Author Topic: Clients pouncing on you!! (Read 4835 times)

GirlyGirlx · « **on:** 23 May 2013, 01:22:25 pm »

So girls I was wondering your thoughts on this particular subject........

When I work I offer and advertise a very RELAXED GFE which does work well for me as I have a very decent, loyal clientele. I like to relax/chill in a nice candle lit atmosphere, offer them a shower and a drink then once in the room have a nice chat, give them a massage then go with the flow which is the ideal perfect meeting for me. In the year and a half I have been working I have maybe only met 6 or so men who have walked in, no conversation what so ever, no shower, no nothing despite my efforts and are all over me like a rash, hands/fingers/tongues everywhere, slobbering all over my body. I don't know about you girls but for me this makes me totally clamp up and I do not know how they cannot read my body language, I go as stiff as a board and everything is an effort, just waiting for time to be up.

For me personally I am in the business to earn enough money to open my own salon and get a deposit for a house so I offer a pretty standard "vanilla" service but that's cause its the boundaries in which I am comfortable in (what everyone else does it their business and their prerogative)

So I think with my profile guys tend to realise what I am like before even meeting me so I suppose I am lucky I have only had this problem a few times but when it does happen its bloody awful, I had it again last week and it just makes me skin crawl. If someone wants to touch me all over, slobber all over that's fine (I am an escort end of the day) I will be going in the shower afterwards anyway, its all about that first 5 minutes at the start where I try to get to know someone a tiny bit before moving on the sexual side of things, if I don't get that I just cannot do it happily.

Am I the only one who feels this way? I know some girls would rather get down to the nitty gritty rather than talk to them for whatever they're reasons may be. I do sometimes wonder if its me with the problem or if its the client. Generally I think its the client as I do this job every day and have done a year and a half and only had this issue a few times.

xx

MaddieMoo · « **Reply #1 on:** 23 May 2013, 01:53:06 pm »

I definitely like to have at least 5 mins to get a bit of a flirt in and feel like me and the client are two real people. If it's a booking longer than an hour I've really come to expect a good chat and banter and tbh haven't been disappointed yet. I'm only okay with being pounced on if it's my regs, if someone just wanted to go straight to it I'd feel really awkward so I hear you exactly! This is the same reason I no longer offer 30 min bookings.

GirlyGirlx · « **Reply #2 on:** 23 May 2013, 02:11:00 pm »

Thank goodness for that lol, I don't do half hour appointments either and I genuinely don't mind people I know/regulars pouncing straight away. I don't even class it as pouncing since we know one another and I am comfortable around them but new clients coming in with not a word to say, pouncing on me and sticking their tongue in my ear, all down my neck, boobs, stomach, pussy, EVERTHING, fingers in places, rubbing their cock all over me, pushing my head down etc etc just makes me FREEZE but like I say have no issues what so ever with that sort of thing with someone I know, I don't even notice what they are doing when I know them already.

xx

chloe94 · « **Reply #3 on:** 23 May 2013, 05:41:38 pm »

I feel the exact same way! Yes it is the job but we are people too and I certainly don't clockwatch and care about my clients' satisfaction but it's such a horrible feeling when they're just immediately all over me, it makes me freeze up too

GirlyGirlx · « **Reply #4 on:** 23 May 2013, 06:12:48 pm »

Thanks Chole I am so gald to hear I am not the only one. I know that some girls are just so good at this job that they brush things off and think I over react with things but I cant help it $:-\$

xx

Pierced Princess · « **Reply #5 on:** 23 May 2013, 08:24:46 pm »

TOTALLY agree...

It used to freak me out and I didn't know how to deal with it, then I thought, you know what? I offer a range of fairly vanilla services I am comfortable with. I don't offer roleplay, or a whole host of things I am not comfortable with, so why am I putting up with that?

My standard response now, on the rare times that happens is to back off right away, like physically just hold them back and say I don't provide that sort of service, so unless they want a sensual GFE they'll have to book someone else.

One guy asked why and was really arsey, so I said that when someone I hadn't met before launches themselves at me, it's tricky to work out whether I could get hurt in that situation; at best I feel very uncomfortable and at worst I could end up injured, and that if a guy is going to force himself on me then my gut feeling is not horniness, it's to react defensively to protect myself.

I think back to the times I didn't say anything and it makes my skin crawl just thinking about it.

Natalie xXx

GirlyGirlx · « **Reply #6 on:** 23 May 2013, 09:05:56 pm »

That's EXACTLY how I feel. I wonder how they cant read my body language though, majorly defensive and I actually have my hand on them pushing them away when they are launching their tongue down my throat, everything is an effort as your exactly right when you say its defence mode your in not sexy mode. Unfortunately a lot of men think that cause they are paying your just a slab of meat, they forget there is a human being under there and perhaps they have met girls in the past who either enjoy that sort of thing or can tolerate it so they assume we're always like that. I do now tell them that I don't offer that sort of service and I am shocked at how they assumed I would be by looking at my profile (I always ask on the phone if they are happy with what I offer)

I had a guy book me a few weeks ago for 3 hours, I lasted 20 mins and asked him to leave and threw his money at him. When I came back from my room to put the money away the first thing he said was he's just off the riggs so was horny as fu*k, I thought great but will give him the benefit of the doubt and see if he's ok (knowing that there was no way I'd be fu*king for 3 hours, if he wants that he shouldn't have chosen me) he was getting so carried away he managed to punch me in the cheek bone & poke my eye which made my eye water and my eyelash glue irritate my eye lol (disaster) He was slobbering all over me and kept puuling my hair despite the 3 warning that's I have extensions and he was hurting me, he was rough and so disrespectful I just couldn't put up with another minute of it.

It just isn't for me at all and I am delighted to hear I am not the only one who works this way.

xx

Pierced Princess · « **Reply #7 on:** 23 May 2013, 11:45:45 pm »

I think it's really easy to get in to the mindset that we have to just go through with things, due to risks of bad reviews or guys reactions / avoiding confrontation etc but I don't think it's healthy emotionally, and therefore it's not really sustainable to be doing anything that's got our spidey senses firing off!

What I have found though - which has surprised me - when you just clearly and calmy explain why you are not going to put up with something - I've had some quite unpleasant characters who have really had my adrenalin pumping literally just be like 'oh, right, sorry'. They don't expect it & they are a bit thrown by it.

Thank goodness it's a tiny minority who are like that.

It is hard though, and I'm really grateful for boards like this to be able to share. I feel like I have learned so many things from being on here, even though I've not been here that long.

Natalie xXx

strawberry · « **Reply #8 on:** 24 May 2013, 08:57:34 am »

Viva la difference is all I have to say.

I have clients who like to start with chatting, flirting, kissing, others who jump right in in a frenzy of sexual passion. Sometimes individual clients decide they fancy a change and we end up on the stairs.

I don't have a problem with it unless do something to hurt me or my belongings.

GirlyGirlx · « **Reply #9 on:** 24 May 2013, 11:39:24 am »

I don't have a problem with it either as long as its someone I know but definitely not a new client and that's because of bad experiences in the past when I first started out, It actually gives me panic attacks when they are like that, I cant help it! Also though there is nothing on my profile to give them the impression I work that way (each to their own but its just not for me) Luckily it doesn't happen often x

English Mature Nicky · « **Reply #10 on:** 24 May 2013, 02:34:33 pm »

u r right I do not like to be slobbered on either, I have been doing this for a few years now, and love to chat and slow gfe
but sometimes the guys want to get in and out , I dont mind that , but then they think u r a piece of meat which I hate

GirlyGirlx · « **Reply #11 on:** 24 May 2013, 06:22:39 pm »

Yeah the guys who want to get in and out generally book 15 min or half hour appointments so I don't do that, I only do a minimum of an hour appointment so guys who want a quick fuck and go tend not to book me which suits me well x

sadie x · « **Reply #12 on:** 24 May 2013, 06:32:18 pm »

I totally understand why you all prefer it to be slow and how you explained, but I think I'm the only one here that prefers guys to get straight in to it, it shows me straight away that there attracted to me and there's no awkward ness for me, if its an hour the first orgasm is out of the way in minutes and then everything's calmer and usually the ice broken instantly, think I'm the exception here though. Ha

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #13 on:** 24 May 2013, 11:57:47 pm »

Quote from: GirlyGirlx on 23 May 2013, 01:22:25 pm

So girls I was wondering your thoughts on this particular subject........

When I work I offer and advertise a very RELAXED GFE which does work well for me as I have a very decent, loyal clientele. I like to relax/chill in a nice candle lit atmosphere, offer them a shower and a drink then once in the room have a nice chat, give them a massage then go with the flow which is the ideal perfect meeting for me. In the year and a half I have been working I have maybe only met 6 or so men who have walked in, no conversation what so ever, no shower, no nothing despite my efforts and are all over me like a rash, hands/fingers/tongues everywhere, slobbering all over my body. I don't know about you girls but for me this makes me totally clamp up and I do not know how they cannot read my body language, I go as stiff as a board and everything is an effort, just waiting for time to be up.

For me personally I am in the business to earn enough money to open my own salon and get a deposit for a house so I offer a pretty standard "vanilla" service but that's cause its the boundaries in which I am comfortable in (what everyone else does it their business and their prerogative)

So I think with my profile guys tend to realise what I am like before even meeting me so I suppose I am lucky I have only had this problem a few times but when it does happen its bloody awful, I had it again last week and it just makes me skin crawl. If someone wants to touch me all over, slobber all over that's fine (I am an escort end of the day) I will be going in the shower afterwards anyway, its all about that first 5 minutes at the start where I try to get to know someone a tiny bit before moving on the sexual side of things, if I don't get that I just cannot do it happily.

Am I the only one who feels this way? I know some girls would rather get down to the nitty gritty rather than talk to them for whatever they're reasons may be. I do sometimes wonder if its me with the problem or if its the client. Generally I think its the client as I do this job every day and have done a year and a half and only had this issue a few times.

xx

Some clients are very horny, I had a few forward in the way you described with me. One of my favourite things.

GirlyGirlx · « **Reply #14 on:** 25 May 2013, 12:17:56 am »

Well it just goes to show we're all different

However I do think people should never ASSUME things. Its always best to get in and at least say hello before pouncing on someone. I know they are really horny but an extra 5 minutes isn't gonna kill them. I did away with shorter bookings to try to avoid this so we'll see what happens x

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