Oh Phoenix, that is awful.

Yes the more I think about it the more annoyed I feel. He didn’t touch as such but lifted the panties so he could see a bit, which is still not on. When I look back now the niceness and OTT compliments seem really fake, putting me off balance, maybe all leading up to the point where he felt entitled to do that.

And I just realised he didn’t even say sorry, instead coming out with something like ‘but the good thing is you were firm with me/put a stop to it’ to which I responded ‘I shouldn’t have to’ and told him in no uncertain terms if he’d tried it again I would have kicked him out. He really didn’t seem bothered.

Unfortnately they will not be bothered as they think you should accept there behaviour, all part of the job. It's just one of life's piss takers Unfortnately.

What you could do next time is tell the men the rules after they have paid up if they take the piss like he did you could say something like you know the rules and what i do not allow and you did that without my consent which can be considered a sexual assault then see what they say to that!

Saw someone recently he came in saying not done this before or only once years ago. He said he was nervous he was chatty but not what i would describe as friendly, seemed a bit arrogant. He was very theatrical explains his job he was a actor obviously not a great one and very big headed.

He was struggling to keep an erection and i was trying my best with different thing's, he started to get frustrated got up throwing his toys out the pram and slaming his belongings about getting very moody saying thing's like "well that was money down the drain" then saying " sorry not your fault you tried" then " what a joke, this money should have been spent on my kids trainers and not on this" then saying another dig " well least you got your money good pay day for you"

So that was the last straw i said sorry it never worked for you but i tried my best and i worked for my money thank you very much and it's not my fault you spent money on something you probably should not have.

If i had not been in a hotel and in a flat and not wanted to cause a scene i would have said don't blame fucking women for your erection problems and nerves, and for the record having to put up with your baby tantrums i should have been paid double then i would have got the rest of his things and thrown them out the door and pushed him out. This is how i used to deal with men in the past when they got angry over there own issues. Being in hotels with reception down stairs and maids in corridors makes me hold my tongue as so easy for them to kick off and expose you.

Thankfully them not getting it up or ejaculating does not happen that often and the ones it does majority accept it and do not try to guilt trip you.

A bad workman always blames his tools like this stupid fool.

What a horrible experience for you EG having to deal with that complete knobhead.
The nerve of him trying to guilt trip you into giving him money back! Good on you for standing your ground.

Sorry to hear about your experience EG what a horror of a client. Hope you get some nice ones soon to help you banish him to to the background.

After two nice bookings this week of course one of those grin and bear it ones today. Older guy, looked much older than he said he was. Dreadful kisser. One of those who instead of communicating what he wanted attempted to push and pull me around like a doll and told him several times not to do so. Just aching from that and during the booking was just willing it to be over!

Had one like that 2 weeks ago. Said 56, clearly 66, pulling and grabbing me. Passive aggressive comments on my size 8-10 body not being slim enough.

Hope you're ok xx

My last booking ended with me sewing a button on my client's jacket lol......I haven't sewn anything in over 20 years lol he was lucky I had swiped a sewing kit from a hotel!

that is the ultimate gf experience he received. 😂