Hey people, Merry Christmas an all that jazz x

Just a little post to say I've started dating again after an ugly break up a while back. I'm having a great time, and intend to stay single for as long as possible. Dating doesn't have to lead to full on relationships does it? Not in my book anyhow!

I've met one man who has really taken my fancy. There's loads of chemistry and after knowing him for a couple of weeks-we finally had sex. It was so god damn raunchy... He's scorching hot an really does it for me. The only down side is that I've ended up with stupid thrush.... (working all day then spending my time with him in bed seemed like a great idea at the time lol) The natural yoghurt/Canestan better hurry up and work 

I realised that he's only the second man I've had sex with in 4 yrs outside of my job. And people assume working ladies are easy - It seems not in my case!
Finally getting my confidence back after having my heart broken. Thank God for that, I was beginning to worry.

With Love Alex xxx

MissAlex, it sounds like you're having a very lovely Christmas indeed

Thrush is a pain (isn't Canesten now supposed to work in 24 hours or something silly? Thank god for whoever invented that pill + soothing cream, lol) but spending hours in bed with a man of your choice is absolutely wonderful. It's also really good for the ole mental health, in my opinion, to get a bit of work/life balance going on. We have the weirdest job ever considering that it is so similar to what goes on in relationships (or casual dating ) in certain ways, but then again, when you're in that position it doesn't feel anything like the same thing at all.

Clients can be lovely and this job can be great, but being loved and/or lavished with lustful attention (ooh, I'd better get a romance novel book deal for that one) by someone we personally want to get involved with is still vitally important even though we might have sex for work several times a week. And its all just as rare for us as for anyone else! I'm really boringly monogamous in my 'real life' and think I disappoint the clients who ask me what I get up to in my spare time, as I like a bit of the old passiontime with my mr. longterm now and then, plus reading and cooking and geekery, not so much the anal-bareback-gangbang-bukake-swinging parties. But I don't care what anyone else thinks! I think a good man in your personal life is something we all deserve. (Though I really need to work on some slightly more exciting answers to these client questions lest they cry of boredom on my pillows. Lol, maybe I'll join a salsa club. Kinky!)

You're right Emily, it's lovely to spend time with someone of my choice for a change. It's opened my eyes to what I've been missing! I do intend to stay single though. Keeping away from all the heavy stuff for the foreseeable future. I'm definately happier as a single woman than I am when in a relationship. It's taken me long enough to realise it!
How the hot man looks (for Joey mainly  )
Well, normally I'm not 'into' big muscles or anything like that, but I am this time  He's tall, dark and handsome, works out a fair bit. And is doing better than average in the trouser department....far better than average. Hence the flucking thrush.
But...I think he's used to women doing the running - and I'm definately not that kind of lady so watch this space....he'll prob be kicked to the kurb soon The only time I'll run is, erm, well I can't think of a time actually. Just isn't me.

As for gangbangs in our spare time - I refer you once again to thrush! Keep the stinking gangbangs. I'm a one man (at a time) woman pmsl. I've decided to learn some proper massage techniques in 2010 - not exactly Swinging from the lampshade stuff but it is mainly for work. Does this count as practising? 
Salsa sounds fun Emily. You and MrLongterm having a sexy dance....how lovely x

Yum - just my type...

lol...

Joey - take a leaf out of Alex's book,  just enjoy Mr Right Now for what it is and stop reading more into it, it will happen when it happens.

I know what you mean. But Mr. Right Now cant be sitting on his ass expecting me to meet him on his schedule on my dime. We need to share something, it needs to be tic for tac. Even Steven. 50/50.

As this point, I just want someone to hold tight in my arms and not let them go. I need a hug, yes...a 3rd one in 24 hours  

Nice one Alex! I am disgustingly envious and delighted for you in equal measures. It is a shock when you suddenly realise you haven't seen a man on your terms for yonks, isn't it?! May your mistletoe stay up until March so you can ravage him under it continually

The hot man is gone. He sussed out my job (I didn't go to any extreme measures to hide it) and decided he doesn't wanna see me anymore. I'm cool with that. What I'm not cool with is that he said he knew from the start. What was the point in seeing me if he didn't accept it? Sex- obviously  
I feel very used    . Think I'll stick to being paid for getting laid. It's far less complicated.
Love Alex x

The hot man is gone. He sussed out my job (I didn't go to any extreme measures to hide it) and decided he doesn't wanna see me anymore. I'm cool with that. What I'm not cool with is that he said he knew from the start.

No, say it aint true 

I'll tell you what it is. And I went over this went someone recently. I have been messaged by men in the past, around my age...and cute. I tell them my job. They then say, 'well I'm not into paying for sex, I get dick for free' or something similar. Well, you smart ass son of a bitch...I never asked you to pay in the first place but since you said so...you better have some $$$

In the times I've met these men who do question my job, or make some slick remark...they have either sent me on blank trips to meet them (how cold is that?) or if a relationship blossomed, they'd move on soon after having sex.

Thats why I dont suggest telling a man our job early on, and if possible...hide it well. Cause they will take advantage....