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Title: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: sugar on 15 September 2022, 10:01:27 pm
Hi ladies

I came here to rant, because I am so upset. About 5 years ago, I had a demanding client, who would want complicated 1 page role-play scripts, he also wanted every single service on  my list, which I did. I saw him for about 2 years then he disappeared for 5 years. Today at lunchtime,  he contacts me for 90 mins for tonight early evening,  with a 1 page detailed Hollywood script type role-play scenario. I manage to memorize it, and keep in character. He arrives, has a showers, offer him a drink from my mini bar , which he accepts, then I give him a bottle of cold water from my fridge. He wanted domination,  facesitting, tie and tease, spanking, choking, face-slapping  tea-bagging, rimming,  owo, cim, sex, deep-throating, titty-wank, anal play, rimming, tantric massage and cum twice.  He wanted to cum first after 40min, then again near the end.  He proceeds cums very loudly after the first 40mins, just like he requested. Bear in mind, he is groaning with pleasure all the way through the booking.  Then he says after the huge list of services, I  just gave him, that he feels like I haven't put enough effort into rimming, deep-throating him, and that I am not as enthusiastic as I used to be.  I made such a effort with this a-hole. I memorized his Hollywood style script, went to the shopping centre and got the white bra and knickers he wanted. Dressed up in a school girl uniform, put my hair in pig tails. He was really going for it, down my throat, and I did not complain. He has bad breath, his bum was not as clean as I wanted, so I used wet wipes on him. I did not  complain,  i just did what he wanted. After he complains, after he cums, I say, I'm sorry you did not enjoy my services (even through he came hard and loud like a banshee), I said what could I do to make it better?? He says deep throat his cock, so my eyes water more and lick his arsehole more enthusiastically, so that my spit dribbles down his crack and chin. 🤣 I was so exhausted because he took my energy, after the first round, however I was willing to bravely carry on.  I was fuming when he said that. He said he wanted to change the booking to 1 hour instead of 90 mins. I just agreed because after he said, he did not enjoy it, after making me do a exhausting list of services, I just wanted him out of my flat.  I told him , his bum was not squeaky clean, so maybe that's why I was not as enthusiastic,  in licking and sucking his bum hole. He looked offended when I said that. Lol ;D

Has anyone else had a client that did something like this. I put so much effort into this booking, its ridiculous.  I have seen him about 12 times,over a 2 year period.  However he disappeared 5 years ago in 2017, and contacted me today out of the blue.
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: Petlover29 on 15 September 2022, 10:24:25 pm
I know what type you mean.. we have all them at some point .. I used to put up with it but since having endless bad experiences I will now only see gents I’m comfortable with. I don’t make as much as I used to but I’m a lot more happier being more selective.

There plenty more lovely client out there. Block him these type of men just end up ruining your mood.. for the rest of the day/evening, there not worth the money. 
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: sugar on 15 September 2022, 10:41:51 pm
I know what type you mean.. we have all them at some point .. I used to put up with it but since having endless bad experiences I will now only see gents I’m comfortable with. I don’t make as much as I used to but I’m a lot more happier being more selective.

There plenty more lovely client out there. Block him these type of men just end up ruining your mood.. for the rest of the day/evening, there not worth the money.

Thanks petlover29

The audacity of that guy was ridiculous.  I have blocked him. I was livid, because he was moaning with pleasure loudly and pre-cumming like crazy all the way through. Then proceeded to cum  loudly. That does not sound like someone who had a miserable time.  I gave him £60 of the 90 mins fee back, like he requested and made it a hour booking instead. I just wanted him out of my flat. I am physically and emotionally drained. 
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: Kay on 15 September 2022, 11:12:08 pm
That would be a 'fuck off' from me...
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: English Green on 15 September 2022, 11:43:26 pm
I heard it all now!!!

I thought i had come across a few entiltled arseholes but this takes the biscuit.

He thinks you are his slave. I honestly do not know how you did not throw him out. I don't know how you put up with this without really losing it.

I know i would do a warning on this guy. I know i would not want to ever see him but then again i would be too boring for him.
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: English Green on 15 September 2022, 11:47:15 pm
I know what type you mean.. we have all them at some point .. I used to put up with it but since having endless bad experiences I will now only see gents I’m comfortable with. I don’t make as much as I used to but I’m a lot more happier being more selective.

There plenty more lovely client out there. Block him these type of men just end up ruining your mood.. for the rest of the day/evening, there not worth the money.

Yep me too i might not make as much as i used to but i am selective and cannot see just anyone for the money.
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: sugar on 16 September 2022, 12:06:13 am
I heard it all now!!!

I thought i had come across a few entiltled arseholes but this takes the biscuit.

He thinks you are his slave. I honestly do not know how you did not throw him out. I don't know how you put up with this without really losing it.

I know i would do a warning on this guy. I know i would not want to ever see him but then again i would be too boring for him.

I took his booking  because I thought a 90 min booking with a client, I had met dozen of times before would be safer and profitable.  I had a pre-booked  booking for later in the night, which has just finished, but nothing for early evening. He had always been hard work, but nothing like tonight.  He seems so more demanding now. Maybe
My tolerance levels, has reduced since I Iast saw him in 2017.  When he started complaining, not only was  I annoyed  but I was also angry. After the booking ended,  I told him, he can use the shower and get dressed. I left him in the room, and went on my balcony, with a glass of red wine to  calm down.  Once he was dressed , he came looking for me. I just said to him, I will see you to the door. I then slammed the door  behind him. Good riddance.
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: English Green on 16 September 2022, 12:44:17 am
Sugar least you never have to see him again. Poor woman who gets him next. What a prick he is.
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: Justine on 16 September 2022, 01:12:20 pm
If he stopped seeing you for 5 years perhaps he's been blocked by several others in that time for the same reasons you have done. Trying his luck again with you and treating you the way he did just shows what a horror of a client he is and if I put up with half you did on a first meeting there would not be a second one.
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: Ana66 on 18 September 2022, 12:24:42 am
Damn Sugar, so much devotion for this idiot.
Every time I get a client who has a particular "scenario" in mind (I always ask them what they are exactly looking for prior to the booking over the phone), I always cut the conversation short and tell them it's not gonna work out. I don't even take outfit requests anymore, they are just too much labour tbh  :(
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: bustybbwsteph on 18 September 2022, 11:56:58 pm
I didn't even get half way through his list of 'wants' and was like NOPE FUCK THAT!!

Good on your for getting through it though!
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: fallen angel on 19 September 2022, 10:29:42 am
Hi ladies

He was really going for it, down my throat, and I did not complain. He has bad breath, his bum was not as clean as I wanted, so I used wet wipes on him. I did not  complain,  i just did what he wanted. After he complains, after he cums, I say, I'm sorry you did not enjoy my services (even through he came hard and loud like a banshee), I said what could I do to make it better?? He says deep throat his cock, so my eyes water more and lick his arsehole more enthusiastically, so that my spit dribbles down his crack and chin. 🤣 I was so exhausted because he took my energy, after the first round, however I was willing to bravely carry on.  I was fuming when he said that. He said he wanted to change the booking to 1 hour instead of 90 mins. I just agreed because after he said, he did not enjoy it, after making me do a exhausting list of services, I just wanted him out of my flat.  I told him , his bum was not squeaky clean, so maybe that's why I was not as enthusiastic,  in licking and sucking his bum hole. He looked offended when I said that. Lol ;D

Sounds like the tight sod realised that he was totally satisfied and spent after the first round due to your monumentous efforts so the complaining was just a way of trying to get some cash back, arrogant pig.
I would not have given him any money back but good on you for slamming the door on his smelly ass, one you are definitely better off without, sapping your mental energy.
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: barbiegirl on 02 October 2022, 10:27:18 pm
I have met a few like this in my time…nothing you do is enough for them. Dress up in ridiculous outfits, be bossed around like a dog, provide all services available and they still have something to complain about. Anyone who sends you a script, shopping list of services and 20 questions is going to be very overbearing and critical of you. These types are clients are the ones that have to pay for sex because no woman would sleep with them for free. They have no luck with women due to the fact they are unattractive and a complete tosser.

That is why I do the bare minimum now. Vanilla, low maintenance clients who just want a simple service and a friendly chat. There’s plenty of them about, they’re loyal clients and enjoy your company more than anything else. I could provide more and charge slightly more, but I always think to myself that for every client who is sending me scripts and 100 requests, there is a client who will book the same amount of time for me to do a lot less and not put me under pressure.
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: Milf-G on 02 October 2022, 10:34:21 pm
That would have been a complete no no for me too. Where do they get off complaining when they've cum that loud. Christ. Hard work. I would not have done that for sure. I gave up on role play cus theybwere too demanding.
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: DaisyDuck on 24 October 2022, 01:29:52 am
If I had a client complain like that and say he only wanted an hour, I'd say OK but I'm not refunding a penny.
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: KirstyKiss on 24 October 2022, 01:34:45 pm
I can understand why you went through with the booking as you had agreed to see him and you have history together, however, personally I would never see anyone this demanding.
I would just promise myself that you will never see such a self entitled prick again.
As far as giving some money back I'd imagine we've all been there. I gave a guy £50 back just to fuck off as he'd booked an hour and came in 15 mins (on purpose).
I'd charged him 150. He began to become intimidating so I throw the money into his hand at the door after telling him I would kick his arse if he didn't get the fuck out now.
It just made me tighten up on my screening and I don't see certain types now.
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: Gracious on 14 January 2023, 02:36:48 am
I told him , his bum was not squeaky clean, so maybe that's why I was not as enthusiastic,  in licking and sucking his bum hole. He looked offended when I said that. Lol ;D

Good on you girl hahahha! Usually when Im at the end of my tether with them, I get honest back with them also lmaoo

Has anyone else had a client that did something like this. I put so much effort into this booking, its ridiculous

Back in the day when I first started, yes. But I dont usually get clients like this anymore coz if deep down a clients not happy with my performance when I know that I honestly put my all into it then I choose to not allow myself to beat myself up about it - coz there was nothing more that I could have done, so I think you should possibly consider only seeing him when work is super quiet or just block him - he sounds like hard work and we always have to remind ourselves that there are plenty of other men out there who wont be as so demanding as he is! To ask for all of those services in 90 mins is ridiculous!!!!!
Title: Re: Demanding client - I am so annoyed
Post by: storm on 02 February 2023, 12:00:12 pm
aww sorry to hear this and this is exactly why I don't do these big long script roleplays anymore. I just don't find them fun or spontaneous and the fact they are so detailed and obsessive about every aspect, just puts me right off.
I think he is projecting saying you were not as enthusiastic as you used to be because I think these clients (and I am not meaning to sound jaded obviously our job is to please them and cater for their fantasies), tend to pick ''newbies'' who are more willing to go way OTT in the session, pleasing and catering to the letter, their every whim on the script.