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DarcyLady

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Re: Coronavirus affecting bookings
« Reply #45 on: 05 March 2020, 12:28:03 pm »
I do have funds set aside, but it's not always easy to save, especially when work is so quiet.

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« Reply #46 on: 05 March 2020, 01:05:14 pm »
If you have been in this industry a long time and earnt some good money and have no savings something is very wrong.

If you have been in the industry a long time and do not earn enough to save anything then no point doing this job in my view anyway with the risks and hassle it brings.

Coronavirus or not anything can happen at any time to put you out of work for a period of time so saving when you earn ok or good is the only way to protect yourself if you need time off when self employed.




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« Reply #47 on: 05 March 2020, 02:00:39 pm »
If you have been in this industry a long time and earnt some good money and have no savings something is very wrong.

I agree with this, but still feel bad for those who send their savings to family in another country, or dependents  to take care of.  I cannot imagine how stressful it must be for them.


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« Reply #48 on: 05 March 2020, 02:08:13 pm »
If you have been in this industry a long time and earnt some good money and have no savings something is very wrong.

If you have been in the industry a long time and do not earn enough to save anything then no point doing this job in my view anyway with the risks and hassle it brings.

Coronavirus or not anything can happen at any time to put you out of work for a period of time so saving when you earn ok or good is the only way to protect yourself if you need time off when self employed.

I have been working in this industry for ten years, ans I have always made alot. However, I also have children and debts, so no, I haven't put savings aside. I wish it was as easy as you're making it out.

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« Reply #49 on: 05 March 2020, 02:31:16 pm »
I have been working in this industry for ten years, ans I have always made alot. However, I also have children and debts, so no, I haven't put savings aside. I wish it was as easy as you're making it out.

Right exactly this.  I made decent money for years, had a lot of savings; but then followed 2 yrs of ill health I could not have foreseen, which meant I couldn’t work for long long periods;  and bang no savings any more, having to start from scratch.

But to get back on topic I don’t think it is affecting bookings, it is just the usual slow February and springtime.  I’ve only had maybe two clients mention it at all. 

There’s a lot of panic and misinformation in the media which I think I already mentioned.  Unless you have a compromised immune system, are very young, old, or in an at risk group (ie. pregnant) then it will affect you as all mild viruses do.

The best thing to do to avoid catching or spreading ANY virus is to practise good hand hygiene which you should be doing anyway.

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Re: Coronavirus affecting bookings
« Reply #50 on: 05 March 2020, 02:33:29 pm »
Exactly THE LAST TIME spot on.

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« Reply #51 on: 05 March 2020, 03:22:17 pm »
A regular mentioned it in an enquiry, someone else declined on basis that I had a cold which if he caught it could cause CV suspicion issues because of his activities in the next few weeks. Another who cancelled due to my cold would have done the same a year ago. Others have gone ahead as normal, yes they knew about my cold.

I am washing hands more often and paying attention when I am in contact with people in my every day life. On outcalls I usually use the bathroom on arrival including washing my hands, will be more rigorous and ask any incall visitors to do the same. Probably a good practice to carry forward.

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« Reply #52 on: 05 March 2020, 04:47:09 pm »
I have been working in this industry for ten years, ans I have always made alot. However, I also have children and debts, so no, I haven't put savings aside. I wish it was as easy as you're making it out.

I have debts too and thousands on bad previous business shut down so i know all about debts. But everyone is different and some people are just not good with saving. I have had past working escort friends that have earnt a lot of money over a long period of time and wasted most of it even though they could have saved lots i do think there is a lot of escorts that do struggle with managing there money it is just the way it is, seen lots who have earned more then me have less pay out then me but still cannot save money and then ask to borrow money off me because they have spent it all even though they earnt more and worked more then me.

I am not making out it is easy for everyone, it would only be easy for people that earnt enough to pay all living costs and whatever they had left they save some of that and do not touch it unless emergency but i understand that everyone is different and a lot just struggle to do that.

I have a working girl friend that makes about 1500 a week and her outgoings are low and she just cannot save more then a £100 from it as soon as it is in her hand it must be spent then when has a bad week is panicking so that is how she chooses to live.


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« Reply #53 on: 05 March 2020, 04:56:07 pm »
the last time. That situation is similar to mine i had a lot of time off due to illness and used lots on savings it happens and you have to start again.

But to do with Coronavirus nobody knows how bad it will get so probably as a general rule if you do earn more then living outgoings try to put something away just incase. So far i do not think too many clients are worried about it but if someone was to catch it as there put in quarantine and they want to know where you been who have you mixed with. Cannot see many clients wanting to say they visited a woman for paid sex.

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Re: Coronavirus affecting bookings
« Reply #54 on: 05 March 2020, 04:57:37 pm »
i do think there is a lot of escorts that do struggle with managing there money it is just the way it is, seen lots who have earned more then me have less pay out then me but still cannot save money and then ask to borrow money off me because they have spent it all even though they earnt more and worked more then me.

I am not making out it is easy for everyone, it would only be easy for people that earnt enough to pay all living costs and whatever they had left they save some of that and do not touch it unless emergency but i understand that everyone is different and a lot just struggle to do that.

I have a working girl friend that makes about 1500 a week and her outgoings are low and she just cannot save more then a £100 from it as soon as it is in her hand it must be spent then when has a bad week is panicking so that is how she chooses to live.

With the best will in the world EG, the above applies to everybody with an income of any kind and not just sex workers; as others have taken up their time to point out, everybody's circumstances are different and some people have outgoings which they've been stuck with through no fault of their own - illness, being dropped in the shit by an partner, or whatever. And plenty of people in civvy jobs just piss their money away too, which is their choice and no-one elses.

It's also nothing to do with this thread, so we'll get back on topic now. I ought to point out that my post was more to do with things are are realistic for everybody, like adding a couple of cheap tins or a bag of pasta to the shopping each week, not setting up some giant slush fund so we can all put our feet up and take a month off whenever we like :).


EDIT: cross posted with post that was finally back on topic :D

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Re: Coronavirus affecting bookings
« Reply #55 on: 06 March 2020, 01:28:10 pm »
I think sooner or later people will be in a state of panic.

I am thinking about how I can protect myself while escorting? Are any others taking precautions?

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« Reply #56 on: 06 March 2020, 09:00:05 pm »
I think sooner or later people will be in a state of panic.

I am thinking about how I can protect myself while escorting? Are any others taking precautions?

The only way to protect yourself is to isolate yourself. Otherwise, handwashing and general good hygiene. No panic here until a few million have it and/or the fatality rate increases, and even then it will be more the practical/social aspects that would worry me.

Of the circa 100,000 people globally who've had it, about half have already recovered.
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« Reply #57 on: 06 March 2020, 10:33:51 pm »
I'm more worried on how the effect of the corona has hit the financial markets  this week, I just had a finance city type client telling despair how the markets have gone bust and he was freaking out. I'm blaming this on my slow week  ???
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« Reply #58 on: 07 March 2020, 06:11:53 am »
I do think however that the human condition doesn't change irrespective of pandemics there will always be clients who are solvent and there will always be those who are in need of our service to cheer themselves along.  There are also those clients who won't be swayed by the pandemic at all and will act quite rational.  In addition some clients will always take more risks especially the younger ones.

Given we have those four types above I don't think we should be majorly affected if we have a positive outlook and keep our blogs ratings and photos up to date and our availability is good.

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« Reply #59 on: 07 March 2020, 09:33:37 am »
5 out of 6 clients in the last week have not washed their hands before leaving my place after very intimate contact with me. I can only conclude there is little evidence of a panic going on in my little town.  ::)