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Foxyfemale40s

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Hotel outcalls
« on: 08 April 2025, 03:38:24 pm »
Those who do hotel outcalls. What do you wear? I much prefer to wear heels to bookings because it increases my confidence but when going to hotels I worry that it makes me look like an escort. I know, the irony.  ;D

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Re: Hotel outcalls
« Reply #1 on: 08 April 2025, 04:51:01 pm »
It depends on the weather and how far I'll be walking; normally I wear Converse or UGGs if it's cold (and dry). To be honest, if I saw a woman wearing high heels anywhere in central London I'd assume she was a prossie regardless (an overly large handbag is another giveaway) but I realise that they're not such a rarity in other places.

I don't generally take a bag either because my stuff fits in a couple of pockets, but I'll have to rethink that now giant coat weather has pretty much gone for the year. Cheap, plain black tube dress with short sleeves (which isn't ideal as I have to pull it over my head to take it off - I would never do this on an incall) and underwear/hold ups; I take clean knickers in my pocket to put on before I leave so I'm sorted :D

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Re: Hotel outcalls
« Reply #2 on: 08 April 2025, 06:57:24 pm »
Wear simple but nice flat shoes, bring heels in your bag with you.

I have done a million outcalls and that’s what I normally do. Especially if they request heels in advance (if you really want to you could swap shoes in the lift) but I prefer to just quickly change in the room.

And then some who aren’t bothered with heels or prefer barefoot will say, oh it’s fine leave it !

Works for me…

I think some clients who are super into high heels are impressed that you bothered bringing them as it’s less expected on a outcall, but I can’t bring my 10 inch pleasers or multiple pairs without bringing a big bag and that needs even more planning, but a simple black leather pump nearly everyone is happy with to be honest
« Last Edit: 08 April 2025, 07:15:10 pm by MyValentine »

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Re: Hotel outcalls
« Reply #3 on: 08 April 2025, 07:08:07 pm »
When I did hotel outcalls (and clocked up a fair number)  I never wore high or even mid heeled shoes. Always afraid of tripping or stumbling in them so always wore flats or kitten heels. I always wore what I considered sensible and unremarkable outer clothes. Long skirt or smart trousers and a nice top or tee shirt and jacket/coat with my more exotic stuff hidden underneath. Sometimes I'd take a pair of stripper shoes and various bits and pieces crammed into my roomy shoulder bag, depending on who I was visiting.

The last thing I would want was to stand out in public as a prossie. My hair was quite long then and it was tied into a low ponytail (the boring look) so I'd whip it out and fluff up my hair just before knocking at his room door. 🙂

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Re: Hotel outcalls
« Reply #4 on: 08 April 2025, 07:10:43 pm »
Oh and I could never do a booking without a handbag of some kind, its helpful to have clothing options… or when they sometimes have a physical gift along with the cash like perfume or chocs you wouldn’t be able to carry it back ???

At a minimum I need somewhere to put
baby wipes
Massage oil (even when not asked for massage, surprising how many do want especially if finished early)
4 sizes condoms
One set extra stockings in case of rips
Spare undies
Flavourless lube
Small phone charger in case extend booking into overnight
My second wallet I keep just for work
One small toy or vibrator

Even better : and something I’ve started recently is also a mini umbrella and warm trousers in case of any travel issues x
« Last Edit: 08 April 2025, 07:12:52 pm by MyValentine »

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Re: Hotel outcalls
« Reply #5 on: 08 April 2025, 07:33:43 pm »
In spring / summer I wear a smart casual midi length dress and trainers (mumsy casual style  ;D) and have a large shoulder bag as if I was a hotel guest coming and going. I change into stockings etc in the client's bathroom and take heels to change into if the client is adamant that's what they'd like.

It's easier in winter to go in wearing the full stockings etc with long dress and knee length boots plus coat.

 I guess what I'm saying is that I don't dress any differently for an outcall than I do in real life  - at least on the outside - and that makes me feel inconspicuous

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Re: Hotel outcalls
« Reply #6 on: 08 April 2025, 11:43:39 pm »
I take two nappy bags, one as the main 'container' with various condoms, a mini bottle of lube and wet wipes (I keep an almost empty pack so I can roll it up and it takes up hardly any space) in it, and that's pretty much it apart from the clean knickers. Then keys, Oyster and phone plus a water bottle.

I do need a mini bag in summer when I don't have the coat pockets, but I travel light :D

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Re: Hotel outcalls
« Reply #7 on: 09 April 2025, 08:04:40 am »
I take two nappy bags, one as the main 'container' with various condoms, a mini bottle of lube and wet wipes (I keep an almost empty pack so I can roll it up and it takes up hardly any space) in it, and that's pretty much it apart from the clean knickers. Then keys, Oyster and phone plus a water bottle.

I do need a mini bag in summer when I don't have the coat pockets, but I travel light :D

I'm like you even though I'm travelling by car I travel light,  I have a small cross body handbag and in it goes a pack of wipes, normally the ones with just a few left, a selection of condoms a sachet of lube, knickers and stockings if I'm not already wearing them.

If it's winter I will have stockings on u der whatever sensible,  normL clothingI'm wearing, often I will wear jeans and boots, in summer I tend to arrive in sandals or pretty leather flip flops with a summer dress.

It's surprising how many guys are not at all bothered and say not to bother getting the stockings on or putting heels on.

If they try and insist I arrive wearing a short skirt with my tits out they just screened themselves out of a booking.

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Re: Hotel outcalls
« Reply #8 on: 09 April 2025, 10:28:50 am »
Some of my bookings involve specific, quite involved dress requests, if the booking is long perhaps several or I might take an additional set of lingerie. I also remember one punter who had (after making the booking) sent lengthy messages explaining and describing the many pairs of knicker show he wanted. I focused so much on that I didn't pack any heels (and at that time I had had a spate of clients/punters actually telling me on arrival they didn't want me wear heels). He was visibly disappointed so I always take a pair with me to every booking apart from one regular who has explicitly told me "No heels". I arrive in flat shoes with a cross body bag and sometimes a tote bag, if an overnight a mini suitcase. Condoms, toys, lube, wipes, change of lingerie, spare stockings, spare contact lenses/spectacles, emergency medication (I am ok most of the time), alarm, bottle of water, the heels, toiletries if overnight, charger, some request I bring a speaker to pay music. I also offer BDSM services if this has been requested I could have a selection of 'travel' implements or other equipment.