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Nadya

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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #15 on: 09 December 2020, 10:10:57 am »
So when clients call you baby or darling on text or phone call,

Do you tend to book these in or just ignore?

What about clients on AW who refuse to give you their phone number?

Thanks x

I don't like people calling me terms of endearment in general, it is overly familiar, it isn't an ignorable offence though.  Not giving me their number when I request it, IS an ignorable offence.

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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #16 on: 09 December 2020, 05:07:20 pm »
Wow I thought I was the only one lol. I definitely always ignore messages like “hi hun x” or “hi beautiful”. The only messages I reply to are “can I book an appointment” or “I have lots of money for you I’d like to make an appointment right now” although those types of messages are the minority unfortunately  :FF

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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #17 on: 09 December 2020, 08:29:49 pm »
Hi beautiful, babe, baby, dear all get immediately blocked whether by text or call.
I hang up and block so many for this. They are either timewasters or want a discount.
I put up with 'hun' because imo they don't intend any offence and it's the one 'so called term of endearment' I can stomach.
I'm strict as hell anyway  ;D

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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #18 on: 10 December 2020, 03:15:24 am »
I put up with the hun/darling/baby stuff so long as they're respectful in all other ways. I also have to admit I'm occasionally guilty of it myself - when I can't remember what their name is!

I also think there's a massive distinction between this and someone expecting to come and visit you without giving a phone number. The first is bad manners, the second completely unacceptable. If they expect to have access to your body, providing their phone number (as the most minimal of safety requirements) is the absolute least they should be expected to do, in my opinion.

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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #19 on: 10 December 2020, 03:50:11 pm »
No number = no booking.

I hate names like hun, baby, darling etc. If they slip it in the message somewhere as well as addressing me by my name at the start, I'll answer if the rest of the message is polite/outlines the information I ask for when contacting me. If they use them without my name, I don't even bother to reply. 99% they are going to be a timewaster.

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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #20 on: 20 December 2020, 02:08:02 am »
My most lucrative booking ever (over 5figures for overnight, 5 times my listed rate, didn't ask for it, he just handed me a wad of cash and told me not to count yet) came from someone whose initial text started off as, "hey babe, can I book for..... Had I blocked him straight away, I wouldn't be able to afford to take 2 months off and enjoy Christmas with some fancy pressies for myself.

When they start off like that, my guard goes up, sometimes if they are too much, I remind them, my name is not  babe John, it's L.S.D. Usually they stop

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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #21 on: 20 December 2020, 09:16:04 pm »
My most lucrative booking ever (over 5figures for overnight, 5 times my listed rate, didn't ask for it, he just handed me a wad of cash and told me not to count yet) came from someone whose initial text started off as, "hey babe, can I book for..... Had I blocked him straight away, I wouldn't be able to afford to take 2 months off and enjoy Christmas with some fancy pressies for myself.

When they start off like that, my guard goes up, sometimes if they are too much, I remind them, my name is not  babe John, it's L.S.D. Usually they stop

I agree , alot of my regulars call me princess, honey and such, if its part of their fantasy or cant remember my name that is their problem. I could care less what they call me so long as they are not timewasters.

I also call some 'Sir', 'Hey Mister' and use all the smiley faces emoji i can muster. :angel:...... I have occassionally used 'yeah baby' and 'Big daddy'  ;D in the so called throws of passion as this gets some to cum quickly and makes them feel appreciated and special, what ever rocks their boat and gets me my cash with little effort , i am happy to act away .

Alot of my timewaster encounters dont use terms of endearment in my personal expreience, some start of with my name and are respectful then the stupid questions start rolling out ... how much is this and that , do you offer that and the other ,i reply with 'all enquires can be cleared up on my profile' and that soon sends the unserious ones packing

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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #22 on: 20 December 2020, 10:43:26 pm »
I agree , alot of my regulars call me princess, honey and such, if its part of their fantasy or cant remember my name that is their problem. I could care less what they call me so long as they are not timewasters.


Yes, but you're talking about punters who have turned up and paid - I couldn't give a toss what they call me once they're on their time either (and it's unlikely I'd even notice, to be honest).
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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #23 on: 21 December 2020, 08:31:37 am »
Tbh I don’t care what they call me once they’ve paid. However, whilst arranging a booking, yes it does annoy but I have had timewastes and genuine bookings that start like this  :-*

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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #24 on: 21 December 2020, 04:08:50 pm »
I send a message saying Name not babe. Then take it from there.!
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #25 on: 21 December 2020, 06:19:15 pm »
I send a message saying Name not babe. Then take it from there.!

Name not babe ;D ;D ;D

Zandie

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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #26 on: 21 December 2020, 10:12:39 pm »
Yes, but you're talking about punters who have turned up and paid - I couldn't give a toss what they call me once they're on their time either (and it's unlikely I'd even notice, to be honest).


Im actually referring to both punters that turn up and those trying to make a booking as I noted at end of my post below




Alot of my timewaster encounters dont use terms of endearment in my personal experience, some start of with my name and are respectful then the stupid questions start rolling out ... how much is this and that , do you offer that and the other ,i reply with 'all enquires can be cleared up on my profile' and that soon sends the unserious ones packing

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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #27 on: 22 December 2020, 02:20:56 pm »
Im actually referring to both punters that turn up and those trying to make a booking as I noted at end of my post below

Yes, you did. I was responding to the paragraph at the start of your post, which is why that's the part I quoted :).
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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #28 on: 22 December 2020, 09:43:57 pm »
"Princess" is especially cringe worthy and I can't stand "baby".

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Re: Clients calling you babe or darling
« Reply #29 on: 23 December 2020, 12:09:01 am »
Received a text today starting with ‘hello my stunning, beautiful, gorgeous baby girl...’  had to go stab my eyes after reading it   :-[