Pinupgirl well in some men's eyes providing sex for money they consider a side line or just extra cash and not a actual job. If they want to think that they can although if he had said not a career that might have sounded a bit better but most of us would not touch most of them without it being a paying job. They just do not like the idea we view the act of it and them as a job.

Yes you are right there, as we all know, men think with their bits and not their head. It is a real pet hate of mine though as I still work 5 days a week and pay taxes like most other people, it’s almost like a belittling mindset they already have programmed in them

Just had one booked and paid for an hr only to talk. That's what life has come to no pubs clubs and tinder for hook ups 😜😜

I love those  

Jane Dough certain clients can make you feel like you have been abused in the booking and sometimes i cannot believe what we have put up with. I suppose the old saying springs to mind " no wonder they have to pay for it"

Euurgh.... So this guy used to be a regular, hadn't seen him in a long time because of circumstances on his end and tbh the last time he contacted me for a booking he kinda pissed me off in his comms by being very demanding and expecting me to cancel another clients booking to accommodate him, which I said absolutely not...
But things have been slow recently so I begrudgingly accepted his request...
I forgot how uncomfortable and yucky I feel around this guy, I can't really explain it... He does this weird thing where he goes in for a kiss and then pulls away at the last second, then goes to do it again, like it's supposed to be cute or something? I dunno, it just makes me feel a bit...ewww.
So I decide to go in for oral and I get his dick out and I can smell urine, really stale urine coming from it...
He made a point of telling me he was jumping in for a shower before I went over so I don't know if he just decided to stop at his waist or something? His balls were a bit B.O.ish too and I was properly close to heaving. I wanted to tell him to go wash it, but this stupid thing comes over me where I don't want to hurt their feelings. I know it's so dumb! I hate the idea of potentially embarrassing someone. In hindsight though, he probably SHOULD be embarrassed!
So I suggested 69, and just gave him a hj the whole time. There was no way I was putting that in my mouth again.
This job in general (and also lack of bookings/money worries) has been really getting to me recently. I was glad he couldn't see my face because I thought I was gona burst into tears a couple of times.
All the while he's doing this weird, fast motion tongue flicky thing on my clit then sucking it as hard as possible and it feels fucking horrible. Like, it's a fucking clit, not a dick! What you sucking it for??? Honestly, I was fantasising about grabbing his balls and just squeezing them as hard as I could...
On goes the condom and for a change he came really quick! I was fucking overjoyed tbh haha.
We still had about 30 mins to go and he kept checking his watch saying oh 20 mins left, 10 mins, etc... So I just listened to him talk about his job and stuff til the time was up.
I didn't really have time to process it as I just washed and went to bed as soon as I got home but thinking about that booking now makes me wana cry. If things weren't as they are financially right now I wouldn't have agreed to see him again. I hope things get better so I can be more picky about clients again like I could pre-covid...

I hate these sort of bookings. Some clients are just so gentle and easy and others make you want to hurl yourself in bleach afterwards.

Had a couple recently that were sucking and flicking away at my clit while in 69 and it just felt too horrible and sensitive. I kept trying to shuffle away but think they thought I was enjoying it more for doing that. A couple of times I literally had to refrain from biting their cock in frustration!

Don’t put yourself through the emotional stress of these things, I know it’s really hard to be up front and tell them what to do or not to do but once you’ve done it a few times you won’t care, especially when it comes to hygiene or if it hurts. I HATE my clit being sucked it’s the worst sensation ever and if anyone ever does it I tell them oh please don’t do that I like to be licked gently. I once had to tell a guy to go wash his dick 3 times in an hour appointment and it still smelt  so I refused to see him after, my hand and sheet were riddled with the smell of piss, not cool!!
It can be awkward though, I still have one guy that goes down on me, does it slow for a minute then really fast head moving left to right like he’s not eaten a meal in a week, does that for a minute then back and forth to slow and fast in minute intervals. I find it so unsexy but I dont have the heart to tell him!

Some of the things said in these recent posts above make me want to chuck as it is all very close to home. I put up with rough stuff (never extreme just uncomfortable) poor hygiene, rudeness and an unwillingness or disinterest in improving how they interact with me all of the time. And that includes from most of my regulars.
Trouble is I lay there petrified to give them some directions in case they get the huff on and don't come back.

PUG8, you say you call some out when you don't like what they are doing to you but not others. How do you decide which will take direction well and which won't? Have any of them ever responded badly when asked to change what they are doing and has it made future meetings with them more difficult?
I need to grow a pair I think.

Some of the things said in these recent posts above make me want to chuck as it is all very close to home. I put up with rough stuff (never extreme just uncomfortable) poor hygiene, rudeness and an unwillingness or disinterest in improving how they interact with me all of the time. And that includes from most of my regulars.
Trouble is I lay there petrified to give them some directions in case they get the huff on and don't come back.

PUG8, you say you call some out when you don't like what they are doing to you but not others. How do you decide which will take direction well and which won't? Have any of them ever responded badly when asked to change what they are doing and has it made future meetings with them more difficult?
I need to grow a pair I think.

It’s hard to say really, if they are hurting me in anyway I just can’t help myself to say it but I say it in a nice way using a soft voice so they hopefully don’t think I’m a diva or whatever and I also think it’s best to say it straight away instead of waiting till half way through the appointment, just go for it! You’ll feel so much better once it’s out of your mind. But I would go through all sorts when I worked at agencies, I remember once I even let the client run his baby oil hands all in my hair and face and I looked like a real trollop after that booking and I was fuming!!
Iv had a couple of clients after giving direction that have become regulars, and I honestly thought at the time I wouldn’t ever want to see them again.

If they’re just really bad with their techniques I tend not to say anything and let these ones slide (we can’t win them all) but definitely tell them if they’re ever hurting you.

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