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Title: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Alex Oak on 29 December 2020, 01:41:13 pm
A client who I've seen before booked me for 2pm. I then got a text at 1:01pm cancelling the booking - one minute after I had taken 100mg of Viagra (a double dose because I'd had problems with this guy last time).

So now I'm going to be popping boners at the slightest mention of anything vaguely sexual for the next 5 hours and I've not even earned any money.

 :FF :FF :FF


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Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: amy on 29 December 2020, 02:42:42 pm
Urgh. At least with us we can just wipe the lube off and get on with the day.

Is there anything that makes it wear off quicker? I have no idea about the stuff bar dreading punters turning up having had it (for exactly the reason it's useful for you :D).
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Alex Oak on 29 December 2020, 03:00:30 pm
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Is there anything that makes it wear off quicker?

Not that I'm aware of. Its fine; it doesn't keep me solid the whole time - just makes you like a teenager again in terms of arousal. So as long as nobody smiles at me...

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dreading punters turning up having had it

I don't follow? If a client is polite and doesn't overstay his time slot, why don't you like it when they take V?
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Alex Oak on 29 December 2020, 03:01:25 pm
Also, if I'm honest, 100mg is the maximum dose per day, so my ideal situation would be to suddenly get another booking in the next few hours, cos I can't take any more until tomorrow.
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: amy on 29 December 2020, 03:17:21 pm
I don't follow? If a client is polite and doesn't overstay his time slot, why don't you like it when they take V?

Because they just thump away endlessly like the Duracell bunny without getting anywhere and it's really bloody boring. Plus the ones who turn up with a sweat on and the red face I'm always convinced they're going to have a heart attack or something  :-\

Plus it doesn't work for everybody, and I've had a few get frustrated and angry when it didn't (which is understandable, but doesn't make it OK to take it out on me).
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Alex Oak on 29 December 2020, 03:33:01 pm
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Because they just thump away endlessly like the Duracell bunny without getting anywhere and it's really bloody boring

Ah yes, that sounds about right. From my side of the transaction, Viagra is the miracle drug - I really couldn't do this job without it. I had an overnight booking with 4 other escorts a few weekends ago (the clients clearly had too much money). I managed to stay 100% erect (you could have bounced a penny off it the whole time) from 11:15 through till about 5:30am. This is a new personal record for me.

The only problematic part of V for me is that clients usually want me to cum during a booking. Its doable, but it damn sure is only going to happen if I bring myself there, no matter what people tell you about your skillz.
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: English Green on 29 December 2020, 04:59:21 pm
Do you need to take Viagra Alex every time you get a booking? I suppose it must be hard work trying to get hard if you don't like or are not attracted to the client. I suppose if the client is not touching you up your need to do it yourself otherwise the booking might become harder.

I suppose least with women we can pretend we are enjoying it when we are not and most clients would not know either way.
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Braziliana on 29 December 2020, 05:59:41 pm
AO, please don't hate me, but...yahaha!
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Alex Oak on 29 December 2020, 06:22:11 pm
Do you need to take Viagra Alex every time you get a booking?

This varies from guy to guy but, personally? I take 50mg of Viagra an hour before every single booking. This is partly because I'm a particular type of guy that leads to 90% of my clients being bottoms. People that book me see (amongst other things) an above average penis in the photos and since that's typically one of the main reasons they book me, I'd feel uncomfortable risking not having a fully fledged erection.

To a certain extent for a man, sexual confidence is massively tied up to the ability to get fully hard. I have occasional erectile dysfunction problems anyway even in my personal life (which is how I have a prescription for the stuff - though admittedly, I actually told my GP that I am a rentboy half way through that conversation), so as soon as it feels like its gonna go soft, it tends to be a foregone conclusion. I see a lot of quite nervous guys, and as far as I am concerned, I'm being paid to be the confident guy in the room. Viagra removes the main source of potential anxiety and enables me to play that role better.

AO, please don't hate me, but...yahaha!

No problem ;) penises are funny things!
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Alex Oak on 29 December 2020, 06:25:39 pm
I suppose if the client is not touching you up your need to do it yourself otherwise the booking might become harder.

Its not that they don't do it, its often that they don't do it right. Nobody understands the best way to touch my penis better than me (I'm sure the same applies to vaginas), so usually, if I'm in danger of going soft, the best person to remedy that situation is me, but unfortunately in that situation clients often feel the need to try to be "helpful"... and tend to make it worse.
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Alex Oak on 29 December 2020, 06:42:05 pm
Also, if I'm honest, 100mg is the maximum dose per day, so my ideal situation would be to suddenly get another booking in the next few hours, cos I can't take any more until tomorrow.

BTW, this happened :D :D I got a last minute booking before it wore off. So I'm less grumpy now.  8)
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Richard on 29 December 2020, 09:06:21 pm
I can't remember who the other recent new male poster is, but what I said to them about this still applies.

Look at daily Tadalafil (generic Cialis) instead. You don't need to take it two hours before it's needed, and at about £25 per month from a UK online pharmacy, it's cheaper too.

Its not that they don't do it, its often that they don't do it right. Nobody understands the best way to touch my penis better than me (I'm sure the same applies to vaginas)


It's not just women's bodies that many men think they know better than their owners, but it's a lot easier to fake being wet than being hard.
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Richard on 29 December 2020, 09:14:25 pm
I managed to stay 100% erect (you could have bounced a penny off it the whole time) from 11:15 through till about 5:30am. This is a new personal record for me.

That long is getting risky for damaging the penis. Blood that stays in the penis doesn't get more oxygen, and tissue that doesn't get enough oxygen for too long ends up damaged or worse.

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The only problematic part of V for me is that clients usually want me to cum during a booking. Its doable, but it damn sure is only going to happen if I bring myself there, no matter what people tell you about your skillz.

Faking ejaculating is what Liquid Silk is for! If they have come first, they are a lot less likely to want it to end up in their mouth.
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Alex Oak on 29 December 2020, 09:30:44 pm
That long is getting risky for damaging the penis. Blood that stays in the penis doesn't get more oxygen, and tissue that doesn't get enough oxygen for too long ends up damaged or worse.

Noted. To be fair, I was wondering about this too, but it was fine. I will probably have a chat to my GP about it though.

Look at daily Tadalafil (generic Cialis) instead. You don't need to take it two hours before it's needed, and at about £25 per month from a UK online pharmacy, it's cheaper too.

You don't need to take it two hours before its needed, one is more than adequate and since this is about when I start preparing for bookings anyway, its (usually)  not a big deal for me. Also, given that I get Viagra on a repeat NHS prescription, £25 a month isn't cheaper for me.
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Alex Oak on 29 December 2020, 09:31:52 pm
Faking ejaculating is what Liquid Silk is for! If they have come first, they are a lot less likely to want it to end up in their mouth.

Nah, I'm happy to get myself there without faking it. I don't really like to fake stuff in bookings if I can avoid it.
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Alex Oak on 29 December 2020, 09:37:44 pm
Look at daily Tadalafil (generic Cialis) instead

Oh, and I just remembered. There's a dealbreaker issue with using a daily ED medication...

I like poppers in recreational sex a lot. The advice I've been given is that pretty much *every* pharmaceutical intervention for erectile dysfunction is really dangerous to use alongside poppers. For Viagra, the advice is don't use poppers within 24 hours of having taken a viagra. This annoys me but I just accept that I can't use poppers if I'm busy with clients.

But if I were to take Cialis daily that would rule poppers out for me completely, which I don't really want.
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: RB1 on 29 December 2020, 11:15:53 pm
Its not that they don't do it, its often that they don't do it right. Nobody understands the best way to touch my penis better than me (I'm sure the same applies to vaginas), so usually, if I'm in danger of going soft, the best person to remedy that situation is me, but unfortunately in that situation clients often feel the need to try to be "helpful"... and tend to make it worse.
I always tell punters  if they are struggling to come on round two  to wank themselves, while I talk dirty or do a toy show
I make a joke that he can do it better than me 😂 which is true especially on round two
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Richard on 31 December 2020, 03:09:48 pm
I like poppers in recreational sex a lot.

I think poppers are vile, so that's not a problem for me :angel: ;D

Also, given that I get Viagra on a repeat NHS prescription, £25 a month isn't cheaper for me.

How on earth did you manage that??
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Alex Oak on 31 December 2020, 05:26:05 pm
How on earth did you manage that??

I have genuine ED problems in my personal sex life which I went to see my GP about. I told he about that and then candidly told he I'm also a sex worker and I'd be using it for bookings. So he did me a repeat prescription ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Title: Re: Taken viagra then punter cancels [was: Damnit]
Post by: Alex Oak on 31 December 2020, 05:27:00 pm
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