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Nameless

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My First Virgin!
« on: 18 March 2013, 04:38:47 pm »
Well young guy books me today, pretty nervous, but I think......its just his first time viisiting an escort.  Then after a (super long) shower he admits to me he was a virgin.  I wish he'd told me before but I guess its not an easy thing to say to someone.  So I just say we'll take it slow and try not to focus on the sex part.

But of course hes so nervous the whole way through, I don't think he'd even kissed a girl before!  So despite the massage, prolonged oral, an attempt at sex falls rather flat.  Never having had sex hes not used to wearing a condom either.  I go back to oral.........nearing the end of his time I have to say to him 'I'm not sure its going to happen......'

Of course hes absolutely desparate, we try again, then he asks 'can't we try without a condom' I say I'm afraid not.  He eventually manages to get himself hard again with a condom and his mission is finally accomplished!

I felt I couldn't get too annoyed at him going well over time as he'd given me a 'bonus' which in end didn't cover the time spent.  Oh well I give myself a gold medal for services to mankind as it was bloody hard work. I honestly thought he was never going to come and that I'd have to send him away still a miserable depressed virgin!  As it was he left with a big smile on his face - hurrah.
« Last Edit: 18 March 2013, 04:44:45 pm by Nameless »

kirsten

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Re: My First Virgin!
« Reply #1 on: 18 March 2013, 04:48:43 pm »
im surprised he went over time - my first virgin came after a one minute blow job, bless him.

you definitely get the virgin services rendered sticker!

Kirsten x

Nameless

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Re: My First Virgin!
« Reply #2 on: 18 March 2013, 04:51:58 pm »
I know I think it can work both ways.  This guy was so nervous he was shaking and couldn't relax the whole way through (it was like a task he'd set himself).

Normally I pride myself on making guys feel at ease but with this guy just the fact that he untensed enough to come was a miracle.

Dexi Delite

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Re: My First Virgin!
« Reply #3 on: 18 March 2013, 07:48:44 pm »
I've never had a virgin and have often wondered what it would be like.  I did come close once (well before I got into this business), but then my best friend slept with him and I wasn't interested in him after that.  Oooo, I can be such a cow sometimes. lol
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Re: My First Virgin!
« Reply #4 on: 18 March 2013, 08:01:24 pm »
Isn't that always fun? I've had:

the virgin to being with a Black guy for the 1st time
The virgin to ever be with a guy for the first time
the virgin to escort services
can't confirm if I've actually had a real virgin before.

Makes me want to sing: "The virgin Mary was his mother, and Joseph was his earthly father....."

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Re: My First Virgin!
« Reply #5 on: 18 March 2013, 08:20:03 pm »
I've had a few.....

I swear one was a school boy, I even asked him for ID which he got out his pocket - that worried me even more because who carries ID if they are old enough... then I embarassed myself with trying to calculate his DOB by using my fingers... anyway, whilst we were snogging, I put my hand down his jeans and on his cock, and he basically came in my hand, all over his jeans. He ran away after that, the whole booking was about 5 min! lol! He returned the following week and I fucked him then. He was terrified, bless him! He kept saying he liked older women and I could have throttled him for that! haha!

Natalie xXx

Nameless

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Re: My First Virgin!
« Reply #6 on: 18 March 2013, 09:10:14 pm »
I've had guys contact me before saying they were virgins asking to see me, but they always turned out to be fantasists.  This one didn't even tell me till 10 minutes into the booking.

Must admit, after I talked to him on the phone I asked him if he was over 18 as he sounded young.  When he arrived I nearly asked for ID, problem is being of a certain age myself, anyone under 25 looks really young to me (!) so I took his word for it.

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Re: My First Virgin!
« Reply #7 on: 19 March 2013, 11:21:01 am »
I've had several and I've personally found those bookings to be a lot of hard work because the guy usually becomes super passive and doesn't know what to do. I find teaching them a few things actually lessens their nerves and reduces their stress levels and that makes the bookings fine in the end (and virgins usually revisit at some point so good for business I have found).

Most of the older virgins I've seen tend to have a problem being able to cum at all, even when they try to masturbate with me in the room (though they are able to do so without any problems when they are at home). I think it's because they've become so used to their own hands that feeling a real woman doesn't feel 'real' to them maybe?

I have one guy I've seen now for nearly eleven months (he lost his virginity to me) and came for the first time last week during sex with me. I never thought I could feel so happy at something like that but honest to god,  I almost cried (not being able to make him cum had eaten away at my self-confidence a bit). I felt like super-escort! Plus the look on his face was so satisfying for both of us after all that time, I was so happy for him :D
« Last Edit: 19 March 2013, 11:24:36 am by crossupton »

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Re: My First Virgin!
« Reply #8 on: 19 March 2013, 11:46:13 am »
I've had guys contact me before saying they were virgins asking to see me, but they always turned out to be fantasists.  This one didn't even tell me till 10 minutes into the booking.

Must admit, after I talked to him on the phone I asked him if he was over 18 as he sounded young.  When he arrived I nearly asked for ID, problem is being of a certain age myself, anyone under 25 looks really young to me (!) so I took his word for it.

Many are great, some however can be quite demanding in both contact and in person.

Too many emails or text messages which start with "I'm a virgin" or "I'm 18 is this ok?" go on to become serial texters and "Will you do this, that, the other, wall to wall everything scripted at a time you don't usually work for much less fee than usual can we exchange 20 emails asking one question at a time", then wonder why you are being so mean as to not want to accept a booking from them.

Genuine guys of any age or status, book like anyone else and go on to be fine. Sometimes can be a bit nervous, but patience and understanding help with this.

Nameless

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Re: My First Virgin!
« Reply #9 on: 19 March 2013, 02:25:56 pm »
I've had several and I've personally found those bookings to be a lot of hard work because the guy usually becomes super passive and doesn't know what to do. I find teaching them a few things actually lessens their nerves and reduces their stress levels and that makes the bookings fine in the end (and virgins usually revisit at some point so good for business I have found).

Absolutely what I found this guy was completely passive and the booking was very hard work.  I was very patient and tried teaching him what I liked and also tried not to focus on the sex act too much itself.  However he was absolutely fixated on losing his virginity via sex (he didn't want to come via HR/oral) and could barely relax at all he was so stressed about it, and when he finally came I actually said Hallelujah I was so relieved, thought it was never going to happen!

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Re: My First Virgin!
« Reply #10 on: 19 March 2013, 09:04:31 pm »
I am thinking of stopping seeing virgins as they really are extra hard work and I have had my bits rubbed raw even though I try and tell them how to do it.  I had a split lip off a guy who thought kissing meant hitting your lips hard against each other, imagine a chicken or goose pecking for food and that is what his head was doing.
I had one the other day who came in the first ten minutes and then over an hour later still had not come again but refused to leave until he had (its actually hard to throw out a huge guy (6'1 and around 20stone) when he is refusing to get off the bed and then says it always takes around 90 minutes before he can come again even with his own hand (why book an hour then :FF )

I also find some just lay there and wont talk or move and there is only so much you can do with a guy who wont move a muscle

I have also found that quite a few pretend they are virgins to try and get extra time.   

Yep now I have wrote it down I realise I actually never want to see a virgin again
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Re: My First Virgin!
« Reply #11 on: 20 March 2013, 03:53:35 pm »
This is something I always enjoyed, but I went for longer bookings and was up front in saying that exploring something new was a process that would take more than one booking.

I find teaching them a few things actually lessens their nerves and reduces their stress levels

I agree.

Most of the older virgins I've seen tend to have a problem being able to cum at all, even when they try to masturbate with me in the room (though they are able to do so without any problems when they are at home). I think it's because they've become so used to their own hands that feeling a real woman doesn't feel 'real' to them maybe?

Not "unreal", but certainly different and it takes time to get used to finding new sensations as erotic, especially if they have been "fast and furious" by themselves.

Come quickly or come with difficulty, and rarely anywhere in the middle.

Nameless

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Re: My First Virgin!
« Reply #12 on: 20 March 2013, 04:15:18 pm »
This is something I always enjoyed, but I went for longer bookings and was up front in saying that exploring something new was a process that would take more than one booking.

I may have to nick your words for any future virgin bookngs.  Thing is with this guy I didn't know in advance so it caught me very much on the hop,