Why has no one in their real life told them not to do this? A lot of clients are lovely, but a lot do make me wonder how they've got to their age without knowing a thing about the female body, and it does make me wonder as to if that's the reason their OH never gives them sex anymore.
and it does make me wonder as to if that's the reason their OH never gives them sex anymore.
I thought I was the only one that thought this to be honest. Pretty sure that's one of the reasons.
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When I have come across a bloke with bad breath,nose hair and a cheesy cock ramming and poking at me I also wonder why their partners don't put out anymore as well.... ;)
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When I have come across a bloke with bad breath,nose hair and a cheesy cock ramming and poking at me I also wonder why their partners don't put out anymore as well.... ;)
I also wonder why their wives married these types in the first place! Surely they didn't just turn into smelly breathed grubby grabbing gits overnight??!!!
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When I have come across a bloke with bad breath,nose hair and a cheesy cock ramming and poking at me I also wonder why their partners don't put out anymore as well.... ;)
I also wonder why their wives married these types in the first place! Surely they didn't just turn into smelly breathed grubby grabbing gits overnight??!!!
They probably didn't but some people and probably some of the wives themselves let themselves go after time and stop making the effort.I've had blokes whine about how their wives don't wear sexy underwear anymore or have put on weight but at the same time the bloke whinging about it has got middleage spread and teeth like tombstones...so you got to wonder really!
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80 per cent have smelly breath in this region.
Perhaps I am just unlucky.
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If they have enough cash to visit us escorts surely you would think they would have enough money for a decent dentist and hygienist......!
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I totally agree ... If you are spending XYZ on a punt ... Why wouldn't you want your breath to be nice and minty fresh ? It's beyond me ... Also I think the reason why guys like " DFK" is because the poor partners won't do it ( no surprise to why ! ) ... I'd rather have a cheesy cock than slobbering stinking breath with bad teeth ... And plaque what's that all about ??? The tortoise tongue does make me smile tho .. Xx
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Fk is an essential part of my service, it's rare I encounter bad breath. I have however learned to stipulate no heavy smoking, no more than a couple of units alcohol and no drug use close to a booking. This cuts out the main rancid breath culprits. If anyone kisses uuncomfortably I tell them. If they can adjust then game on, most do want to use a pleasing technique if they can't then I'll withhold but that hasn't really happened.
There was someone who's mouth was rancid with tobacco, I still managed it for that hour, but then brought in the no heavy smoking request which seems to have done the trick.
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I don't offer DFK but I offer French kissing at discretion - which is not that often!
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Find it hard to enjoy a session without it. Occasionally I get guys that are horrible kissers, I don't see them again. If it's really bad I stop kissing.
The time drags and I find it harder to get aroused without.
Why do you need to be aroused?
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Nope, nope, nope. I can think of nothing more invasive some a random guy locking lips with me. But then again, I started getting so repulsed by being touched by people that I re-branded from a GFE to a dom over the course of 6 months.
Personally, it was the fingering I hated most. Then it became oral (on me). Then it was touching of my body in general. Have no idea what happened but something snapped and suddenly I just hated being touched by anyone other than my partner!!
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I'm heading that way too ... I'm Def more PSE now ...can't do the whole GFE .. Makes me feel ill ... I'd rather spit , suck cock , play with my own tits any day than have a man slobber all over me .. I can't do the whole cuddle n holding thing either ! Xx
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Find it hard to enjoy a session without it. Occasionally I get guys that are horrible kissers, I don't see them again. If it's really bad I stop kissing.
The time drags and I find it harder to get aroused without.
Why do you need to be aroused?
My arousal comes in the form of a bottle of lube ;D
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Find it hard to enjoy a session without it. Occasionally I get guys that are horrible kissers, I don't see them again. If it's really bad I stop kissing.
The time drags and I find it harder to get aroused without.
Why do you need to be aroused?
I quite like to enjoy sex. Work becomes more pleasurable if I'm enjoying myself.
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Find it hard to enjoy a session without it. Occasionally I get guys that are horrible kissers, I don't see them again. If it's really bad I stop kissing.
The time drags and I find it harder to get aroused without.
Why do you need to be aroused?
I quite like to enjoy sex. Work becomes more pleasurable if I'm enjoying myself.
Oh right. I thought you were saying that you needed to be aroused in order to work.
It's a nice bonus if it does happen, but let's face it, most of the time, work isn't about enjoying yourself but making sure the client is enjoying himself.
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No don't need to be aroused but much prefer it.
Do tend to get fussy with clients, so, if I don't have a good time with them, they still get my full attention and good service, but, I don't see them again.
Awful bad breath, for example means no repeat booking.
Their pleasure is the most important, but do find that most guys really want you to genuinely enjoy yourself. So it's a mutual thing.
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I stopped offering DFK... and I get less clingy creeps ;D
Some punters might not book me but others do. No loss here.
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Cant BEAR guys who stick their whole tongue in my mouth. Its f***ing vile!! I try and do minimal kissing and kiss them everywhere but their mouth, lol
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I think it's hilarious how this works has changed me. A few years ago giving a guy head was sooo intimate in my opinion lol. Now I'd rather suck 10 Cocks than spend a hour freach kissing a client!!
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I think it's hilarious how this works has changed me. A few years ago giving a guy head was sooo intimate in my opinion lol. Now I'd rather suck 10 Cocks than spend a hour freach kissing a client!!
I totally agree. BJs are so much more enjoyable and easy- especially covered but exchanging saliva with loads of men is gross. I try to do it as little as possible. DFK is the worse. Next time I get asked that I'm going to refuse, but most of my clients just ask if I do French kissing. I'd love to stop French kissing altogether but I'd lose too much business. I had one client who kept sucking my tongue and then wanted me to do the same- it was the most revolting thing I've ever been asked to do! Well almost! His tongue tasted horrible. He then had the gall to say he must be my favourite client - I blocked him after that.
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I do DFK and I do mostly sometimes enjoy it but it def feels different now, I used to love it. I kissed someone outside of sex work the other day & couldn't believe how different it felt. I miss real life kisses lool.
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I do DFK as I offer a GFE but regardless of how nice the man is or how good everything else is, if the kissing is awful, I won't see them again. Kissing is one of my biggest turn ons and if it's awful, I feel horrible about seeing through the rest of the booking. As one of my very favourite regulars puts it, "we are mouth compatible" so building up to everything else feels really natural and that's the best feeling ever. I don't like disjointed appointments but apparently I'm a better actress than I think!
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I love kissing as long as:
Fresh breath, no wetness and definitely no dribbling in my mouth !
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I do DFK and I do mostly sometimes enjoy it but it def feels different now, I used to love it. I kissed someone outside of sex work the other day & couldn't believe how different it felt. I miss real life kisses lool.
100% agree, met up with a long term "friend with benefits " after a long time last week, I couldn't believe I had forgotten how different kissing someone your genuinely attracted too feels. :-*
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I like it with guys who know how to kiss that aren't repulsive, amazing when it's someone I really fancy who turns me on. It's not great when they are crappy kissers. Absolutely horrible if they slobber. That's really gross.
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Nope, nope, nope. I can think of nothing more invasive some a random guy locking lips with me. But then again, I started getting so repulsed by being touched by people that I re-branded from a GFE to a dom over the course of 6 months.
Personally, it was the fingering I hated most. Then it became oral (on me). Then it was touching of my body in general. Have no idea what happened but something snapped and suddenly I just hated being touched by anyone other than my partner!!
I've started to change too. I used to do everything (that initial newbie enthusiasm) and I've gradually been reducing my services. I no longer allow fingers or fists inside me, this was mainly because I was getting injured alot, but I also found it creepy. I hate them giving me oral, it makes my skin crawl, this is way too intimate for my liking, as is DFK. I dont like them sucking on my nipples either :-\ all these are activities that I wish I could save for my guy. However, these are a popular request and they make me money, which is why I do this job. I much prefer the rough sex, anal, deepthroat, ws, just being proper used by the guy. That is something that I enjoy doing with the clients.
So, I just put my game face on and get on with it :)
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I had forgotten how different kissing someone your genuinely attracted too feels. :-*
I genuinely fancy quite a few of my clients...the others I just close my eyes lol
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It's interesting as to what you say, katrina. I have discovered my types since I started this line of work. I used to adore a tall slender Adonis for many years - he has to be that or not good enough, I had LTR with one of these, which didn't end well.
Easier if you fancy the guy.. But you can have chemistry with ppl you never thought of finding the chemistry with previously. Strange game, sex work.
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I've always loved snogging so yes I do DFK but at my discretion because some men's dental's are a right turn off.
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Nope, slightest dart of a tongue in my mouth & I'm withholding my retching reflex, even if I fancy them I'll only offer a slight tongue action.
I'm still shuddering at the memory of the special needs guy with spit around his chops last week.
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It's interesting as to what you say, katrina. I have discovered my types since I started this line of work. I used to adore a tall slender Adonis for many years - he has to be that or not good enough, I had LTR with one of these, which didn't end well.
Easier if you fancy the guy.. But you can have chemistry with ppl you never thought of finding the chemistry with previously. Strange game, sex work.
I've never been attracted to really 'good looking pretty boy' types in my private life anyway, I found them arrogant and boring. I've always gone for 'quirky' or unusual looks in men so this job suits me fine :) I like a bit of 'imperfection', crooked noses, fingers missing, gaps in teeth, the 'lived in' look.. etc, etc, I find manners (not in a creepy sucking up way, just treating me like a normal human being), good hygiene and generally considerate guys to be much more fun to be with than 'handsome' types.
Although lately, for some unknown reason I've been finding myself attracted to muscles and tattoos, especially the full sleeves or full back, doesn't matter what the face is like....Must be my age lol ;D
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katrina, I can soon relate witty you on tattoos and muscles ;D ;D your comment reminded me of the hunk I recently had :D