I'm not sure why this has bothered me so much, but I've accepted a booking from a guy hes a few good reviews so thought bugger it I'll see him he's been asking for a while so I'll give him a shot I dont work full time and my time always gets booked up fast, anyhew after we had made the booking he messages me like "can you make sure your ass and your pussy are clean i might want a lick?" like wtf, it maes me cringe and i dont know why. i do allow reverse oral, as long as theyre clean and dont smell etc and i shower before they come in and theres nothing to suggest otherwise but to tell me to ash my pussy and ass incase he fancies a lick. Maybe its jut me taking it the wrong ay but th men i usually see wouldnt be so crude. i mean they all do it but they dont sound so ewww about it lol. rant over haha

I'm afraid I would be put off seeing a bloke that talked to me like that.As a fully grown woman I do not need to be told to wash and I also don't like crude messages like that.It tells me he is quite disrespectful.I do not ask clients to shower.I offer one if they wish to freshen up.I assume that most blokes are clean.I would only ask them to if it turned out they were not clean down there.Can you imagine his reaction if you sent a similar message to him?

i just put 'youmight want to what?'
you know im not even 100% he was on about licking my pussy :/ maybe he was on about the ass :') anyway thats a no go, no anal play at all thankingyou.
i really want to cancel it and tbh i have three hours apart from him booked in tomorrow so its not like i need it. Only reason ive not cancelled so far is because i dont want bad feedback but my skins crawling already lol. honestly when i worked in a parlour ive delt with a hell of a lot worse but for some reason this guy has really stood out to me x

Have you confirmed the booking request?He really does sound like a bellend.

Maybe its not what he said but the way he said it...If I get a client ask me on the phone or in email/text if I do oral without, I say "Yes as long as you're clean" Quite a few seem to take offence at this, and sometimes I've added "I'm not being funny but as you can imagine not everyone turns up clean and you can't tell until they arrive so its at my discretion, but if you're willing to take a shower on arrival its more or less guaranteed"


 I suppose it does sound a bit rude but I've had guys turn up with actual cheese on their cocks, and/or really smelly and refuse to even wash 

Hmm, yeah i do kind of say that too well on my page it says i do kiss and my breath is always minty fresh can you please make sure you are too.
Ive sent him  message to cancel, i think we'd end up with a really bad booking if i saw him with this running through my mind. but geez

I think if you've got a bad feeling about the booking you're doing the right thing cancelling 


The other week a guy emailed me through adultwork to book an hour at 2pm the next day, I asked him to call me to arrange and all was fine, I said if he has any special requests to text me them,  he replied with "Are you sure you get tested regularly and will you dress sexily?" I was quite irritated at that point because I make a point of putting this on my page but still accepted him, I just replied with "Yes course I get tested I can show you my text from GUM clinic from the end of November saying all clear, and I always dress sexily for booking". He confirmed by text as asked before 10am that day, then at 1.55pm he texted to say "Sorry not gonna make it now".  I ignored him then he tried to book again for the next day apologising for 'letting me down!'    ha ha! I'd rather stick hot pokers in my eyeballs than see or communicate with him ever again.


So yes go with your gut instinct every time.


 

Anything like that which makes me feel uncomfortable I cancel the booking. I come first.

Never confirm a booking on aw until after it has finished.

Never confirm a booking on aw until after it has finished.

+1  This is the smartest rule I've practised since being an escort and this is coming from someone who can be pretty dim most of the time.

As soon as I start to receive these type of text messages from clients after a booking has been confirmed ( over the phone only) I know for a fact he is going to be a royal pain in the arse!

 These type of clients seem to expect a free dirty text messaging service before the booking actually takes place. They either cancel and reschedule, turn up 30 minutes early and throw a fit in the hotel lobby when you wont let them in,  expect  free overtime or have no intention of turning up.