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Re: clients message proper bugged me....
« Reply #15 on: 11 February 2016, 11:11:01 am »
Well I cancelled saying I don't need to be reminded to be clean since I'm a grown woman, and the cheeky bigger replied saying no problem I think you need to remember that u are actually a prostitute/hooker whatever you want to call it I only asked to be clean obviously that's a problem for you I'm glad were not meeting.

Omg the minute they loose respect for you as a person and start seeing you as an object is deffo the moment to get out of there. No respect for what I do at all. Xx :FF
Wow!So can you imagine what he would have been like in person?I reckon he would have been rough and nasty.Clearly he has a real dislike of sex workers and probably women in general.

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Re: clients message proper bugged me....
« Reply #16 on: 11 February 2016, 02:14:42 pm »
Never confirm a booking on aw until after it has finished.

Indeed. You Schedule the booking to say you've accepted it, and Confirm to confirm the meeting took place.

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Re: clients message proper bugged me....
« Reply #17 on: 11 February 2016, 02:49:30 pm »
Well I cancelled saying I don't need to be reminded to be clean since I'm a grown woman, and the cheeky bigger replied saying no problem I think you need to remember that u are actually a prostitute/hooker whatever you want to call it I only asked to be clean obviously that's a problem for you I'm glad were not meeting.

Omg the minute they loose respect for you as a person and start seeing you as an object is deffo the moment to get out of there. No respect for what I do at all. Xx :FF

i would have replied saying " I think you need to remember that you are an ugly fart that has to pay a prostitute to sleep with you because no one else will touch you with a ten foot pole. I'm glad we are not meeting either as you must be that hideous to have to pay for it. So you did me a favor as I probably wouldn't have been able to stomach your grotesque appearance remember , your paying me, not the other way around" But then again he probably wouldn't have texted me that as I would have just texted to cancel saying something has come up not letting him know the real reason then black list his number and never pick up his call again. I'm not one for blocking as sometimes they can get clever and notice and try call me on a diff number. This way they just think i am busy or something. And yes, i never confirm booking on AW till after the booking has taken place. They are just too psycho mehnn.

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Re: clients message proper bugged me....
« Reply #18 on: 11 February 2016, 02:49:36 pm »
Well I cancelled saying I don't need to be reminded to be clean since I'm a grown woman, and the cheeky bigger replied saying no problem I think you need to remember that u are actually a prostitute/hooker whatever you want to call it I only asked to be clean obviously that's a problem for you I'm glad were not meeting.

Omg the minute they loose respect for you as a person and start seeing you as an object is deffo the moment to get out of there. No respect for what I do at all. Xx :FF

'I'm perfectly aware what my job is, thank you. If you think any grown woman would be fine with being reminded to wash herself, you obviously haven't interacted with many adults.'
That's what I'd want to say.

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Re: clients message proper bugged me....
« Reply #19 on: 11 February 2016, 10:09:45 pm »
I'd say 'and I think you need to remember you are a John with a chip on his shoulder'
That should do it.

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Re: clients message proper bugged me....
« Reply #20 on: 11 February 2016, 11:07:08 pm »
Never confirm a booking on aw until after it has finished.

Indeed. You Schedule the booking to say you've accepted it, and Confirm to confirm the meeting took place.
i didnt know this..... no idea why i always wondered what the schedule was for haha

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Re: clients message proper bugged me....
« Reply #21 on: 11 February 2016, 11:53:38 pm »
I'm afraid I would be put off seeing a bloke that talked to me like that.As a fully grown woman I do not need to be told to wash and I also don't like crude messages like that.It tells me he is quite disrespectful.I do not ask clients to shower.I offer one if they wish to freshen up.I assume that most blokes are clean.I would only ask them to if it turned out they were not clean down there.Can you imagine his reaction if you sent a similar message to him?

I totally agree with the above. We are all grown up adults who have self-respect and are hygiene conscious.
I would ignore and block this twat and save your time for respectful men - there are plenty of them out there.
Guys I meet are 99.9% ultra clean. Only had one that had bad BO and just put a peg on my nose. Fortunately I never saw him again!

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Re: clients message proper bugged me....
« Reply #22 on: 12 February 2016, 08:58:19 am »
I'd say 'and I think you need to remember you are a John with a chip on his shoulder'
That should do it.

That's a good one, or something along the lines of;
"I'm so sorry but don't cater to misogynistic bellends, you clearly don't deserve the time of a prossie/hooker for being such a moron with your extremely poor social skills & immature outlook on sex workers"

These types get off on debasing us, it's all a nasty little power trip to get up your nose & he's succeeded. Try to laugh it off & see it as it is just a total nob with a stupid attitude. There's always a nicer "normal" client around the corner.  ;)




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Re: clients message proper bugged me....
« Reply #23 on: 12 February 2016, 09:56:45 pm »
I'd say 'and I think you need to remember you are a John with a chip on his shoulder'
That should do it.

That's a good one, or something along the lines of;
"I'm so sorry but don't cater to misogynistic bellends, you clearly don't deserve the time of a prossie/hooker for being such a moron with your extremely poor social skills & immature outlook on sex workers"

These types get off on debasing us, it's all a nasty little power trip to get up your nose & he's succeeded. Try to laugh it off & see it as it is just a total nob with a stupid attitude. There's always a nicer "normal" client around the corner.  ;)

I absolutely agree these types know what they are doing (trying to debase us).

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Re: clients message proper bugged me....
« Reply #24 on: 13 February 2016, 01:12:35 am »
He is a complete ass and an idiot and doesn't deserve your time or your company.

I share this to hopefully give you a much needed laugh--I read you title as "clients massage" and thought "oh me too, I hate it when they try and massage me because they have no clue how to give one and end up hurting or annoying me."  I think I need my eyes checked...

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Re: clients message proper bugged me....
« Reply #25 on: 29 March 2016, 11:46:54 am »
Well I cancelled saying I don't need to be reminded to be clean since I'm a grown woman, and the cheeky bigger replied saying no problem I think you need to remember that u are actually a prostitute/hooker whatever you want to call it I only asked to be clean obviously that's a problem for you I'm glad were not meeting.
I would have replied that despite you being a mere "hooker/prostitute" you are fully aware of the importance of hygiene, and therefore find it rather insulting when a stranger reminds you to wash.
What is wrong with men such obnoxious creatures!
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Re: clients message proper bugged me....
« Reply #26 on: 31 March 2016, 11:17:13 pm »
It's wierd the ones that ask us to be "extra clean" are usually the ones that have smelly Arse holes.. You know the one's smells lovely go down to the Cock area only to be meet by the smell of poo...I used to feel so embarrassed by a guy not being up to my standards .. God not no more .. Babes for the love of god wash your Arse  .. The joys ladies x

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Re: clients message proper bugged me....
« Reply #27 on: 01 April 2016, 03:43:58 pm »
Well I cancelled saying I don't need to be reminded to be clean since I'm a grown woman, and the cheeky bigger replied saying no problem I think you need to remember that u are actually a prostitute/hooker whatever you want to call it I only asked to be clean obviously that's a problem for you I'm glad were not meeting.

Omg the minute they loose respect for you as a person and start seeing you as an object is deffo the moment to get out of there. No respect for what I do at all. Xx :FF

I'm so glad you cancelled, he sounded like a complete arse.

You're right that he doesn't see escorts as people at all does he. His "be clean, I might want a lick" comment makes that pretty clear too.

Be happy you don't have to spend an hour in his company, he really sounds like one of those ones where the money wouldn't have been worth it. x
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