I know...I’m too soft with them.

I usually say to clients, ‘can I get you a drink while you shower’ most of them are very well behaved and go and shower. What do you say to the ones that won’t.

Do you offer a limited service if they refuse to shower?

Very few of my clients shower here and most are fine. If there's any hygiene issues I would give them a wash with a hot soapy flannel (or just avoid).

Very few of my clients shower here and most are fine. If there's any hygiene issues I would give them a wash with a hot soapy flannel (or just avoid).

Same here majority are clean enough to be ready for action on arrival.

I don't like refusals from clients. It's not supposed to be a battle of wills.

If they refuse in a challenging, stroppy or 'bad way' I'd rather open the door and say, 'You must leave then'.
Once I've said that I don't accept them suddenly agreeing especially if OWO is booked.
I need compliance in a client from the start of a booking to the end and refusing polite requests in my crib is a red flag.

Even so, some of the smelliest, urine soaked clients have spent loads of time flinging the shower jell round and draining
my hot water as they simply don't know how to wash themselves.

If they are pleasantly dim and start huming and haaing about having a shower 7 hours ago but are open to the shower suggestion
I'd rather say, "you must have a shower' And they 100% apologise, grin and jump straight in.


Mostly they're suprisingly clean on arrival and I don't really want them to shower as it takes up time.
So if OWO is booked I flannel wash it, which is actually better as I can have a good scrub and examine for curiosities.
Showers are out of their time not mine.

Even if they do not want to full shower if just had 1 surely if they expect owo they must go wash there private area fully in the sink then all kinds of bacteria can be on it and they could have gone a wee since.

Some just like getting away with not washing.

My assumption is that if someone has bad hygiene, asking them to shower here won't make much difference. Most either turn up fresh or know they'll need a shower here first and ask if that will be OK.

The soap-dodgers, as said, would just fanny about or splash a bit of water on anyway.

Some soap dodgers have bad smelling croutches  .after they urinate I tell them to wash their cock so I can give them the owo.
I have a bad shower facility but I do let them use it .They don't complain it's not so powerful like a good quality hotel one.

Yes I agree dirty men are determined to stay filthy, clean men are not generally offended by being asked to shower.
They'll shower at the start and end as nice as pie if allowed.

Once you find the words and 'own it', it's easy to enforce.
Try thinking....My body, my rules VS his body, his rules.