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Shewolf

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Re: Desperate client
« Reply #15 on: 24 February 2016, 04:41:45 pm »
I am ill at the moment. I told this guy I couldn't see him as I have come down with a viral infection which has wiped me out (yes, they joys of kissing men)...he said he still wants to see me and will pay for my time.

I think it's a red flag-do you?

Emma_C

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Re: Desperate client
« Reply #16 on: 24 February 2016, 05:05:28 pm »
Give him the number for Samaritans and suggest they might be a more appropriate place to explore his feelings about abuse.

Was just going to say the same thing.

I am ill at the moment. I told this guy I couldn't see him as I have come down with a viral infection which has wiped me out (yes, they joys of kissing men)...he said he still wants to see me and will pay for my time.

I think it's a red flag-do you?

Yes he's using you as a therapist when he should be paying for a counsellor. He either doesn't have your best interests at heart or extremely poor social skills. This situation will drain you at best never mind the virus, that's a double whammy. Fixated on himself & his issues by pestering you with it all.

I had a client tell me he went up to the local suicide spot & he's since dissapeard off AW & not heard from him for months, I do wonder if he's OK but it's not our job to help these men with their mental health.

Nova

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Re: Desperate client
« Reply #17 on: 24 February 2016, 05:22:01 pm »
I am ill at the moment. I told this guy I couldn't see him as I have come down with a viral infection which has wiped me out (yes, they joys of kissing men)...he said he still wants to see me and will pay for my time.

I think it's a red flag-do you?

Perhaps the viral infection will take a long time to clear and you just won't be able to make time for him? Hopefully he'll move on. If you actually say you don't want to see him again, he sounds like the type to kick up a fuss.

Shewolf

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Re: Desperate client
« Reply #18 on: 24 February 2016, 08:15:58 pm »
Thanks girls  :-*

I got another one emailing me at the moment saying he 'needs a cuddle as he is so sad' this week.

I don't mean to sound horrible but...WTF is wrong with these men.



Kendall

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Re: Desperate client
« Reply #19 on: 24 February 2016, 09:50:53 pm »
Thanks girls  :-*

I got another one emailing me at the moment saying he 'needs a cuddle as he is so sad' this week.

I don't mean to sound horrible but...WTF is wrong with these men.

That made my skin crawl

Jezabel

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Re: Desperate client
« Reply #20 on: 25 February 2016, 10:04:27 am »
I have a 'regular' TW who texts asking for appointments consisting purely of cuddles. Funnily enough he never calls!

Shewolf

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Re: Desperate client
« Reply #21 on: 25 February 2016, 11:38:36 am »
Thanks girls  :-*

I got another one emailing me at the moment saying he 'needs a cuddle as he is so sad' this week.

I don't mean to sound horrible but...WTF is wrong with these men.

That made my skin crawl

Yes, he makes my skin crawl. He said 'I really want you to be my girlfriend and time will tell' Fuck and Off is what I think to that.