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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: sparkly_top on 08 December 2020, 06:23:55 pm
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Hi dear,
Some who call you darling,from my experience can be good, they probably can t remember your name. The best is, if you are not sure,ask them to send an email through AW,so you can have a look on their feedback.If you can ' t, screen them more or follow your instinct.
For those in AW who don t want to give their numbers, I would ignore them. That is my opinion, but other persons could have different views.
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Addressing me with disrespectful or patronising names indictates they're either wasters, or just not the type of man I want to be alone with. I dismiss as soon as I hear such words.
Refusal to give number-from a blocked number I don't pick up.
Do you mean from emails? I don't book from emails so the problem doesn't arise. If it did- I don't give the client freedom to to dictate how he books. Refusal for any information whatsoever, I dismiss. No reply required.
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Phone - If they sound otherwise okay on the phone and pass the screening then I’m happy to book. But I do hate being called it.
Text - I require people to call me for first time contact, but if it’s a slow day I may sometimes reply directing them to my profile if they’d like to make a booking. But generally if they text with a million baby’s in the sentence then I’ll just completely ignore that text, slow day or not.
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No, no and no. If they don't address me by name then they've failed at basic manners and I don't want them in my flat; I'll make the odd exception if everything else is perfect, but not knowing my name is a dealbreaker. Anybody asking me to 'meet' or 'meet up', ditto - I'm not meeting them anywhere (and 'meet' used as a noun instead of 'booking' or 'incall' has me extremely busy for the rest of the decade).
My phone blocks withheld numbers so those ones don't get through - they have to call or text me to book and I'll get their number when they do. I wouldn't cold call or text a number they'd given me via email either way, since it could be anybody's >:(
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I don’t take phone calls, just emails. I would not engage with anyone who could not remember my name and/or addressed me as babe/sweetheart/honey etc. The only ‘term of endearment’ I will allow to a degree is ‘darling’ because it relates to my working name.
I have a long-ish name, and loathe anyone who abbreviates it or uses just the initial. I have no qualms picking clients up on either of these things should they do it. Not using someone’s name shows a fundamental lack of respect.
Lastly, I need a man’s phone number in order to screen them. No number, no appointment.
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God no, I hate people being overly familiar. Anyone who calls me babe, hun, sweetheart or anything else other than my name can fuck off, and anyone refusing to give you their phone number when they expect you to have sex with them can fuck off to the moon. So disrespectful.
I have a long-ish name, and loathe anyone who abbreviates it or uses just the initial. I have no qualms picking clients up on either of these things should they do it. Not using someone’s name shows a fundamental lack of respect.
This drives me mental. My work name is pretty short and still there are idiots who feel the need to shorten it, WHY? Also they keep spelling it wrong, there's a couple of possible spellings of it but mine is the most common one and it's literally in my email address so how they can email me spelling it wrong just baffles me.
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Also they keep spelling it wrong
This really gets my back up. Sugar. SUGAR. S U G A R. Like the stuff you put in tea. Not Suga, Sug (Am I the lead singer of Madness?), Suger or any variation. I would understand if my working name was difficult but come on now :FF
Really hate 'hun' because it seems patronising, Babe is slightly better but still gives me the heebie jeebies, baby is cringe-worthy and sweetheart is just odd to me. Just call me by my name fgs!
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I hate the word 'hun' especially when being spoken by a grown man, I have a friend who calls everyone it and over and over again, seriously it gets on my one last nerve!.
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No phone call no booking this can be at confirmation time, if made in advance but I'll have taken a deposit to secure the booking.
If other things are OK, babe, baby is fine but I find it awful in combination with poor attitude or sloppy words.
Never forget one guy who was very unreliable, messed me around, yet called me babe or hun. He himself was self-employed in a trade which will have experience of customers messing around. The disrespect was very high.
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I can’t stand it- have found the majority of TW have used the stupid pet names like ‘baby’, ‘Hun’ or ‘sexy.’
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Hi dear
This is always a waste of time, in my experience.
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This drives me mental. My work name is pretty short and still there are idiots who feel the need to shorten it, WHY? Also they keep spelling it wrong, there's a couple of possible spellings of it but mine is the most common one and it's literally in my email address so how they can email me spelling it wrong just baffles me.
I have had people calling me Cathy and Cath. It drives me mental.
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Babe/Hun for me, is like nails going down a blackboard. 99% of the time for me they are timewaters.
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Yes its not genuine if they are a new client.
A couple of regulars do call me babe or darling but I know they are more endearing so don't mind that.
I do have a couple of escort friends and they do call some of their clients babe and hun so can't really complain if clients do the same I suppose.
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So when clients call you baby or darling on text or phone call,
Do you tend to book these in or just ignore?
What about clients on AW who refuse to give you their phone number?
Thanks x
I don't like people calling me terms of endearment in general, it is overly familiar, it isn't an ignorable offence though. Not giving me their number when I request it, IS an ignorable offence.
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Wow I thought I was the only one lol. I definitely always ignore messages like “hi hun x” or “hi beautiful”. The only messages I reply to are “can I book an appointment” or “I have lots of money for you I’d like to make an appointment right now” although those types of messages are the minority unfortunately :FF
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Hi beautiful, babe, baby, dear all get immediately blocked whether by text or call.
I hang up and block so many for this. They are either timewasters or want a discount.
I put up with 'hun' because imo they don't intend any offence and it's the one 'so called term of endearment' I can stomach.
I'm strict as hell anyway ;D
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I put up with the hun/darling/baby stuff so long as they're respectful in all other ways. I also have to admit I'm occasionally guilty of it myself - when I can't remember what their name is!
I also think there's a massive distinction between this and someone expecting to come and visit you without giving a phone number. The first is bad manners, the second completely unacceptable. If they expect to have access to your body, providing their phone number (as the most minimal of safety requirements) is the absolute least they should be expected to do, in my opinion.
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No number = no booking.
I hate names like hun, baby, darling etc. If they slip it in the message somewhere as well as addressing me by my name at the start, I'll answer if the rest of the message is polite/outlines the information I ask for when contacting me. If they use them without my name, I don't even bother to reply. 99% they are going to be a timewaster.
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My most lucrative booking ever (over 5figures for overnight, 5 times my listed rate, didn't ask for it, he just handed me a wad of cash and told me not to count yet) came from someone whose initial text started off as, "hey babe, can I book for..... Had I blocked him straight away, I wouldn't be able to afford to take 2 months off and enjoy Christmas with some fancy pressies for myself.
When they start off like that, my guard goes up, sometimes if they are too much, I remind them, my name is not babe John, it's L.S.D. Usually they stop
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My most lucrative booking ever (over 5figures for overnight, 5 times my listed rate, didn't ask for it, he just handed me a wad of cash and told me not to count yet) came from someone whose initial text started off as, "hey babe, can I book for..... Had I blocked him straight away, I wouldn't be able to afford to take 2 months off and enjoy Christmas with some fancy pressies for myself.
When they start off like that, my guard goes up, sometimes if they are too much, I remind them, my name is not babe John, it's L.S.D. Usually they stop
I agree , alot of my regulars call me princess, honey and such, if its part of their fantasy or cant remember my name that is their problem. I could care less what they call me so long as they are not timewasters.
I also call some 'Sir', 'Hey Mister' and use all the smiley faces emoji i can muster. :angel:...... I have occassionally used 'yeah baby' and 'Big daddy' ;D in the so called throws of passion as this gets some to cum quickly and makes them feel appreciated and special, what ever rocks their boat and gets me my cash with little effort , i am happy to act away .
Alot of my timewaster encounters dont use terms of endearment in my personal expreience, some start of with my name and are respectful then the stupid questions start rolling out ... how much is this and that , do you offer that and the other ,i reply with 'all enquires can be cleared up on my profile' and that soon sends the unserious ones packing
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I agree , alot of my regulars call me princess, honey and such, if its part of their fantasy or cant remember my name that is their problem. I could care less what they call me so long as they are not timewasters.
Yes, but you're talking about punters who have turned up and paid - I couldn't give a toss what they call me once they're on their time either (and it's unlikely I'd even notice, to be honest).
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Tbh I don’t care what they call me once they’ve paid. However, whilst arranging a booking, yes it does annoy but I have had timewastes and genuine bookings that start like this :-*
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I send a message saying Name not babe. Then take it from there.!
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I send a message saying Name not babe. Then take it from there.!
Name not babe ;D ;D ;D
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Yes, but you're talking about punters who have turned up and paid - I couldn't give a toss what they call me once they're on their time either (and it's unlikely I'd even notice, to be honest).
Im actually referring to both punters that turn up and those trying to make a booking as I noted at end of my post below
Alot of my timewaster encounters dont use terms of endearment in my personal experience, some start of with my name and are respectful then the stupid questions start rolling out ... how much is this and that , do you offer that and the other ,i reply with 'all enquires can be cleared up on my profile' and that soon sends the unserious ones packing
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Im actually referring to both punters that turn up and those trying to make a booking as I noted at end of my post below
Yes, you did. I was responding to the paragraph at the start of your post, which is why that's the part I quoted :).
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"Princess" is especially cringe worthy and I can't stand "baby".
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Received a text today starting with ‘hello my stunning, beautiful, gorgeous baby girl...’ had to go stab my eyes after reading it :-[
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[Received a text today starting with ‘hello my stunning, beautiful, gorgeous baby girl...’ had to go stab my eyes after reading it :-[
Reading this gave me the ick 😭
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It's being called 'Honey' that I detest lol :FF
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I literally had this AW message today..
Hi baby you free today xx
Me: not now you've called me baby, no
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I also get this very occasionally, and it creeps me out.
I'm a six foot three grown man; I'm not your baby.
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Babe/Hun for me, is like nails going down a blackboard. 99% of the time for me they are timewaters.
That’s exactly how I feel too :FF makes me cringe.. Even if friends call me it too..!
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I don't know why, but 'babes' (from someone I haven't met) irritates me so much more than 'babe'.
My least favourite thing though, is someone I hardly know or haven't even met shortening my name to a nickname.
It probably annoys me way more than it should, but a guy did this recently and it really gave me the creeps - it felt as if he was trying to prematurely enforce some kind of intimacy. He was creepy in other ways too though TBF.
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Actually I don't mind babe but darling really makes my teeth itch. It just sounds condescending and reminds me of every dirty old man cliche?
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I find BBY or Baby worse than Babe or Babes.
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Yep i hate baby but it's mostly foreign men that say baby, british men mostly say babe i find.
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I know quite a few people who talk like that generally. I don't think I would like to be called Baby though.
I have one regular who recently sometimes calls me darling but never used to. I think he genuinely means it though and constantly showers me with compliments.
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Clients who call me babe or darling are almost guranteed to be creeps.
It's a big red flag when this happens.
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Babe is OK as long as they are not referring to the sweet little sheep pig :)
Anything that indicates a relationship is crap
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I don't think anyone's called me babe in person. Maybe cause I'm older than them. I've been called mommy though :)
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All those “gentlemen “ calling me babes , hun, babe and similar expression like are you free, free tonight, available , I block Instantly.
Some Werido wrote to me recently - hello Chinese doll.
Not sure how Chinese doll is related to Half white - half Pakistani woman.
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All those “gentlemen “ calling me babes , hun, babe and similar expression like are you free, free tonight, available , I block Instantly.
I'm not keen on them either. I cannot remember a single time any message like this was followed through with a call. Some behave like bots. I'm so glad I discovered the block function for messages. I get most of these types of messages at night. I usually suspect dodgy client or dodgy third world scammer.