Well, the saga continues.
After I'd posted on here, I was signed into msn and hot man was online. It turns out that he didn't know I was working and was taking the piss. So I landed myself right in it  and told him- thinking he already knew. Please excuse my language here: fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck......
I'm glad that it's out in the open regardless of how things turn out.
Anyway, he asked if he could see me and I finally agreed. So he came to mine and discussed it in a very adult way. And is still here. I'm not going to sleep with him or anything stupid like that, just sitting chilling and seeing how it all pans out. In the mean time, Knickers are staying on and legs very firmly shut. Unless he gets his money out - just kidding 
He asked things about the way I work (for myself) and stuff about working when in a relationship. So I'm answering honestly and if he accepts what I say then fine. If not, he knows where the door is 
With Love Alex x