I've a few similar clients, they're overly keen then soon as they've come they just want to get away from me a quick as possible...One young man often dashes out after rushing to get his clothes on, literally with his top inside out or back to front, bless him 


 I don't take it personally, its better when they're like that than when they get too comfortable and never want to leave!

There is this man I have been seeing for around 4 years. As soon as he is in my place he worships me and I mean really worships me, to the point of him going on his knees and kissing my feet and legs! He is all over me during the booking and while it is rather over the top it is also ok with me because that is just the way he is. He is reliable and on time and never oversteps the mark in any ways other than the excessive adulation.
When he has come the second time he will not even look at me,hardly speaks while he dresses but as I am still in the room I attempt to make polite talk rather than just have a silence. I see him to the door and it is always the same, I go to kiss him goodbye and he turns his head away so I can only kiss his cheek.


I am sure others will experience similar but how to do you deal with it? I have been on the brink of refusing bookings because it is just so rude to do that to me. This man is single, never been married or had a proper girlfriend so it cant be the guilt? Or can it?

Yes, that's also so true. 

Marital / relationship status has a lot to do with it.  If his wife / long-term partner finds out, it will wreck the marriage / relationship.  Family money being used for his "other lady" etc.      Having said that, I would still feel offended by his poor manner.   Probably, that's also his personality.  Socially incompetent.  (We can generally show appropriate behaviour at given time / place).  He ought to know his behaviour is hurting the original poster's feelings.  An idiot, still.  I bet he's like that to his wife or partner.     

I am not losing sleep over it but wanted to post about it to see others' thoughts and actions when it happens to them.

If it was a "normal" booking with this man it would not be any kind of issue with me, but the initial over the top adulation, the cuddling and "we are good friends arent we, we know each other so well and are very close arent we, would you come out one evening with me" from him, is just the polar opposite to the end of the booking just an hour later.

One time last year I did an outcall to his home, he always comes to me otherwise. I know so much about him because he is open and honest and says he trusts me without question. His mother who he lives with was away for the night and he told me that no lady has ever been in his/their home. Yes he is a mummy's boy aged 43.

Any old way I have decided to play him at his own game next time, rather than ask him outright why he ignores me. I will sit and say nothing while he dresses, not even leave the room. It should be interesting. 

Or if he irritates you that much, don't see him again. I never see a client again that I don't like for whatever reason same as they don't see us again if they don't like us x