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Fabulassie

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Walk-outs - can happen to anybody
« on: 20 February 2015, 11:16:41 am »
I just had a guy show up and then say he needed to go the cash machine as he'd forgotten. I watched out the window as he walked right on past the machine (assumed he wouldn't be back but wanted confirmation that I could change back into comfy clothes.)

Walkouts used to upset me but they no longer do because I update my photos at least once a month. I only use unretouched, amateur photos. Today I was wearing the exact outfit he'd requested in a photo taken less than a week ago, and my hair and makeup were exactly the same. My flat is nice, I am very nice and friendly, and so I know it was nothing to do with me.

He just texted me to say that he was sorry, he was nervous and it was his first time and wasn't ready and that I look fantastic. I just replied, "I know I do. I don't take it personally." Truth is, the man seemed very nice and I think he was  being sincere - I trust my instincts on people and I liked his face when he came in the door.

It's sort of annoying when they chicken out but it's not a big deal.

What matters to me is that I no longer look in the mirror and wonder what is wrong with me. I used to use professional glamour shots and then walkouts did upset me.
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Marianne

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Re: Walk-outs - can happen to anybody
« Reply #1 on: 20 February 2015, 02:13:36 pm »
True true. I've only had one, in my old flat. My intercom was broken so I had to go downstairs to let clients in (hardly ideal I know!). Well this young lad, I opened the door for him, he followed me through but by the time I got to the door to the stairs 6 foot away he'd vanished! I was able to tell myself he'd probably just bottled it or maybe the state of the communal area of the flats as it was grotty!

I figured on not using glamour shots or photo-shop and I don't think I'm very photogenic actually. Clients reactions have re-reinforced this as I'm' often told I'm better looking in the flesh and I don't think they are all just saying it! i'm softer looking in the flesh I think, photo's make my nose look sharp. Anyway - the point has been that clients are pleasantly surprised when they arrive which is much nicer than them being disappointed that I don't look like my pics.

Back to the point though I think any walk out is down to them not us. Whilst some may take it as rudeness or TW I try to think that they may have been shit scared and bottled it. I know we've all had the guy shaking head to toe with nerves?! I try to give the benefit of the doubt when I can as it helps me not get too wound up over stuff either.
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Miss K xXx

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Re: Walk-outs - can happen to anybody
« Reply #2 on: 20 February 2015, 02:57:35 pm »
I've never had a walk out but one time when I was on tour, I thought i had a walk out and I swear......my heart sunk, I felt like shit but it turned out he was just really nervous as it was his first time and he was feeling guilty as he had a girlfriend so he begged me if he could come back later that afternoon. I said no because he had already wasted my time when I could have gave the appointment  to someone else, he upset me and I thought it would be too awkward.

If someone actually walked out cause they didn't like me then I really would feel like shit.

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Bluetits

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Re: Walk-outs - can happen to anybody
« Reply #3 on: 20 February 2015, 03:08:53 pm »
I think it's a mix of some TWs who have too much time and some nervous ones. I had 2 who tried to get a snog before paying then when I asked for the money they did the wallet in car thing. ::)

I remember 2 regs once saying they walked once as the person was clearly different but when we know our photos are clear of ourselves then it wouldn't be because of this.

I always thought though that the really nervous ones would lose their nerve before knocking on the door even as I had that happen years ago (he sent text) so I really don't know.


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Midsstudent

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Re: Walk-outs - can happen to anybody
« Reply #4 on: 20 February 2015, 04:59:00 pm »
My favourite is the 'left my wallet in the car' line. Had that one on tour once  ::)

On a personal note, years ago I came home with a guy from a club, before we could get it on he said he couldn't do it as he had a girlfriend and left. 10 minutes later he presses my buzzer wanting to come back up! lol
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« Reply #5 on: 20 February 2015, 05:54:39 pm »
Quote from: Midsstudent on 20 February 2015, 04:59:00 pm
My favourite is the 'left my wallet in the car' line. Had that one on tour once  ::)

On a personal note, years ago I came home with a guy from a club, before we could get it on he said he couldn't do it as he had a girlfriend and left. 10 minutes later he presses my buzzer wanting to come back up! lol

In my private life, I would never get with someone I know is in a relationship. This is just my work but in my private life, I don't like doing anything that I wouldn't like done to myself cause karma can be a scary thing xx
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Midsstudent

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Re: Walk-outs - can happen to anybody
« Reply #6 on: 20 February 2015, 06:14:08 pm »
I didn't know until he told me at my place, then when he buzzed again I didn't let him back up. It was bizzare!
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