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Phoenix

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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #3165 on: 07 October 2022, 02:56:13 pm »
Another of those who's number shows full details and various comments in my phone, but I couldn't pick them out in a police line up if my life depended on it (not a great advantage in this gig :-\)
But as I entered his house it all came back to me. A sweet enough guy of almost zero dialogue, yet no trouble at all (and I don't even need to undress whatsoever, yay!)

But.. he lives in utter squalor. Feel a bit mean saying so, but am shocked how anyone could live that way. Young guy, seems to be perfectly healthy with no issues. Not physically anyway.

 I would honestly choose his booking over a scrupulously clean and tidy young guy from the week before (demanding, annoying, has pestered me ever since..)

I get these types sometimes.
 One lad's bedroom floor was littered with (amongst other detritus) used condoms.
 I asked if he used them for wanking?
 No, they were from previous Outcall bookings  :-X


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« Reply #3166 on: 07 October 2022, 03:07:46 pm »
Oh Phoenix, that is awful. :'( :FF

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« Reply #3167 on: 07 October 2022, 03:34:17 pm »
So he touched you around your vagina without permission and you only offer happy ending massage. That is disgusting bordering on criminal.  They should book a full sex worker if they want extra things.

Yes the more I think about it the more annoyed I feel. He didn’t touch as such but lifted the panties so he could see a bit, which is still not on. When I look back now the niceness and OTT compliments seem really fake, putting me off balance, maybe all leading up to the point where he felt entitled to do that.

And I just realised he didn’t even say sorry, instead coming out with something like ‘but the good thing is you were firm with me/put a stop to it’ to which I responded ‘I shouldn’t have to’ and told him in no uncertain terms if he’d tried it again I would have kicked him out. He really didn’t seem bothered.
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English Green

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« Reply #3168 on: 07 October 2022, 05:52:39 pm »
Yes the more I think about it the more annoyed I feel. He didn’t touch as such but lifted the panties so he could see a bit, which is still not on. When I look back now the niceness and OTT compliments seem really fake, putting me off balance, maybe all leading up to the point where he felt entitled to do that.

And I just realised he didn’t even say sorry, instead coming out with something like ‘but the good thing is you were firm with me/put a stop to it’ to which I responded ‘I shouldn’t have to’ and told him in no uncertain terms if he’d tried it again I would have kicked him out. He really didn’t seem bothered.

Unfortnately they will not be bothered as they think you should accept there behaviour, all part of the job. It's just one of life's piss takers Unfortnately.

What you could do next time is tell the men the rules after they have paid up if they take the piss like he did you could say something like you know the rules and what i do not allow and you did that without my consent which can be considered a sexual assault then see what they say to that!

LadyJ

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« Reply #3169 on: 07 October 2022, 07:50:20 pm »
Unfortnately they will not be bothered as they think you should accept there behaviour, all part of the job. It's just one of life's piss takers Unfortnately.

What you could do next time is tell the men the rules after they have paid up if they take the piss like he did you could say something like you know the rules and what i do not allow and you did that without my consent which can be considered a sexual assault then see what they say to that!

I actually usually remind them of what I offer in the booking phone call or ask them if they understand what I offer and this time I did it at the start of the booking.

So he had no excuses and the boundary pushing was clearly deliberate. I did give him a bit of an earful before he left!

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« Reply #3170 on: 14 October 2022, 10:26:46 pm »
Saw someone recently he came in saying not done this before or only once years ago. He said he was nervous he was chatty but not what i would describe as friendly, seemed a bit arrogant. He was very theatrical explains his job he was a actor obviously not a great one and very big headed.

He was struggling to keep an erection and i was trying my best with different thing's, he started to get frustrated got up throwing his toys out the pram and slaming his belongings about getting very moody saying thing's like "well that was money down the drain" then saying " sorry not your fault you tried" then " what a joke, this money should have been spent on my kids trainers and not on this" then saying another dig " well least you got your money good pay day for you"

So that was the last straw i said sorry it never worked for you but i tried my best and i worked for my money thank you very much and it's not my fault you spent money on something you probably should not have.

If i had not been in a hotel and in a flat and not wanted to cause a scene i would have said don't blame fucking women for your erection problems and nerves, and for the record having to put up with your baby tantrums i should have been paid double then i would have got the rest of his things and thrown them out the door and pushed him out. This is how i used to deal with men in the past when they got angry over there own issues. Being in hotels with reception down stairs and maids in corridors makes me hold my tongue as so easy for them to kick off and expose you.

Thankfully them not getting it up or ejaculating does not happen that often and the ones it does majority accept it and do not try to guilt trip you.

A bad workman always blames his tools like this stupid fool.


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Re: Describe your last booking
« Reply #3171 on: 14 October 2022, 11:41:41 pm »
Bloody hell EG!  :o

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« Reply #3172 on: 15 October 2022, 09:21:24 am »
What a horrible experience for you EG having to deal with that complete knobhead.
The nerve of him trying to guilt trip you into giving him money back! Good on you for standing your ground.

English Green

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« Reply #3173 on: 15 October 2022, 11:57:09 am »
I know ladies. These men are angry with themselves as they got no end result and feel inadequate in there performance or lack of it so try to turn it on to us so we feel bad but i won't as i did my job and was entiltled to the money. If it was my last day in the hotel i think i would have said grow up you big baby and stop turning your failures and guilt on to me and if i would have known you was a man baby i would not have booked you in. Hahaha

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« Reply #3174 on: 15 October 2022, 04:38:37 pm »
Sorry to hear about your experience EG what a horror of a client. Hope you get some nice ones soon to help you banish him to to the background.

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« Reply #3175 on: 16 October 2022, 03:07:21 pm »
After two nice bookings this week of course one of those grin and bear it ones today. Older guy, looked much older than he said he was. Dreadful kisser. One of those who instead of communicating what he wanted attempted to push and pull me around like a doll and told him several times not to do so. Just aching from that and during the booking was just willing it to be over!

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« Reply #3176 on: 16 October 2022, 11:42:53 pm »
After two nice bookings this week of course one of those grin and bear it ones today. Older guy, looked much older than he said he was. Dreadful kisser. One of those who instead of communicating what he wanted attempted to push and pull me around like a doll and told him several times not to do so. Just aching from that and during the booking was just willing it to be over!

Had one like that 2 weeks ago. Said 56, clearly 66, pulling and grabbing me. Passive aggressive comments on my size 8-10 body not being slim enough.

Hope you're ok xx

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« Reply #3177 on: 17 October 2022, 10:05:44 pm »
My last booking ended with me sewing a button on my client's jacket lol......I haven't sewn anything in over 20 years lol he was lucky I had swiped a sewing kit from a hotel!

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« Reply #3178 on: 18 October 2022, 08:23:26 am »
My last booking ended with me sewing a button on my client's jacket lol......I haven't sewn anything in over 20 years lol he was lucky I had swiped a sewing kit from a hotel!

that is the ultimate gf experience he received. 😂

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« Reply #3179 on: 18 October 2022, 01:49:26 pm »
My last booking ended with me sewing a button on my client's jacket lol......I haven't sewn anything in over 20 years lol he was lucky I had swiped a sewing kit from a hotel!
That is providing full service!