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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #975 on: 27 August 2016, 09:47:23 pm »
My client was also fabulous with the post sun come down after.

What does this mean?  :)

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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #976 on: 27 August 2016, 09:52:33 pm »
What does this mean?  :)

oops auto correct on my phone should read sub,

basically the aftercare given after a BDSM session

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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #977 on: 31 August 2016, 05:18:51 pm »
My last two bookings were great.

First one wanted to massage me until I almost fell asleep which was lovely and then extended to switch the booking into a strap-on play domination type thing. It was really fun, I didn't have to have sex and he loved it. First time with a real strap-on too normally they only have the dildo and expect me to wear my arm out.

Second one asked for PSE and I declined but then he explained exactly what he wanted (sloppy BJ - PSE bless him) so I went ahead with the booking. When I arrived he was so shy and timid I knew he was just looking to experiment. He had a great time and I liked fulfilling his fantasy. I'm glad I didn't judge a book by its cover with that one thinking he was going to be a rough and boundary pushing arsehole. He was a sweetheart.
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« Reply #978 on: 31 August 2016, 05:33:00 pm »
Had an outcall last night to a guy who really reminded me of an ex boyfriend. Big belly, quite geeky, Pink Floyd album cover on the wall... you know the type. Anyway he didn't want full sex just reverse oral (and he was pretty good) and a BJ.

After he came (about 45 minutes into his hour) we started talking about books/films and discovered we had a lot of tastes in common. I ended up there til about 20 mins over his booking time.

Unfortunately when I got up this morning he had sent me a really gushing and emotional email on AW saying our time was "magical" and how I "simply shine" and would alleviate the tedium of his humdrum day, etc., and how he really wanted to see me again as a "friend" to talk about our shared tastes  ::)

Sent him a short reply saying I enjoyed the booking but I don't see clients socially. Have a feeling I'm not going to hear from him again which is a shame as he'd be a nice easy regular, but I can't let him get emotionally invested.  :(
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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #979 on: 31 August 2016, 06:10:43 pm »
Yes, but the difference is you DON'T have three children to look after and a high-pressured job as well - it's not surprising sex isn't top of her agenda really, is it? Then again, I do think wives neglect their hubbies' sexual needs at their peril.
If they paid their wives ?120 plus an hour for sex they would probably get more sex, that's the only reason we do it. I had a client moaning about his wife, kids, work etc and I told him this.
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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #980 on: 31 August 2016, 06:58:01 pm »
Fairly young guy maybe late 20's early 30's was really into the idea of using toys on me. Didn't know what to do with them at all though and was being way too rough at times. After 20 minutes of it doesn't nothing for me I faked an orgasm which was convincing enough for him and told him I was too sensitive and needed a break. He seemed pleased with himself and asked for oral but seemed like forever to get him hard. Wanted sex but since he couldn't get himself going asked if he could do oral and rimming on me instead so the final 10 minutes or so I was bent over planning what to order for dinner while he awkwardly tongued my ass. I swear he nearly ruined it forever and it's something I love when my boyfriend does it.

I think these are the more difficult bookings when you can't get them hard and get them to pop right away so you kind of need to fill the time in other ways and it just gets awkward. I think he was hoping to spend the hour ramming toys into me.

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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #981 on: 31 August 2016, 07:17:03 pm »

Sent him a short reply saying I enjoyed the booking but I don't see clients socially. Have a feeling I'm not going to hear from him again which is a shame as he'd be a nice easy regular, but I can't let him get emotionally invested.  :(

Yup. He crossed the line.  No going back.  Some men just want a GF (and he thinks it HAS TO BE FREE).  I admire punters who always stick to the professional code of conduct (it's a professional relationship).

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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #982 on: 31 August 2016, 07:22:12 pm »

I think these are the more difficult bookings when you can't get them hard and get them to pop right away so you kind of need to fill the time in other ways and it just gets awkward. I think he was hoping to spend the hour ramming toys into me.

I hate those hard toys, just so unpleasant. I know.  I hated it when some men doing that (go flaccid completely) - I don't mind if it's 50-60% flaccid (e.g. nerves) which can still work.  Totally flaccid, just such a turn off.  ::) 

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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #983 on: 31 August 2016, 07:41:01 pm »
I hate those hard toys, just so unpleasant. I know.  I hated it when some men doing that (go flaccid completely) - I don't mind if it's 50-60% flaccid (e.g. nerves) which can still work.  Totally flaccid, just such a turn off.  ::)

This is why I only ever take small toys with me to bookings. Learned my lesson! I just take one 5ins realistic rubber dildo, some anal beads (which I know from experience I can take all of them) and a bullet vibe.
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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #984 on: 31 August 2016, 08:16:02 pm »
Good thinking!  I tend to hide any large ones intended for men.   ::)

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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #985 on: 01 September 2016, 01:11:13 am »
This is why I only ever take small toys with me to bookings. Learned my lesson! I just take one 5ins realistic rubber dildo, some anal beads (which I know from experience I can take all of them) and a bullet vibe.
I take a pink bullet vibe ( poundshop :D ) and a glittery one that's just 'for show', both of which only I am allowed to play with.

Last client was a 2nd visit to a bonkers Scouser chappie. Appears to be high as a kite in in a 'can't hold down a thought or a sentence' and forgets/changes his mind about a request before he's finished asking for it. You'd think this was frustrating, but he makes me laugh.
Says he'll be honoured to take me for a posh meal in town and he will pay for the meal. I tell him he has to pay to watch me eat it also. Aaah, bless.. 8)

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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #986 on: 01 September 2016, 01:48:56 am »
This is why I only ever take small toys with me to bookings. Learned my lesson! I just take one 5ins realistic rubber dildo, some anal beads (which I know from experience I can take all of them) and a bullet vibe.

I think in future if I'm asked for toys I'll rethink my choices of what to let them use and hide the rest away. It's a repeated line but I really think porn has a lot to answer for when it comes to guys thinking it's a good idea to ram stuff into you or try to jam everything they can inside you at once.

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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #987 on: 01 September 2016, 08:22:19 am »
I agree.  You can even damage the blood vessels in the vaginal vault which leads a permanent damage if a hard toy (essentially, a blunt object) hitting the delicate surface. 

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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #988 on: 01 September 2016, 09:48:41 am »
A new booking for me this morning which started off as a thirty min booking then extended to an hour then an hour and a half. So so much fun and I'm still feeling weak at the knees. He was fantastic in every aspect. More of the same this afternoon, please!

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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #989 on: 01 September 2016, 06:51:30 pm »
I think in future if I'm asked for toys I'll rethink my choices of what to let them use and hide the rest away. It's a repeated line but I really think porn has a lot to answer for when it comes to guys thinking it's a good idea to ram stuff into you or try to jam everything they can inside you at once.


Yes I just leave a few nice soft feel ones out that I like using, I don't let random guys put them inside me, I will sometimes put on a show to teach them how they should be used.


Once a young man turned up, paid for an hour and expected to be allowed to ram vibrators in me the whole time  ::) (he said that was all he wanted to do!) He was sorely disappointed when I said I don't let unknown men use ANY sort of implements on me but I'm happy for him to watch....He decided to leave after about 15 minutes with no refund offered.