Author Topic: Clients who come but don't stay (Read 9159 times)

lauralashes · « **Reply #15 on:** 16 May 2010, 10:51:49 am »

Yeah, it's happened. The first time I was like "err... what just happened?"

There have been a number of times where the client has stayed the duration of the booking but I wished he hadn't because they were boring/strange/a pain in general..... if only there was a way we could excuse ourselves from a booking...

"Sorry sir, I've seemed to have left the lube in my car, I'll be back in a sec" *subtly and swiftly packs bags and dashes for the exit* Off course I'd leave some of the fee behind for him for his efforts!!

xw5 · « **Reply #16 on:** 16 May 2010, 11:28:25 am »

Quote from: strawberry on 16 May 2010, 10:35:21 am

I am not so not sure how leaving made a difference - unless she had him bugged.

Because he can then think "I didn't actually do anything" = less guilty conscience = more chance of being able to deny everything successfully, should the issue of unfaithfulness ever come up.

strawberry · « **Reply #17 on:** 16 May 2010, 12:34:05 pm »

Ok thanks for that insight into the male psychie. Forgot to add - he said he wasn't with her, at the time and was just thinking they might get back together.

So explain that?

cassie · « **Reply #18 on:** 17 May 2010, 12:32:20 am »

I have been lucky so far, I have had just about ever type of TW, but not a 'look and go' guy, but I can imagine it being quite un-nerving. I suppose it's important to remember it's not you, it's the guy, whether he has bottled it or is just a TW with too much time on his hands.

After having said that it will probably be my next booking (gulp).

EmilyJones · « **Reply #19 on:** 17 May 2010, 07:27:49 am »

Quote from: strawberry on 16 May 2010, 12:34:05 pm

Ok thanks for that insight into the male psychie. Forgot to add - he said he wasn't with her, at the time and was just thinking they might get back together.

So explain that?

Relationships are complicated and it sounds like he was already getting a bit desperate trying to justify his behaviour to himself!

That said, I haven't much patience with people who don't know what they want when its only that they'd rather not admit that they want a bit of everything they can get. I have the occasional booking where the client spends the after-bonk chat telling me guiltily about his wife and newborn baby etc but I end up thinking - if you know you'll feel guilty afterwards, why do that 'bad' thing? Isn't that a really early lesson most humans learn in
life, how to have a conscience and do the right thing? I dunno, I know life is complicated but at the end of the day I'd rather not have to do any mutual wallowing in sorrow at the end of a booking! Maybe it's best if they do at least leave early - or didn't book at all, but oh well.

cindy · « **Reply #20 on:** 17 May 2010, 08:39:42 am »

Oh its as bad as queuing behind somebody in Gregs who hasnt made thier mind up what pastie they want before you get to the counter!
But the "guilt and sorrow" thing ive no time for. You have been a bad lad, you reap what you sow etc. Dont blame me, but they do! Oh well its 8.39am and its a lovely sunny morning if it rains later that will be my fault!

Alexa · « **Reply #21 on:** 17 May 2010, 10:21:35 am »

Quote from: cassie on 17 May 2010, 12:32:20 am

...a 'look and go' guy, but I can imagine it being quite un-nerving...

I had a guy almost do this. Went down to meet him, just as he was walking past my place. His face sort of fell and he just went 'Oh...' in the tone of 'You're not what I expected'. Really expected him to just keep walking, but credit to him, he stayed and it definitely could only get better!

EmilyJones · « **Reply #22 on:** 17 May 2010, 10:56:53 am »

Quote from: cindy on 17 May 2010, 08:39:42 am

Oh its as bad as queuing behind somebody in Gregs who hasnt made thier mind up what pastie they want before you get to the counter!

Arghh I was in the worst ever queue for lunch yesterday! This group of people were acting like it was their god-given RIGHT to fannyarse around til they got their IDEAL sandwich and everybody else could just starve if necessary. And there were only four sandwich options! It wasn't even like McDonalds or anything!

Er, anyway. Not that I'm still fuming or anything.

cindy · « **Reply #23 on:** 17 May 2010, 04:20:58 pm »

Lolol

sammy s · « **Reply #24 on:** 18 May 2010, 06:53:28 pm »

Jewel - did the guy who turned up at yours and tell you he was looking for someone slimmer a billy connolly look a like with a scottish accent?
i just had a guy show up at mine and he did the exact same thing and told me he was looking for someone slimmer.
I too am a size 10-12 so im not overweight and without sounding like an arrogant arse i am also a model so i must be semi attractive.
FURIOUS though. He was looking me up and down and basically told me im fat. I made him give me a small fee for wasting my time though. How dare he!!!
If he didnt fancy me or was uncomfortable etc he could have given a more tactful excuse

strawberry · « **Reply #25 on:** 19 May 2010, 09:27:19 am »

Don't worry about it a client of mine emailed to tell me he couldn't see me as I'm "fat"..........fat is a very subjective term not always related to dress size or weight.

Never mind I'm sure they'll get over whatever is bothering them.

EmilyJones · « **Reply #26 on:** 19 May 2010, 12:30:29 pm »

Quote from: strawberry on 19 May 2010, 09:27:19 am

Don't worry about it a client of mine emailed to tell me he couldn't see me as I'm "fat"..........fat is a very subjective term not always related to dress size or weight.

Never mind I'm sure they'll get over whatever is bothering them.

There's a small subculture of men who do feel that women need putting in their place, especially if they're going around FLAUNTING their sexuality and having FUN and earning MONEY - how dare they, the uppity b*tches! I would imagine that this small subculture also often fall into the category of men who need to pay for sex, which is an unfortunate irony. But as you say, it's their own mental confusion which is causing the problems, not the sexy ladies who are earning a living!

Steele · « **Reply #27 on:** 19 May 2010, 12:51:02 pm »

I wonder what is going through the heads of the stupid men who make a booking with a lady, having seen her pictures, and then go off in a huff because she's 'fat'. If you think that size 10/12 is fat you're an idiot, but surely if you prefer skinnier ladies you should be looking for them? There are plenty of size 6-8 girls out there that they could be going to.

I haven't had a client leave because of it, but a fair few of mine have complained that I'm too tall and too skinny. My pictures are accurate and un-airbrushed, and I say on my site that I'm a size 6-8 and 5'9. Shock, horror, I am not actually a size 10 and 5'4. They would waste less of our time and theirs if they looked at the pictures and read the descriptions properly.

Violette · « **Reply #28 on:** 19 May 2010, 05:14:31 pm »

Quote from: Krystal Champagne on 19 May 2010, 12:51:02 pm

I wonder what is going through the heads of the stupid men who make a booking with a lady, having seen her pictures, and then go off in a huff because she's 'fat'. If you think that size 10/12 is fat you're an idiot, but surely if you prefer skinnier ladies you should be looking for them? There are plenty of size 6-8 girls out there that they could be going to.

I haven't had a client leave because of it, but a fair few of mine have complained that I'm too tall and too skinny. My pictures are accurate and un-airbrushed, and I say on my site that I'm a size 6-8 and 5'9. Shock, horror, I am not actually a size 10 and 5'4. They would waste less of our time and theirs if they looked at the pictures and read the descriptions properly.

It does make you wonder why you even have a website with personal info on it? I get the, "Oh I didn't realize how tall you were?" I now ask them, "What part of 6ft was unclear?"This has got me thinking, I wonder if some of the clients know what a size 12 is? It would be interesting to do a scientific survey. We might be surprised(probably not). I am still willing to give me the benefit of the doubt. Stupid until proved not so stupid I suppose.

sammy s · « **Reply #29 on:** 19 May 2010, 05:30:24 pm »

I was just so fed up that he wasted my time because:
1. my profile goes into quite a lot of detail about how im a curvy girl with big boobs and a big bum etc
2. I have lots of up to date nude pictures of myself which clearly show im not a size zero
3. I state that im a size 12 twice on my profile

Id spent an hour getting ready for the booking and he had booked for 2 hours so I was looking forward to the money. GRRRRRRRRRRRRR

He kept apologising and repeating himself "that he had just wanted someone slim". He also tried to give me a kiss goodbye on his way out but I made it very clear I didnt want him touching me and he needed to leave immediately for being so rude. Oh and he asked for the bottle of wine back which he had handed me upon his arrival.

Find it quite funny now and I suppose theres no point in dwelling on it as after he left I had a booking with a new client who was full of compliments and boosted my self esteem.

xxx

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