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lillybliss

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Re: Coronavirus affecting bookings
« Reply #75 on: 10 March 2020, 11:01:23 am »
Misunderstood you are scaremongering and there is enough of that all over the news at the moment, some people absolutely love drama, people are not being flippant or downplaying it and yes we do have to take extra special precautions especially as we are in a job that requires extra close (well you can't get any closer) contact, I think in the back of our minds we would all be a bit worried but if we let it start ruling our lives none of us will go out the door for how ever long all this crap is in the news and a lot of us will end up in financial ruin. All we can do is take precautions as in good hygiene and so on and carry on, your posts are not helping so maybe quit being a drama queen (or king as the case maybe) and get on with life.

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« Reply #76 on: 10 March 2020, 12:41:39 pm »
Misunderstood you are scaremongering and there is enough of that all over the news at the moment

The phrase 'Shoot the messanger' was coined for a reason.
If anything, I'd say there was a media blackout on the coronavirus news, especially in February.

RBS has today announced it will defer mortgage and loan repayments for up to three months for customers impacted by coronavirus.
Debts will not go away but I don't think electricity will be switched off during the outbreak. Unless the infrastructure collapses.
I would be extremely happy to be alive and healthy in the middle of July. If I'll have to file for bankruptcy then, fuck it.

If somebody didn't grasp the idea of exponential growth at school, this epidemic will give an opportunity to learn.
It's awful to see otherwise intelligent people believing lies from the government criminals and being led to slaughter.
I made a decision for myself based on my situation and what I think is the most probable scenario.

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« Reply #77 on: 10 March 2020, 12:55:30 pm »
Some people are going to look at this type of thing different from each other. It is only scaremongering if you get scared by it. There is plenty of people that are still carrying on as normal and not letting it affect there daily life and there is some that are panicking i just accept people will look at things different.

I would say though if it does spread a lot more then it has so far then sex work in general is very intimate so i would put it at a higher risk of spreading. I do not offer as many services as some do but i have already had a couple of clients say to me there not interested in any form of kissing or face touching with the Coronavirus and that is perfect for me but everyone has washed there hands and when service if finished the ones i saw recent anyway.

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« Reply #78 on: 10 March 2020, 02:54:37 pm »
And since I'm sick of repeating myself, posts unrelated to sex work removed.

It's also worth remembering that while some people are understandably feeling defensive, dismissing others as stupid, deluded or wrong because they don't think exactly the same as you is not acceptable here either. The people here are adults who can, will and are assessing their approach based on their level of personal risk (including that of their families and personal contacts) which only they know, not the rest of us.

Those of us (including me) who remember SARS, bird flu, swine flu, Ebola and probably a couple I've forgotten will also remember doing the same then. What we can do here is try to support the posters who for whatever reason have decided that they are at higher/exceptional risk and will as a result have to turn away work, and they don't have to explain the reasons for that belief on a public message board.

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« Reply #79 on: 10 March 2020, 11:18:12 pm »
This has seriously impacted on me now. Since my last post I haven't worked in parlour and had no outcalls either. Ive had to apply for Universal Credit, no idea when or if I get something.
Been given chit for Food Bank. I have to childs under 12.

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« Reply #80 on: 10 March 2020, 11:28:35 pm »
Just Skype with my father in Thailand, he tell not to worry. Logic he thinks good. Virus will become weaker eventually for it survive. He said not a brilliant survival strategy to kill off the host they live off.
All humans dead, all virus dead. He cheered me and make happy.

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Re: Coronavirus affecting bookings
« Reply #81 on: 11 March 2020, 01:04:40 am »
I can understand how this can worry some folk, especially the ability to earn.

I cant say if the lull is due to the virus outbreak or if still carrying on from Christmas; if I remember correctly things didnt really start moving again until March last year. My regulars certainly havent been put off and I have met a couple of new clients in this past month, but I also dont offer full service now so my business levels may be slightly lower that those who appeal to a larger market.

I did have one client try and cancel his booking concerned that if he caught coronavirus from me then he wouldn't have a good excuse for his wife as to where he got it 🙄 after I told him his deposit was non refundable anyway, he quickly realised he was being paranoid and daft, more to the point.

I'm not panicking over it, I'm not bulk buying toilet paper and thankfully dont use social media or else I would have lost the plot by now. The sex work industry will pick back up but in the meantime time for those who are struggling to get enough work, it could be an idea to start other money making things that dont require personal contact, such as cam, chat and content. It wont make as much as escorting but it's better to be proactive than sit about all day worrying.

Really hope things pick up for everyone.

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« Reply #82 on: 11 March 2020, 02:27:31 am »
It seems likely to start peaking in the next couple of weeks, and the fact is, regardless of how many people are infected, or how high (or low) the fatality rate is, people are probably quite rightly going to try and limit their exposure, especially if they have health conditions themselves or close contact with elderly relatives (and the elderly appear to be more vulnerable than children).

I agree with Veggiegal that the sensible course of action for anyone who currently escorts full-time, i.e. doesn't have another source of income, would be to set themselves up for camming, and at least try and do a few hours a day if no bookings come in?
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

saltysweet

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« Reply #83 on: 11 March 2020, 12:29:09 pm »
I'm pretty much with Linglau on this...hopefully it will soon burn itself out, change and pass.
Just like to say if you're work is effected by Cory, or personal sickness like any other self employed person you're entitled to Universal Bennies as Linglau says. Done this several times. Citizens Advice is my god.
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DarcyLady

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« Reply #84 on: 11 March 2020, 03:14:59 pm »
Work is dead for me now too, but cam is still going well. Plus the financial market has crashed, so I seem to be getting more pounds to the dollar atm. Not sure if this is a good thing longterm or not... :'(

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« Reply #85 on: 11 March 2020, 04:51:14 pm »
Work is dead for me now too, but cam is still going well. Plus the financial market has crashed, so I seem to be getting more pounds to the dollar atm. Not sure if this is a good thing longterm or not... :'(

Some people ( I know one ) are paid in dollars, convert to sterling = more ££ however all depends on the rate on the day they are paid which is only a few times each year.

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« Reply #86 on: 11 March 2020, 06:49:37 pm »
For anyone who is worried that you have coronavirus, remind them that sharing is caring. They'll share their money, you share your time and virus.

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« Reply #87 on: 11 March 2020, 07:45:42 pm »
Ok I told myself I wouldn't feed into it and just carry on as normal, but I must admit I am starting to wonder about the next few months.

I know they are completely different viruses but does anyone who worked during the Swine flu pandemic remember how business was?


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« Reply #88 on: 11 March 2020, 07:53:55 pm »
I’m in south west Swindon Bristol Bath all dead as a dodo surviving on one job a day at the moment. I’ve managed to pay enough rent and bills to cover me for a month off but after that who knows. It needs to hurry up and Fuck off. I’ve definitely seen a drop this week from 4/5 jobs a day down to 1.
Very worried about this and then three weeks Easter holidays stuck in the house with child no money. It’s very doom and gloom but let’s stick together girls we will weather this storm.

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« Reply #89 on: 11 March 2020, 08:19:35 pm »
Ok I told myself I wouldn't feed into it and just carry on as normal, but I must admit I am starting to wonder about the next few months.

I know they are completely different viruses but does anyone who worked during the Swine flu pandemic remember how business was?

Swine flu was absolutely fine, I think one client caught it (international traveller)...........that was all.