I always thought it was crazy that some men got to the ages they were with no idea how to have sex or give oral. Why has no one in their personal lives told them. What gets me is when they say their wives won’t give them sex anymore, it’s like, yeah, no wonder, it’s either terribly bad breath, bad body hygiene or terrible in the bedroom. And obviously It’s not a case of not putting 100% effort in, because it’s their time I don’t expect them to. It’s when you can tell they’re really trying and you’re staring at the ceiling thinking, what are you doing? About 40% I’d say would hurt me with oral or fingering by accident because they didn’t know what they were doing and another 20% just weren’t good at it.

Which is why I usually guide if it's not doing the trick, sometimes it's just my body in the same way men experience ED. A demo often indicates how difficult it can be for me to come.
 

 

You are a better person than me 

I feel like I have a moral obligation to guide them in how to do it properly for the sake of their poor long-suffering girlfriends.

But I do not.

I have never come with a client and I never will do. For me it is something personal I would not wish to share with a client. So to that end it's useful when they are doing it wrong (i fake it all the time of course!). When they are are being too rough I have a 3-strikes-'gently' rule and then tell them to Get Off.

When I say moral obligation what I mean is that, as you pointed out, many clients might hope that their time with sex workers will help them improve their love making skills for use in their personal lives