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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: Tina Sparx on 13 August 2021, 09:45:43 am
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I don't know about you, but recently (this year) there seems to be an upsurge in constant requests for bareback. (in my case this is obviously anal).
I really don't think they read profiles properly, or indeed the FAQ.
Really getting on my nerves lately!
Rant over!
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I don't know about you, but recently (this year) there seems to be an upsurge in constant requests for bareback. (in my case this is obviously anal).
I really don't think they read profiles properly, or indeed the FAQ.
Really getting on my nerves lately!
Rant over!
If you have stated on your FAQs that bareback isn’t on then I honestly think this can encourage the ones that want to annoy you, they will purposely ask for what you don’t want, I used to have the same thing written in my FAQs, and I got inundated constantly with requests, I have now taken it off and I rarely get asked, try taking it off and just considering that most men know that penetrative sex is always obviously covered.
It could also be due to the pandemic, some men think that we’re more desperate for business and so they think we will be willing to lower our standards, and of course, there will be women that have done and this is their own personal choice, but it makes the men think that we’re all into it.
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I have had a few too
It’s on my profile I do not want them to contact me but they still do , and the nerve to say they are clean or offer ridiculous amount of money , I hate the ones with 40 or more fb I check on it and there’s always a few they seen who bb I just block them with rest of the muppets , my block list is huge.
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I've had maybe one cut & paste email request for this last year. Luckily, nothing this year. Their delight is to annoy.
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I've had requests and physical attempts from people who should not come back or be contacted.
The down side of this job is the boundary pushing idiots :FF
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I noticed an uplift in bb requests since lockdown. My belief is that it's guys who have never punted before and used to go out on the pull or arrange hookups by tinder or whatnot, with civvy women who are much more amenable to it.
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My belief is that it's guys who have never punted before and used to go out on the pull or arrange hookups by tinder or whatnot, with civvy women who are much more amenable to it.
Think you are right x
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Yes... Sweeping generalisations maybe but there are blokes over 60 who pretty much missed the HIV/AIDS crisis and almost think their age makes them immune, plus they often get condom wilt, then there's the under 30s who grew up without so much worry about HIV and on a diet of condom-free porn (and the women their own age often won't argue to use condoms). I also think COVID has messed with some people's heads re. health and sex in general!
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I find things like this come in spurts, no pun intended.
Also general public often don't have much information on STIs/STDs so they think they are ok because they don't do anything 'weird' (their words not mine) and are heterosexual.
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All you can do it state it categorically on your profile, and if anyone asks when contacting you, you block them. And if they ask at the booking you kick them out. And if they try it, you call the police.
It's the only way.
I've had clients tell me that it's OK because they're clean, and recently (about ten days ago) I had a client tell me that it shouldn't matter if I'm clean and on the pill, plus because I already have kids so it shouldn't matter. No idea what he meant by that.
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I deliberately got one to give me his mobile as he emailed for bareback. When he called I gave it him on the phone about reading escorts profiles properly .then blocked.
It's not something I usually do but was sick of his emails.
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Met what I thought was going to be a good new regular who was talking about seeing me a few times a week , did the usual services on our meet earlier this week , now his on about bareback although it’s clearly on my profile I do not offer it or want them coming to me , told him not see him again , I might just take owo off as I do not know how many of them have already been to me as it is . They think because I like them they so special to do it , it’s a shame as his got money too .
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Constantly getting barebackers messaging who either into it or seen others who do and I’ve had them still coming to me , I had one fat cunt remove the Jonnie unbeknown to me it was only when he pulled out I noticed and he had cheek to say it fell off , another trip to the clinic soon , they so horrible vile and disgusting and no respect even if you say you don’t want them they slyly get around to it . :-[
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I had one fat cunt remove the Jonnie unbeknown to me it was only when he pulled out I noticed and he had cheek to say it fell off
This is stealthing and it is classed as rape. He can be reported to the police for doing this although I realise you might not want to do so. However, at the very least, please report this man to Client Eye, NUM and the warning thread on here so others can decline to see him.
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I noticed an uplift in bb requests since lockdown. My belief is that it's guys who have never punted before and used to go out on the pull or arrange hookups by tinder or whatnot, with civvy women who are much more amenable to it.
I agree with this. I have seen a massive increase in emails and txts asking for bareback. I have it stated on my ads I don't offer this service but they seem to think they are special in some way! Go on I'll be a regular etc. I just save them as bareback and block them! Not chancing a booking and they take the condom off and then I have to take a few weeks off work waiting for std results/ treatment
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Honestly im shocked AT the number of times i get asked this by people from all kbds of professions and educstional backgrounds. Dont they See the risks? I just wanna know the mindset.
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I think it's just a preference as with everything else such as OWO (which is equally risky).
People make too much of it. We can offer whatever we want and will attract the clients that want those services.
I mean, what's the mindset of someone who wants to be an adult baby for example? (That would risk my patience!)
As a service provider, I decide on the risks I want to take and advertise accordingly.
The biggest risk for me is what type of person is going to walk through my door, which I why I screen like MI5.
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If they know they like IT they should AT least keep the latest checkup papers w them AT all times.
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If they know they like IT they should AT least keep the latest checkup papers w them AT all times.
The problem with that is it's only as good as when you had the test. Every client afterwards is a potential infection so it's just not reliable (both for OWO and penetration).
We'd need to be tested after every client and get an immediate result for it to be foolproof.
Maybe someone will invent a test at some point.
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1. Cant get anymore or any bareback offering escorts to see them
2 fancy their luck with escorts that dont advertise bareback
3 want to be rejected when boundary pushing and are fucking stupid !