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Riverprice

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Re: When they ask if you are going to be discreet.
« Reply #15 on: 25 March 2016, 10:44:01 pm »
i get this alot but for me it makes sense as i have quite a striking/Alternative look!! But lord today i had "are you going to be clean?".... I mean  really!?
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Re: When they ask if you are going to be discreet.
« Reply #16 on: 26 March 2016, 05:29:03 pm »
Its so easy to get riled up by retarded comments and so much harder to try and turn it into something positive. Me personally, I would try and find a way to turn it into my favour and make a joke of it

Are you clean?
No, Im soooo dirty for you baby

Do you ever get fed up of sex
Yup. Cant stand sex. In fact right now my vag is dry as a dessert

Etc

But thats just me
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Re: When they ask if you are going to be discreet.
« Reply #17 on: 26 March 2016, 08:05:24 pm »
Quote from: ladyofthemansion on 24 March 2016, 11:21:43 am
My tolerance levels are definitely down at the moment. I booked someone in then it was followed by this text. "Is it discreet entrance. Don't want to be standing around looking dodgy waiting for flat no."

Once a guy asked me that same question and I texted back: "No, I have a huge  bright red neon on my building entrance that reads: "Sex for pay 2nd floor- please follow flurescent arrows "

He cracked up laughing and came to visit me.

Men   :FF
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Re: When they ask if you are going to be discreet.
« Reply #18 on: 27 March 2016, 02:26:11 pm »
Quote from: Gracious on 26 March 2016, 05:29:03 pm
Its so easy to get riled up by retarded comments and so much harder to try and turn it into something positive. Me personally, I would try and find a way to turn it into my favour and make a joke of it

Are you clean?
No, Im soooo dirty for you baby

Do you ever get fed up of sex
Yup. Cant stand sex. In fact right now my vag is dry as a dessert

Etc

But thats just me
 ;D ;D ;D


Yep I have done that on occasions...

Him: "Are you clean?"

Me: "No of course not I'm a filthy dirty whore"

Him: "What do you look like?"

Me: "Well, I'm about 30 stone, tits hang down to my belly, wrinkled face I look about 68, and my fanny stinks"

;-)
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Re: When they ask if you are going to be discreet.
« Reply #19 on: 27 March 2016, 11:02:06 pm »
I hate this too.  When they ask it i feel like saying "nope, I'm going to ring the evening standard and tell them all about it as soon as we're done"  ::)

I find it a bit annoying. I can understand them being nervous and wanting the reassurance, so I smile and reassure them.  But if they had spent any time at all looking at my ads it's pretty obvious that I'm not the kind of girl who's going to turn up in Pretty Woman boots loudly talking on the phone to her pimp.

one guy asked me if I would shower before our meeting and I cancelled him.  That's one thing that really fucking riles me.  I would only see someone after making that comment if I was desperate.
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Re: When they ask if you are going to be discreet.
« Reply #20 on: 28 March 2016, 01:12:20 pm »
I will usually ask what do they mean?

Some want to know will you tell everyone in the town.

Some want to know is there a sign outside, do neighbours know(incall)?

Some want to know will their neighbours know(outcall)?

Someone asked will the kitchen staff know (hotel incall)?

For each I have an answer. Why would I tell everyone in town, I'm a woman with a full life I'm hardly going to run out and say "Look I've just shagged that bloke for money".

Regards kitchen staff, I'd booked a hotel room for 2 nights for 3 guests, I saw one man on the second day of my stay, and the person asking was the 2nd person arriving on the morning of the final day. No other visitors, I kept to myself, did go to the bar and read my Kindle for a few hours on evening. I didn't post my exact location on any of my adverts. How would they know that I was a prossie working from the hotel?

Neighbours will only know if they've been reading my website, and even then they'd need to know I was on a 'sex' booking and not doing any of my other jobs.
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Re: When they ask if you are going to be discreet.
« Reply #21 on: 28 March 2016, 07:34:49 pm »
i am asked on occasion if the place im working in is discreet i ask them what exactly do they expect discreet to be they say " oh i dont know "!!!
so now i just say yes its discreet whatever that conjures up in their small minds  ::)
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Re: When they ask if you are going to be discreet.
« Reply #22 on: 28 March 2016, 07:59:46 pm »
Quote from: ladyofthemansion on 24 March 2016, 11:21:43 am
My tolerance levels are definitely down at the moment. I booked someone in then it was followed by this text. "Is it discreet entrance. Don't want to be standing around looking dodgy waiting for flat no."

I immediately cancelled him because today I am just not in the mood for anybody other than the normal ones who just call and book and turn up.

I'm with you on this girl....what is in the water/air atm .....odd behaviour happening in the minds of men lol  ;D
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Re: When they ask if you are going to be discreet.
« Reply #23 on: 02 April 2016, 12:20:43 am »
When I get asked if my work place is discreet, I usually tell them my neighbours don't work for the paparazzi and won't be jumping out of bushes with a high tech camera, offering to sell pics to News of the World
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Re: When they ask if you are going to be discreet.
« Reply #24 on: 02 April 2016, 05:16:36 pm »
Quote from: ladyofthemansion on 24 March 2016, 11:21:43 am
My tolerance levels are definitely down at the moment. I booked someone in then it was followed by this text. "Is it discreet entrance. Don't want to be standing around looking dodgy waiting for flat no."

I immediately cancelled him because today I am just not in the mood for anybody other than the normal ones who just call and book and turn up.

I avoid this problem simply by having it already on my profile that my place is discreet. Once they have booked I send them a text with directions and in this text I ask them : "when you're near number *** please call me very discreetly". Since I expect discretion from them from the start it tends to make them understand the place is discreet.

Sometimes it happens they call and talk really loud, nerves, excitement, whatever. I just say "hush" and it already happened to me to hang up and text them "not that loud":) They mostly get it. That God I can text real quick lol :)
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Re: When they ask if you are going to be discreet.
« Reply #25 on: 03 April 2016, 12:57:08 am »
I did do an outcall a few months back a guy who was nice and safe never any issues and visited him at a new build. He asked me if I was discreet and I said yes dressed normally and wouldn't draw any attention to myself etc. So I turned up and when I got in his house I asked him where he would like me to park in the drive or in any visitors parking, he asked what I drove and I said a van, he said the drive would be okay then he paused and asked me whats on the van any writing or signs I just said deadpan some discreet sensual massage - best massage in town. he panicked lol gawd love em..... so easy.....
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